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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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On the back of this; Things You Do & Don't Do As A Couple.

Sounds so bloody obvious doesn't it?

But it's not. :D

What are the ultimate things you will do and will not do as a swingle in the scene?
Yes we know that most will stick to certain rules and limits, but we thought why not have a little thread to chat about these kind of things.
Could be no kissing, could be no anal, could be no full swap - or it could be have to kiss, have to full swap, have to enjoy anal.
I know there's similar threads around, but this is specifically what you will and will not do. ;) x
 
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fincon

fincon

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Lips_Pearls said:
On the back of this; Things You Do & Don't Do As A Couple.

Sounds so bloody obvious doesn't it?

But it's not. :D

What are the ultimate things you will do and will not do as a swingle in the scene?
Yes we know that most will stick to certain rules and limits, but we thought why not have a little thread to chat about these kind of things.
Could be no kissing, could be no anal, could be no full swap - or it could be have to kiss, have to full swap, have to enjoy anal.
I know there's similar threads around, but this is specifically what you will and will not do. ;) x
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OK, even with the ‘usual caveat’ aired… I genuinely don’t think I can answer this question without merely saying “erm, what I’d do and not do anyway”, my pretences about sex, I mean. There’s nothing I would/wouldn’t do sexually while swinging that I wouldn’t/would do as part of an outside sexual relationship.

OK, yes, swinging leaves open what I’d do with a couple… and yes, of course there are things I will and won’t do… no same bi- stuff with another man, for example.
 
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Stew

Stew

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What I don’t do is try and collect notches on bedposts with kinda meaningless sex, if I’m doing it without a connection I may as well not bother !! And it’s not what swinging is about tbh
What I do is like to get to know someone and make the experience a good one for both parties!
My likes are pretty well known or are on my profile !
Dislikes are inflicting extreme pain, anything illegal and beetroot :tiphat:
 
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Stew said:
What I don’t do is try and collect notches on bedposts with kinda meaningless sex, if I’m doing it without a connection I may as well not bother !! And it’s not what swinging is about tbh
What I do is like to get to know someone and make the experience a good one for both parties!
My likes are pretty well known or are on my profile !
Dislikes are inflicting extreme pain, anything illegal and beetroot :tiphat:
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Beetroot pmsl xx
 
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Lips_Pearls said:
On the back of this; Things You Do & Don't Do As A Couple.

Sounds so bloody obvious doesn't it?

But it's not. :D

What are the ultimate things you will do and will not do as a swingle in the scene?
Yes we know that most will stick to certain rules and limits, but we thought why not have a little thread to chat about these kind of things.
Could be no kissing, could be no anal, could be no full swap - or it could be have to kiss, have to full swap, have to enjoy anal.
I know there's similar threads around, but this is specifically what you will and will not do. ;) x
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Things I will do: lots of flirtatious foreplay, take control, go with the flow and be adventurous in exploring

Things I don’t do: Anal, pain beyond a gentle limit.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Leonidas480

Leonidas480

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One thing I've learned since I started swinging is that "any hole is not a goal", to put it crudely. I have, with a little regret, played with a few people I was not particularly attracted to... merely to fulfil a physical need. Afterwards I felt slightly depressed about it. Not particularly recommended.

On the back of that... I've also played with people without much chat / build-up / foreplay... while it's a slightly better scenario than the one above, it can still often result in an empty experience.

So while I'm not in anyway against playing with people on a 'one-off' basis, the experience is normally so much better if I make an effort socially and there is some chemistry and a build-up.
 
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Antogs

Antogs

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Will do:
Be polite
Be honest and upfront
Be respectful of the wishes of others
Cater to any sexual preferences (including the kinky stuff)

Won't do:
Go behind any partners back
Have sex with another man

Antogs xx
 
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