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TogNMuse

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Lips_Pearls said:
You went to a Swinging club?
What did you see, where was it, did you get up to any naughtiness and did you enjoy?
Would you go back or not? X
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Couple of weeks ago, and we're off to another local one on Saturday; we love our club nights, and not purely for the play! We've made a really great group of friends who we just love spending time socialising with, as much as we do playing.

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Welshcouple59 said:
March 2019, Xstasia, real eye opener. Saw bondage, people having oral sex. We didn’t get upto any naughtiness, well not in the club anyway lol. We would definitely go back xx
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Fantastic. Sounds like a good time then! Yeah Xtasia was a great evening for us too. :) x
TogNMuse said:
Couple of weeks ago, and we're off to another local one on Saturday; we love our club nights, and not purely for the play! We've made a really great group of friends who we just love spending time socialising with, as much as we do playing.

Tog
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Brilliant. Sometimes, club nights can simply be the best of times indeed. Especially when you have a rapport with someone.
Lace said:
Been a long time, Chams probably the last, the best fun would have had to have been the Bridgend, Swansea, Newport and Cardiff socials.
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Yes great fun indeed. X
Pearls said:
Omg don’t mention the Swansea one, I’m sure @sthwalescpl will remember Mr A pulling more than he bargained for when he got on the dance floor with the blonde bombshell :whistle::rofl:
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Really? :cautious: :censored:
In fairness that last one was great fun Xx :D

MP386 said:
You probably don’t want to know about my recent club experiences..... Disappointing is an understatement...which is why I probably won’t be doing any soon .... :tiphat:
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That’s a shame indeed. Always hit and miss I guess. Depends totally on the people there and if there are any cliques too. Sadly the cliques cause the most damage as they won’t then be inclusive which affects someone’s experience.
 
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Xtasia, SS 4th Birthday Bash.
Only 2nd ever visit to a club, very different to 1st.
Didn't play, but allowed ourselves to be enlightened (?) by the venue and it's atmosphere.
Always been too scared to even contemplate actually going. Cliches and stereotypes are powerful influences.
I was so excited to discover how easy it is to just meet people and chat, no pressure at all, just a great night with friends we'd made already and those we met there.
We spent most of 1996-2000 (and many after that) in big clubs on expensive nights out and I've felt like I'm in a butcher's window if I dared go to the bar alone. I felt so comfortable at Xtasia as everyone was there to let go, not just to get fucked (sorry) - (though, of course, many did!).
We saw things we'd only seen on TV, and that was fine. Wasn't ready to join in, and no one minded!
That said, we went on the couples only night. I've heard enough about singles nights to know that I dont fancy that. I loved what we experienced, and that is what I want again. Sorry to ramble, but I know I could have done with hearing that before we went, I was so nervous we almost didn't go. XxRy
 
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Ahabs said:
rying to reconcile the two statements
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Sorry, I seem to have contradicted myself. I've always avoided Swinging clubs, for the reasons given. I.e. If regular night clubs are like cattle markets, WTF can I expect there? However, after meeting members of SS at "1st Saturday Social" meets, I was eager to enjoy the company of our new friends, regardless of venue. After all, it was a night to celebrate the reason we'd met.
We went on night 2, for couples only. This eased my apprehension.
Hearing that the previous evening had felt very different, though I'm sure everyone had a great time, as a couple, I was glad we'd waited. There was lot's of flirting (and I must admit I met someone I'm particularly attracted too), but I felt no expectation. Even when at the bar, chatting to a guy (I hope he remembers), I was surprised and flattered that when discussing what we were looking for in the future, and that there was no intention of a single guy involved, he still wanted to chat. He didn't just "want a shag". I would now rather go there for a night out than any regular nightclub, we would just prefer to attend couples only events.
Somewhere with an etiquette, it felt so much safer than a night on the town. XxRy
 
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Lips_Pearls said:
You went to a Swinging club?
What did you see, where was it, did you get up to any naughtiness and did you enjoy?
Would you go back or not? X
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Spa? Three years ago, I think. The Paradise Spa in Barking (which has now closed).
Club? Four years ago, I think. Eurekas - a birthday party. Some soft play, but nothing serious.

Highly unlikely I’d go again, but unlike my usual answer, this one would depend on circs. On more than one occasion previously, I went with someone (not as a ‘couple’) who would have asked me because they were too nervous to go on their own the first time.
 
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MP386 said:
It is a swingers /naturist club so there are naked people around ....
that includes play , the club is no worse than any I’ve visited in the past ,it’s typical of most venues ...
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I was aware of it and embraced it
Its not an issue with me at all just saying how it was for me.
Don't care if everyone was naked
 
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MP386 said:
It is a swingers /naturist club so there are naked people around ....
that includes play , the club is no worse than any I’ve visited in the past ,it’s typical of most venues ...
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Perhaps you thought I meant not impressed by the naked people not in the slightest
I was not impressed by the whole club and that is my opinion
Where did it say I was bothered it does not more the merrier
Everyone will have their opinion on a club that's mine and I am not stupid
 
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diamondseekingrock2020 said:
Perhaps you thought I meant not impressed by the naked people not in the slightest
I was not impressed by the whole club and that is my opinion
Where did it say I was bothered it does not more the merrier
Everyone will have their opinion on a club that's mine and I am not stupid
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Where did I say you were stupid ?‍♂️
Everyone is entitled to have an opinion yes I was just saying it’s not that bad a club in comparison with others ...
 
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MP386 said:
It is a swingers /naturist club so there are naked people around ....
that includes play , the club is no worse than any I’ve visited in the past ,it’s typical of most venues ...
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You said first line as if I was stupid and did not know that's what swinger's clubs were
I had been pre warned that naturists use the club
Nakedness is great
Too cold for me
Unless in sunnier climes
I also knew what the club was for same as any swinger's club
 
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