As part of a Couple, Do you play alone ???

[busty_n_lusty]

We do play alone, mainly when Lusty is away with work as this can be for months. To begin with i didn't like the idea of it but was encouraged by Lusty to do so. If i feel i want to i do now and don't feel bad and Lusty loves hearing about it!

Yet when he is home we 95% play as a couple although i do have free reign to play alone if i want but i don't very often at all and if i do its only usually fluffing haha!!!

Each relationship is different but unfortunately some people aren't so honest in their relationships x

 

[UnknownPleasures]

We have a very open and honest relationship. I haven't read all of this thread (just joined tonight) but wanted to say that I have played alone with single guys but only after we've played as a threesome (or moresome).
We are all individuals and seek different experiences from swinging. There is no right or wrong with this, in my honest opinion x

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

We mainly play together but I've quite enjoyed Mrs Grind meeting guys we already know alone on occasion when we've indulged in cuckold play but generally speaking we meet & play together.

Mr Bump

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Weve played with the female half of a couple, in a club, her partner was there he only wanted to watch.. it did feel a little odd to me, i sort of felt sorry for him sat in a corner if that makes sense, but it was what he wanted.
She wanted to continue meeting me alone shopping and fun. I did consider it but didnt carry it through.

We also had the female half of a couple, stay over.. her hubbie dropped her off, and met us. He just wanted saucy photos..
We as a couple dont meet alone.. double standards perhaps..
its complicated this swinging lark

 

[Fetishswingers]

Respecting each individual and or Single or Couple/s Limits & Boundaries surely ?
Same as meeting some who smoke others who do not ? Choices As consenting Adults ?
The other BIG ONE Some can Only do Bare Back Some who Donr but not everyone give a blow job wit the male having a condom on mmm STDs still can be transmitted again getting to know/personal choices Limits & Boundaries to be respected ?
OMg A can of worms opened

 

[Fetishswingers]

For the record now days there are many different relationships that work and to add We have and works very well an Open Relationship along with friends who are happily married 20 years + do and operate the same. xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

For the record now days there are many different relationships that work and to add We have and works very well an Open Relationship along with friends who are happily married 20 years + do and operate the same. xx

Yeah its certainly varied and thats an understatement.. !!

As with all swinging activity.. id say COMMUNICATION is key one persons heaven is another persons hell. X

 

[Fetishswingers]

SECURE - COMMUNICATION - TRUST - OPEN - HONESTy - LEVEL PLAYING FIELD FOR BOTH MALE FEMALE YES Hun to name a few LOL xx

 

[Fetishswingers]

As a single gent, I play alone!

PMSL

 

[meet_the_fockers]

As a single gent, I play alone!

Tit!

 

[Admin]

As a single gent, I play alone!

Solo Artiste!

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Views of a newbie/single guy

My only time at a swing club, i got chatting to a couple, and they explained that sometimes they played together, and other times on their own.
They both seemed very comfortable with the arrangement.
I ended up playing alone with the lady, and she shared how exciting her husband would find it later when she told him what she had been up to.

This thread has a few posts stating what people define 'Swinging' as, which i find interesting.
As a complete newbie and not having experienced the growth/change of the last 10/20 years, i tend to look at peoples views on swinging in the same way i see a lot of other opinions in life, and thats that people often like to put things neatly into boxes. It happens all to often with opinions on what is right and wrong, and can easily become judgemental. When I think about those not in this lifestyle, and you will no doubt have heard the stereotypes, I just think about how wrong they get it, but its easier if for people to keep it nice and tidy.

For me the most important thing is, and you will read this in relation to every Swinging club, and that is that people are allowed to make their own judgement on what they are comfortable with, and as long as you respect other peoples boundaries, opinions etc, then everyone should have a good time.

Whilst i wasnt around in the 60s, swinging to me has the same vibe as the 'free love' that is so often referred to from back then. I like to look at it in that context, because thats how it feels, and it sounds like people were less uptight back then (maybe thats just how its made out on the tv)
Its just about removing the barriers that society puts up around what is and isnt acceptable, and allowing consenting adults to live their lives in the manner they choose.
When reading through the other posts, that is a real mix of approaches, and i think thats great and should be celebreated and just how it should be, and thats what swinging is to me - all of the above.

Anyway, thats my ramble - hope my views have not caused any offence.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Views of a newbie/single guy

My only time at a swing club, i got chatting to a couple, and they explained that sometimes they played together, and other times on their own.
They both seemed very comfortable with the arrangement.
I ended up playing alone with the lady, and she shared how exciting her husband would find it later when she told him what she had been up to.

This thread has a few posts stating what people define 'Swinging' as, which i find interesting.
As a complete newbie and not having experienced the growth/change of the last 10/20 years, i tend to look at peoples views on swinging in the same way i see a lot of other opinions in life, and thats that people often like to put things neatly into boxes. It happens all to often with opinions on what is right and wrong, and can easily become judgemental. When I think about those not in this lifestyle, and you will no doubt have heard the stereotypes, I just think about how wrong they get it, but its easier if for people to keep it nice and tidy.

For me the most important thing is, and you will read this in relation to every Swinging club, and that is that people are allowed to make their own judgement on what they are comfortable with, and as long as you respect other peoples boundaries, opinions etc, then everyone should have a good time.

Whilst i wasnt around in the 60s, swinging to me has the same vibe as the 'free love' that is so often referred to from back then. I like to look at it in that context, because thats how it feels, and it sounds like people were less uptight back then (maybe thats just how its made out on the tv)
Its just about removing the barriers that society puts up around what is and isnt acceptable, and allowing consenting adults to live their lives in the manner they choose.
When reading through the other posts, that is a real mix of approaches, and i think thats great and should be celebreated and just how it should be, and thats what swinging is to me - all of the above.

