Spanking , Flogging And More

[Carpediem2008]

We have (and still are!) Building this side of fun..... Personally we find as long as you warm the area up, like rub the cheek, then smack it brings blood to the surface so takes the owchty out but leaves the sting, then with each time you do it get harder and harder till it's 'safe word' time!!!
I smiled at work the other day when I knew Mr J would be reminded of me every time he went to sit down x

Why do I get the sudden urge to misbehave...

 

[.Jophanie.]

Why do I get the sudden urge to misbehave...

.......... Ha ha..... No idea!!!!

 

[Lips_Pearls]

.....I think I have further potential to be 'wicked' @Lips_Pearls .... definitely!!!!

I completely believe you x

 

[Vanezza]

I love it and Neil has a particlar belt that if he snaps it in his hands i litterally can't look away. We have floogers, riding crop, paddles we do go with the flow but have a safe word or is it when i just flinch and move out the way :hmm:

Vxxx

 

[Antogs]

.....I think I have further potential to be 'wicked' @Lips_Pearls .... definitely!!!!

:spank::mwah:

Antogs XX

 

[Deleted member 5247]

I’m in no way a pain whore. However I love a flog, a spank and a firm hand. As soon as I have to shout ouch though the fun stops!

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Spanking flogging etc etc

Do you enjoy it

Is there a right way and a wrong way

What are there basic no nos and rules that should never happen

What do you use for spanking - is there different techniques used for using different implements e.g. Crop paddle cane , flogger , hand

Do you just go with instinct or did you research learn then try

Sx

Not sure if there's a right or wrong way as everyone is different, but it's great fun and it's amazing to see so many more people getting to spread their wings further.
I find instinct is always best for us. I research on @Pearls
But genuinely I think as long as everyone is relaxed and communicate properly, in an ideal world, things should be okay.
As I've mentioned before, we have lots of things but I am really enjoying using the simplest of all; a belt. But I have to make sure I am really in control and don't lose myself in the moment as I know it can and will hurt - a lot - otherwise. x

 

[Antogs]

Quite simply, in my humble opinion, the key spanking, flogging or any other potential pain inducing activity is communication
If people communicate with each other then there should never be a problem.

We all (or at least most of us I think) like to push boundaries but if I was being subjected to any kind of punishment and the pain began to feel more unpleasant than pleasurable then I would simply say enough and expect that to bring an end to it.
And the same applies if I was the one dealing out the pleasure/pain

Everyone’s pain threshold is different and everyone reacts differently to different levels of pain.
So each person will only find out where there “sweet spot” is through experimenting.
That’s why no definitive answer can be given to the question of how hard to slap/spank/flog can be given as we’re all different. So, my advice (for what it’s worth) is start off reasonably gently and slowly build up until it feels right. Common sense really although I can understand newcomers to the “sport” might get a bit carried away.

I’ve not mentioned trust as to me that’s something that I would expect people to have enough common sense to not have to be told that trust is, of course, an absolute prerequisite.

So, play nicely children or daddy will have to take you over his knee and give you a good spanking :collar:

Antogs xx

 

[Lulu]

Never tried it, I was slapped once on my ass but my natural reaction to that was hit him across the face

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Never tried it, I was slapped once on my ass but my natural reaction to that was hit him across the face

x

 

[Therapon]

Never tried it, I was slapped once on my ass but my natural reaction to that was hit him across the face

Not sure that's quite the right approach but hell it made me laugh.

 

[Pearls]

Not sure that's quite the right approach but hell it made me laugh.

I may try it

 

[Therapon]

I may try it

Let us know what happens when you do

 

[Pearls]

Let us know what happens when you do

I may not be around to tell the tale

 

[AutumnH]

Bumpety bumping the thread.

I love being spanked - being bent over a table or bed and having my arse beaten is wonderful.
I'm still exploring this side, slowly working my way up to paddles, floggers... there's only so much Sir's hand can take

 

[MP386]

Bumpety bumping the thread.

I love being spanked - being bent over a table or bed and having my arse beaten is wonderful.
I'm still exploring this side, slowly working my way up to paddles, floggers... there's only so much Sir's hand can take

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[Pearls]

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You taking a beating

 

[MP386]

You taking a beating

Err no I was think dishing it out .... but I was abused but you shouldn’t don’t dish it if you can’t take it

 

[Annnik]

Spanking is fun.... Especially when ya tied down and can't stop them. It feels goooooood
Always go wi the flow

 

[Annnik]

Err no I was think dishing it out .... but I was abused but you shouldn’t don’t dish it if you can’t take it
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Wow ya have been spanked

 

[MP386]

Wow ya have been spanked

I was beaten with a piece of wooden dowel that’ll teach me to find things in the back of my van to use on a certain ladies bare bum ... she definitely gave as good as she got

 

[Agile]

My version of the Rorschach Test

 

[Pearls]

My version of the Rorschach Test

That’s too far even to my liking and I don’t mind pain. Just too far in my opinion but others could disagree

 

[Agile]

The bottom didn't agree with you, I however did

 

[Lips_Pearls]

That’s too far even to my liking and I don’t mind pain. Just too far in my opinion but others could disagree

The bottom didn't agree with you, I however did

Been in this situation myself.