I did, its quite outdated and a lot of new information isnt covered and pretty much the same information that is on most clinics websites.
This is where most problems occur, getting to know someone is great but what if they are playing bare back with others, they come back to you and boom Std, people fall for this all the time. Never take the chance unless you have good reason to do soFor me I would rather be safe once you have had some time with that person and know them then it has to be a mutual agreement otherwise who knows
Never would so the understanding would be the same between both parties otherwise I would notThis is where most problems occur, getting to know someone is great but what if they are playing bare back with others, they come back to you and boom Std, people fall for this all the time. Never take the chance unless you have good reason to do so
Never would so the understanding would be the same between both parties otherwise I would not
Yes to bothWhen you say get to know them do you mean just as a person or playing exclusively or as a couple and go and get tested together?
I dont think you can take a chanceBeen to the TD
Yes to both
There is risk... and there is the perception of risk. The two are not the same.I did, its quite outdated and a lot of new information isnt covered and pretty much the same information that is on most clinics websites.
There is risk... and there is the perception of risk. The two are not the same.
I mean, the safest thing to do is never to leave your house and don't talk to strangers... but we're all adults here and the best thing you can do is Say KNOW.
At the end of the day for a male its the same glove or not glove all the wayYes but what we are saying is why increase the risk massively by not using condoms when you can cut the risk to nearly zero by using them.
Its like sky diving without a parachute, you might survive but....
Again, that's not a brilliant comparison. Your chances of dying are so high it would be suicidal to try it on the off-chance of being in the 0.001% that survive such situations. Your odds of dying from unprotected sex are not 99.999%Yes but what we are saying is why increase the risk massively by not using condoms when you can cut the risk to nearly zero by using them.
Its like sky diving without a parachute, you might survive but....
Again, that's not a brilliant comparison. Your chances of dying are so high it would be suicidal to try it on the off-chance of being in the 0.001% that survive such situations. Your odds of dying from unprotected sex are not 99.999%
I am genuinely not advocating unprotected or protected sex - just good stats
It's like when Prof. Nutt said that taking ecstacy on the weekend was about as dangerous as horse riding. The press and politicians went nuts (excuse the pun) and he lost his job.Is there a banging head emoji?!?
Its NOT about dying.. its about something bad happenign.. again the sayings arent about you dying.. You are taking the sayings literally when they arent.
It's like when Prof. Nutt said that taking ecstacy on the weekend was about as dangerous as horse riding. The press and politicians went nuts (excuse the pun) and he lost his job.
But he's still right.
It's like when Prof. Nutt said that taking ecstacy on the weekend was about as dangerous as horse riding. The press and politicians went nuts (excuse the pun) and he lost his job.
But he's still right.
This will always be a huge debate in this scene, just be safe guys, simples
Who?As someone nicked the button .... I Agree
As a single woman I can only speak from, well, a single woman’s perspective. Oh and from the perpective of someone who hasn’t swung before but has had casual sex.
I have read through posts from couples, and couples who have been part of this scene for a good while, and can completely understand going BB, first, with each other and second, with other trusted people who you have built a relationship with.
For me, however, I will always seek to minimise the risk to my sexual health. A disregard for condoms and sexual health is a big turn off. I see it as (rightly or wrongly) a lack of thought for the safety and well-being of others. Plus, a recipe for unwanted pregnancy.
Forget the flowers and chocolates, I find it romantic when others are just as concerned about protecting themselves and others.
That being said, and now I probably sound like a complete hypocrite, I haven’t ever used protection for oral sex. I refuse to swallow, unless I know someone well but that’s not really going to stop anything is it? I suppose I’ve just been very lucky to date.
I’m laughing at myself now for being so obstinate about condoms for fucking but not oral. You’ve given me something to think about!
Great reply and good to know it's given you something to think about. Protection is something we all need to use and not just talk about. Some may argue that they find they desentitise the experience but then doesn't that help prolong the fun. Others may be allergic to certain brands but there is plenty of variety out there. There really isn't any excuse to gamble with your own or others health.
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