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Lovernotfighter

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3 February 2016
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Well people seem to think that I am a sex fiend, aggressive and impossible to approach online...

Still bad publicity is better than none...

Now if you can excuse me please I have to go feed the homeless and other crap like that...

XxxBibaxxX
Funny since I have always been of the opinion that your a strong woman who knows what she wants, I've never thought of you as unapproachable.
 
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Well people seem to think that I am a sex fiend, aggressive and impossible to approach online...

Still bad publicity is better than none...

Now if you can excuse me please I have to go feed the homeless and other crap like that...

XxxBibaxxX

Yeah, I think that just about sums you up.....unless of course, you're absolutely determined to show me how wrong I am by remaining to be a sex fiend but being really nice to me and, far from being impossible to approach online, you keep pestering me with requests to chat to me all the time :whistle::sneaky::love::spankin:
 
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The_Bibas

Yeah, I think that just about sums you up.....unless of course, you're absolutely determined to show me how wrong I am by remaining to be a sex fiend but being really nice to me and, far from being impossible to approach online, you keep pestering me with requests to chat to me all the time :whistle::sneaky::love::spankin:
Feck off.... Lol

XxxBibaxxX
 
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On the back of @Pearls thread here; What Do You Notice what about the opposite to that question?
What do you think your online persona says about you, to others, on here?
Do you believe that how you conduct yourself on here and how you portray yourself, will have a direct and immediate effect on how people could possibly respond to you - especially for meets etc? x

Is it too easy to oversell yourself too? Hmm.
We all play an act after all - "yeah can cope with two women easy" - then get (ahem) 'anxiety performance' on the night. :D
Or, foursome situation and you're just really having to explain to them in the flesh; look I have great sense of humour online, but when meeting in real - I really am a 'Mostyn Raincoat trainspotter'. :palm: :whistle:
 
Lovernotfighter

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3 February 2016
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Is it too easy to oversell yourself too? Hmm.
We all play an act after all - "yeah can cope with two women easy" - then get (ahem) 'anxiety performance' on the night. :D
Or, foursome situation and you're just really having to explain to them in the flesh; look I have great sense of humour online, but when meeting in real - I really am a 'Mostyn Raincoat trainspotter'. :palm: :whistle:
I think I'm more likely to undersell myself online, the is always a niggling in the back of mind that people won't be interest in me or I won't perform as well as I should (okay that second ones in part because of my perfectionist ways)
 
5 July 2016
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Ossett
But Batman's just a rich man in a fancy suit, surely the gruff hero you want to be is wolverine he has knife hands.
I would quite like to give that a go actually, being a rich man in a fancy suit. It'd make a nice change from being a poor man in rigger boots :D

B x
 
5 July 2016
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Another thing is, I can edit myself online. I tend you use the wrong words or stumble and stutter more often IRL, I suppose.

I completely understand this sentiment. You can edit posts online (which I do fairly often), but can't IRL. I stumble and stutter a bit too especially when nervous. I wish I could edit what comes out of my mouth. Sometimes I think "Gawd why did I say that?" :palm: or "I wish I'd said this instead".

you're just really having to explain to them in the flesh; look I have great sense of humour online, but when meeting in real - I really am a 'Mostyn Raincoat trainspotter'. :palm: :whistle:

Yeah thanks for sowing that seed of doubt right before meeting you all this weekend............. you Git :p:rofl:

Love
The Nerdy Geeky Bloke xx
 
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Vanezza

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I completely understand this sentiment. You can edit posts online (which I do fairly often), but can't IRL. I stumble and stutter a bit too especially when nervous. I wish I could edit what comes out of my mouth. Sometimes I think "Gawd why did I say that?" :palm: or "I wish I'd said this instead".



Yeah thanks for sowing that seed of doubt right before meeting you all this weekend............. you Git :p:rofl:

Love
The Nerdy Geeky Bloke xx
I get all that, I personally just play, say what occurs to me and enjoy the moment. I really love the moments when people look at me and you can see them thinking 'He really is daft.... but I like it' :D

N xxx
 
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I do try to be me on here as in real life but nervousness and what other people may think of me good and bad can take over and not for the best sometime. .:(
 
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Sammy

For me what you see is what you get- either face to face or online

I'm like marmite love me or h

I'm big girl with bigger personality , can be tad ditzy ok maybe a big bit - all true either face to face or online

Do. I Have a brain yes I might
I have been asked why I dumb myself down online , this isn't sonething I intentionally do or was even aware of

Sometimes I speak before I think both on line and face to face -

I do have very sensible serious side which maybe isn't seen online

I do have a soft side again maybe isn't as obvious

I think many can hide behind keyboard or keyboard warrriors

Many find courage online they may not have normally

We are very lucky in this community that's we don't have trolling - people saying things that is unacceptable anywhere that in real life they wouldn't dream of doing face to face - A huge thank you to staff and admin for not allowing that to happen here
Sx
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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I think I have mentioned that what you see of Pearls is not who I am in RL, I am extremely shy and barely say a word to anyone :D
 
4 July 2017
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On the back of @Pearls thread here; What Do You Notice what about the opposite to that question?
What do you think your online persona says about you, to others, on here?
Do you believe that how you conduct yourself on here and how you portray yourself, will have a direct and immediate effect on how people could possibly respond to you - especially for meets etc? x
Oh yes, absolutely.

Probably why there's piles of sub bottoms hanging around.
 
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Deleted member 5247

I try to be as true to myself as possible but you’ll probably not get a flavour of the unreserved Lenny until I find my feet here. Then you’ll probably wish I hadn’t :lol:

Face to face I have a real potty mouth and the manners of a sailor who’s been at sea too long. I blame that on the rum generally!
 
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I try to be as true to myself as possible but you’ll probably not get a flavour of the unreserved Lenny until I find my feet here. Then you’ll probably wish I hadn’t :lol:

Face to face I have a real potty mouth and the manners of a sailor who’s been at sea too long. I blame that on the rum generally!
Now that's what we're talking about :D ;) x
 
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Terryg

Generally daft.. tho I'm finding myself slowly.. even at my age!
It's important to laugh.. especially at yourself.

Tx
 
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