Anyway, thats my ramble - hope my views have not caused any offence.

Oooooo get you! Not just a pretty pair of pecs are you... Good post.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Its Resident Tit to you!

Oh i beg your pardon.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Yes...well said @RobbieFutuo wise words indeed. Ladies and gentlemen...let's hope he represents the next generation of single male swingers. With ideology like that, our lifestyle will be in safe hands.

oh shurrrrup

 

[Admin]

Views of a newbie/single guy

My only time at a swing club, i got chatting to a couple, and they explained that sometimes they played together, and other times on their own.
They both seemed very comfortable with the arrangement.
I ended up playing alone with the lady, and she shared how exciting her husband would find it later when she told him what she had been up to.

This thread has a few posts stating what people define 'Swinging' as, which i find interesting.
As a complete newbie and not having experienced the growth/change of the last 10/20 years, i tend to look at peoples views on swinging in the same way i see a lot of other opinions in life, and thats that people often like to put things neatly into boxes. It happens all to often with opinions on what is right and wrong, and can easily become judgemental. When I think about those not in this lifestyle, and you will no doubt have heard the stereotypes, I just think about how wrong they get it, but its easier if for people to keep it nice and tidy.

For me the most important thing is, and you will read this in relation to every Swinging club, and that is that people are allowed to make their own judgement on what they are comfortable with, and as long as you respect other peoples boundaries, opinions etc, then everyone should have a good time.

Whilst i wasnt around in the 60s, swinging to me has the same vibe as the 'free love' that is so often referred to from back then. I like to look at it in that context, because thats how it feels, and it sounds like people were less uptight back then (maybe thats just how its made out on the tv)
Its just about removing the barriers that society puts up around what is and isnt acceptable, and allowing consenting adults to live their lives in the manner they choose.
When reading through the other posts, that is a real mix of approaches, and i think thats great and should be celebreated and just how it should be, and thats what swinging is to me - all of the above.

Anyway, thats my ramble - hope my views have not caused any offence.

An excellent post indeed. Now that's a statement!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Spheroids to you Mrs

Prep H

 

[Fetishswingers]

Views of a newbie/single guy

My only time at a swing club, i got chatting to a couple, and they explained that sometimes they played together, and other times on their own.
They both seemed very comfortable with the arrangement.
I ended up playing alone with the lady, and she shared how exciting her husband would find it later when she told him what she had been up to.

This thread has a few posts stating what people define 'Swinging' as, which i find interesting.
As a complete newbie and not having experienced the growth/change of the last 10/20 years, i tend to look at peoples views on swinging in the same way i see a lot of other opinions in life, and thats that people often like to put things neatly into boxes. It happens all to often with opinions on what is right and wrong, and can easily become judgemental. When I think about those not in this lifestyle, and you will no doubt have heard the stereotypes, I just think about how wrong they get it, but its easier if for people to keep it nice and tidy.

For me the most important thing is, and you will read this in relation to every Swinging club, and that is that people are allowed to make their own judgement on what they are comfortable with, and as long as you respect other peoples boundaries, opinions etc, then everyone should have a good time.

Whilst i wasnt around in the 60s, swinging to me has the same vibe as the 'free love' that is so often referred to from back then. I like to look at it in that context, because thats how it feels, and it sounds like people were less uptight back then (maybe thats just how its made out on the tv)
Its just about removing the barriers that society puts up around what is and isnt acceptable, and allowing consenting adults to live their lives in the manner they choose.
When reading through the other posts, that is a real mix of approaches, and i think thats great and should be celebreated and just how it should be, and thats what swinging is to me - all of the above.

Anyway, thats my ramble - hope my views have not caused any offence.

Well Said Here Sir
Everyone should respect others Limits & Boundaries without question or Judgement Here Here xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Thats for clearing asteroids!

Clingon.. hahaha

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Clingon.. hahaha

Goodnight dude.

 

[Pearls]

Brilliant post Mr @RobbieFutuo xx

 

[peakcouple]

We swing as a pair and stay together most of the time but have ended up in separate rooms at clubs and parties, sometimes one-on-one and sometimes with separate groups (when looking for Rose at the end of the night you can always tell which playroom she's in by her noises!). On the very same night as our first full swap experience, we ended the night playing in separate playrooms with others, another 'first' and unintended too. Very occasionally we've had casual encounters when the other wasn't there, such as him away on business, her at festivals. Neither of us are upset about this, it's how we are. Our only rule is that we talk about it afterwards and don't try to keep things quiet.

 

[Deleted member 1402]

The only time I've played with one half of a couple alone was when I was in a poly relationship. His wife encouraged it.
I was a little uncomfortable at first, but when I knew she genuinely liked and trusted me to be alone with her hubby, it became a regular thing..

 

[peakcouple]

The only time I've played with one half of a couple alone was when I was in a poly relationship. His wife encouraged it.
I was a little uncomfortable at first, but when I knew she genuinely liked and trusted me to be alone with her hubby, it became a regular thing..

We have a single woman friend who plays with us and sleeps over occasionally, Rose will get up and leave the house now and again, leaving Geoff and the friend in bed together. No problems about this from any of us, the friend accepts Rose isn't going to get jealous or possessive, Geoff isn't in love with the friend and after all we sleep FMF when she's here. Nice when partners are comfortable about the other playing while they're not there,

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Hmm we play with a *lady* ahem
Who is not single.. we have his blessing he activly encourages it.. yes he does know we have met him.. and plan on meeting them both, socially.
I have played alone, with ladies.. but not.. if that makes sense..mr F is always in the vicinty..
I do meet girlfreinds for coffee etc, only, alone, but these are ladies whom, Mr F has met before.