Me tooBloody hell, so much kissing going on it's starting to affect us. Back in 10.....
Bloody hell, so much kissing going on it's starting to affect us. Back in 10.....
I know.... phew just kissing and flirtiness, seduction.. everywhere!Me too
It's certainly something that we've noticed has changed in the relatively short time that we've been swinging. When we first started out, bi-guys were quite a rare thing - certainly in couples, but now it's a more common sight. More to the point, the bigotry has, more or less, vanished. In fact, we often take the Mick out of one of our male friends who is definitely straight (all in good humour, of course).
It's also very heartening that so many ladies get turned on by it!
I only acknowledged being bisexual about 5 years ago so this is interesting for me.
The thought that women find it attractive is strange as my partner's fear of losing me to a man somehow took all of her feelings of femininity from her. She started to talk about how could I find her attractive and men? I think she had convinced herself she had to be manlike towards the end.
Now we are a bit clearer on things. Time heals. I know myself a lot better. To discover that there are women who find being with two bi men is hot is a real steamy one.
I've been with 2 couples.
One guy was just open minded.
The other lied about being bi and made us stop before we started.
Interesting...I only acknowledged being bisexual about 5 years ago so this is interesting for me.
The thought that women find it attractive is strange as my partner's fear of losing me to a man somehow took all of her feelings of femininity from her. She started to talk about how could I find her attractive and men? I think she had convinced herself she had to be manlike towards the end.
Now we are a bit clearer on things. Time heals. I know myself a lot better. To discover that there are women who find being with two bi men is hot is a real steamy one.
I've been with 2 couples.
One guy was just open minded.
The other lied about being bi and made us stop before we started.
Interesting...
So obviously your partner (ex?) resented it, then adjusted to it but then actually felt her femininity was taken.
Did she have any inkling at all about your sexuality?
As I said before though, I'm finding more and more ladies find bi-men a turn on.
Wow. Thank you for sharing that with us.She knew about a year after I started to think about it. I was with her for 24 years. There were times I should have been aware of it but with a homophobic upbringing it was something I always ignored.
I hurt her when I came out to her. I knew it would and I put it off as long as I could.
It wasn't a good time for either of us. She pushed me away and I left.
She had no idea. I was actually outed by one of the three people I had confided in. That didn't help.
Now I'm moving forwards. I'm very much in tune with the things I like. They just happen to be sucking and licking.
Exactly. It doesn't change you for who YOU are...I still feel a little wrong about what I like, but Mrs M is fantastic! We had a bit of a chat about it last night, she fully understands me (more than I bloody do!) And accepts that sometimes I may want to have a bit of cock.
Just seems I keep doubting myself, and also the way Mrs M has handled it all, I know deep down she loves me and we will always be together... just with some added fun to chuck into the mix of things.
But still feel ashamed of it sometimes!
Silly I know, if Mrs M can accept it, then I should be jumping for joy, not having to hide my feelings from her has made it soo much easier,but still feel naughty when I have a cock in my mouth. :bj1:
Not a Saturday evening it's notBut it's too far for an evening though
It's arrangement that we could come toEvery other week maybe
AgreedAlways social first meet though
Do we have another bi guy amongst us?Agreed
I've tried it with a guy, 1-1 and it was ok, maybe too nervous to really enjoy it. I really want to have a bi 3sum with a female who gets turned on by 2 guys enjoying each other. Maybe one day it will happen
Do we have another bi guy amongst us?
Bad man :spank:Bloody hell Pearls! I was just about to go out, now I have naughty thoughts again.....
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