Never really concidered seperate rooms as playing alone. However reading this tread and from what little experence we have. I can see how it would be concidered as such.
Plus you miss out on sharing the experence with your partner no right or wrong just my personal opinion Lew
The first post by TGBS2015 suggests yhat if one member of the couple isnt there then they consider it cheating.
The A-Team make the point that "a couple playing alone away from their partner (like if bob is downstairs at a party and im playing alone upstairs) is something that would feel like an affair and "not in the spirit of swinging".
Even the post by RobbieFutuo points out that there are posts from people "defining what swinging is".
I did get upset by some of those posts, because the definition some people put on swinging made me feel that their definition of me would be I was cheating.
I know the comments weren't aimed at me, some of thwm were made before Me and Mr @2ofus even joined the site.
Im also sorry that Mr's post seems to have caused upset of its own, I only asked him to explain how some of them were making me feel in case they had the same effect on anyone else. I know he'll be sorry too when he reads the replies, he wrote it between meds earlier and it looks a lot stroppier in black and white than it soundwd when he read it to me. I guess the way I read the posts made them sound stroppier in my head than they were intended when they were posted, too, its justy interpretation I suppose, but the term playing alone I took to include separate rooms, or playing with one half of a couple or a single man/lady at a party rathwr than Mr and me both playing in the same room at the same time, and there does seem to be a lot of statements suggesting people see that as not in the spirit of swinging and more of a personal indulgance.
hopefully by now you all know how Mr and me both feel about thw site and all of you, nand know I geniunley mean it when I say that if we have upset any of you we really do apologise
Mrs @2ofus xx
We as a couple tend to think of swinging as having sexual activities with others with full knowledge and consent of your partner,
I wouldn'tI wonder how many people have changed their dynamics since starting swinging and who know can play separately/alone..
I just couldn't, I understand the whole swap thing as that is how swinging started, it's simply not something we could consider ever, for us there are some things sacred between usWe wouldn't want you to!x
Ha.. more than many realiseI wonder how many people have changed their dynamics since starting swinging and who know can play separately/alone..
If Vanessa wanted to go for a solo meet I would be surprised but I would never stop her.Ha.. more than many realise
Aye cherish what you have. After all, we never how long we have it for.If Vanessa wanted to go for a solo meet I would be surprised but I would never stop her.
I sometimes think about pickups but wouldn't do that to V because I love her more than I love my own life.
N xxx
I wonder how many people have changed their dynamics since starting swinging and who know can play separately/alone..
In hindsight, I'm glad we kept to playing as SINGLES, otherwise, it would have been a very inactive 9 years if we chose to only play with couples as a couple.
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