What Is It About The Swinging Lifestyle That Really Appeals To You?

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What attracts you to swinging? What do you think your favourite thing about swinging is?
Is it actually having sex with multiple/different people?
Perhaps it's the thrill of the actual chase, as in our thread The Chase, Or The Catch? and possibly knowing that other/new people may find you attractive?
Maybe it's the sexual thrill of seeing your partner with someone else?
 
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What attracts you to swinging? What do you think your favourite thing about swinging is?
Is it actually having sex with multiple/different people?
Perhaps it's the thrill of the actual chase, as in our thread The Chase, Or The Catch? and possibly knowing that other/new people may find you attractive?
Maybe it's the sexual thrill of seeing your partner with someone else?
Well its not the chase i never caught any one! haven't had sex with multi peeps, I am attracted bu the idea but still a virgin in these terms of swinging . But great friends here!
 
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For me it's definitely a thrill, with lots of new experiences e.g. group sex, various fantasies and scenarios that seem almost impossible in the 'vanilla world!'
But also, getting involved in a type of community of very open-minded people is a big attraction. Being able to freely ask 'awkward' questions or find out that people have the same ideas, thoughts, fears as you is empowering.
 
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For me it's definitely a thrill, with lots of new experiences e.g. group sex, various fantasies and scenarios that seem almost impossible in the 'vanilla world!'
But also, getting involved in a type of community of very open-minded people is a big attraction. Being able to freely ask 'awkward' questions or find out that people have the same ideas, thoughts, fears as you is empowering.
I couldn't have put it better myself (y)
 
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Meeting new people and the thrill of the prospect of indulging my wildest fantasies :smoking::spank::spankin::boobies::bj1:
 
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We love the sex with other people part and really enjoy the social aspect. How often would you go in a vanilla pub start talking to people you've never met before and then have a fantastic night with them?
 
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The freedom to be yourself and not having to guilty by finding someone sexually attractive. Also not having to worry or hide that I'm a highly sexual person is pretty good too.
I was thinking about that the other day, hiding your sexuality, not sexual orientation but the fact that sex is something you take an active interest in.

It was kinda in the context of #MeToo, where I thought, I am a very sexual person but have quite easily managed to negotiate 25 years of adult life without inadvertently [or intentionally] abusing, groping, manipulating anyone I ever met at work or in a bar or wherever... unless it was explicitly clear first that that's what we were going to do.

I appreciate that society has standards and expectations, that individuals have total rights to their own bodies - but the fact that I like sex, am passionate about it to be fair - would never be acknowledged in public. I mean, I occasionally scare people with a little inside knowledge but... tip of the iceberg. I just wouldn't start the conversation.

So on a day to day level, my sexuality is largely downplayed.

Freedom to.../freedom from...
 
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It's tricky when people like to talk about family, work, skittles, the telly... the run of the mill stuff.

Was chatting with a friend last Thursday and he said we hadn't done anything anecdote-worthy recently. And I looked at him and wanted to say, Well I have... but how do you have that conversation?
 
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The club and party scene is my main draw and I guess my ‘favourite’. I like to be seen. I like to be approached by friendly people. I adore the thrill of the chatter at the bar and the hopefulness of the big bed orgy. I’ve been very lucky to make very good friends in the scene and I’ve learnt a lot about myself, my kinks and my limits.

Please Sir. Can I have some more?
 
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Something I've noticed on various threads around the forums on similar topics such as this one, I notice some flirting going on, people telling others that they're on their list and so on but what really jumps out, is anything being done? Are you or have you done anything to arrange to meet or has it stopped at expressing to others that they're on your radar?
 
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Something I've noticed on various threads around the forums on similar topics such as this one, I notice some flirting going on, people telling others that they're on their list and so on but what really jumps out, is anything being done? Are you or have you done anything to arrange to meet or has it stopped at expressing to others that they're on your radar?

We've met people off a similar site after talking on the forum and we're hopeful to do the same off this one eventually
 
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We've met people off a similar site after talking on the forum and we're hopeful to do the same off this one eventually
Good luck to you guys, I'm sure you don't need it but, well you know.... my point was that I read the same things across all the threads and it appears nobody arranges anything and rely on someone organising a social before they possibly venture out.
 
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Good luck to you guys, I'm sure you don't need it but, well you know.... my point was that I read the same things across all the threads and it appears nobody arranges anything and rely on someone organising a social before they possibly venture out.
They probably just arrange privately sure people do meet from here
 
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Something I've noticed on various threads around the forums on similar topics such as this one, I notice some flirting going on, people telling others that they're on their list and so on but what really jumps out, is anything being done? Are you or have you done anything to arrange to meet or has it stopped at expressing to others that they're on your radar?

We are one of those couples that have said the above but its difficult to arrange a meet with a young family.
We would love to meet up with more people from here but the main issue is distance and getting someone to look after the young un. Unfortunately we can't just meet up at the drop of a hat, it takes a lot of planning! S x