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Scrunchy&Muffet

Ok so i quite often hear guys say that condoms feel horrible. I just wondered what the guys on here thought. Do they feel horrible? Does it make sex less thrilling?
Ladies does it feel any different for you...good or bad?

We all know that they are a neccessity so why the complaints guys?

Look forward to hearing your thoughts guys n gals. Xxxx
 
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Bump-n-Grind

For me I really can't feel a huge amount, but it's still not worth the risk without & is still well worth doing with.
But without feels much better but personal pleasure is only half of sex for me anyway, as long as the lady in question is enjoying it then that's just as much of a thrill for me .

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Scrunchy&Muffet

I heard guys say that they physically cant cum whilst wearing a condom or they cant stay hard. Does this happen to anybody or is it an excuse to not suit up? Xxx
 
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Scrunchy&Muffet said:
Ok so i quite often hear guys say that condoms feel horrible. I just wondered what the guys on here thought. Do they feel horrible? Does it make sex less thrilling?
Ladies does it feel any different for you...good or bad?

We all know that they are a neccessity so why the complaints guys?

Look forward to hearing your thoughts guys n gals. Xxxx
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I wouldn't say they're horrible, just different and wouldn't say they make sex less thrilling.

We never use condoms when it's just the two of us, but would always use them when with others, even with each other, it just seems to be the right etiquette and seems fairer all around, certainly wouldn't say it would detract and as you say they are a necessity (for us and many others at least).

You won't find us complaining.

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N_C_4 said:
I wouldn't say they're horrible, just different and wouldn't say they make sex less thrilling.

We never use condoms when it's just the two of us, but would always use them when with others, even with each other, it just seems to be the right etiquette and seems fairer all around, certainly wouldn't say it would detract and as you say they are a necessity (for us and many others at least).

You won't find us complaining.

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Scrunchy&Muffet said:
I heard guys say that they physically cant cum whilst wearing a condom or they cant stay hard. Does this happen to anybody or is it an excuse to not suit up? Xxx
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It's not always an excuse, everything takes a lot more concentration, if that's the right turn of phrase. Although some would use it as a convenient excuse I suppose
 
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I prefer to be bare as they is a lot of fine "detail" lost when wearing a condom but I would never say that they feel horriable since it still feels great (when done correctly). As I have said before being bare is only something I would ever really do with a girlfriend or a "commited" and trusted lover.
 
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Terryg

Got to say I really don't mind, your always going to lose some sensation but it's never effected me in any other way. Having a condom put on by another person for me is quite erotic!
 
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Scrunchy&Muffet said:
I heard guys say that they physically cant cum whilst wearing a condom or they cant stay hard. Does this happen to anybody or is it an excuse to not suit up? Xxx
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If you can cum without a condom I don't see any reason why you wouldn't wearing one , sounds very much like an excuse , there are plenty of thin skin like condoms you don't have to use Marigolds !! :lol:
As for staying hard i don't see a difference with or without if you lose the erection your going to anyhow .. It is quite erotic having one put on you and that can help the process , much the same as a hand job does..
Mates Skyn are pretty good .... :D
 
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MP386 said:
If you can cum without a condom I don't see any reason why you wouldn't wearing one , sounds very much like an excuse , there are plenty of thin skin like condoms you don't have to use Marigolds !! :lol:
As for staying hard i don't see a difference with or without if you lose the erection your going to anyhow .. It is quite erotic having one put on you and that can help the process , much the same as a hand job does..
Mates Skyn are pretty good .... :D
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you like a boy scout, always come prepared?
 
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I always use my own, latex free mates Skyns and to me they don't feel much different to bare back, but I'm really used to condoms, so I don't mind.
With some guys, it's been a real passion killer having to put one on. I've found that men who are part of a couple tend to struggle the most in keeping an erecting when putting one one.
 
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MickeyBlueBalls

I'm a safety guy in full penatrative. And there are no exceptions. Pride myself on personal hygiene and wouldn't have it any other way. Besides condoms have "cum" along way (sorry) to make things as natural as possible. Sure it will never be as sensational as without but there's a lot of mucky pups out there who probably don't even know they have something nasty lurking within. Just sayin
 
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Mr_and_Mrs_Marmite said:
After almost 18 years of marriage, and never having to use one, and then coming into this lifestyle, it's something I am gonna have to get used to.

Tried to put one on a few weeks ago, instant loss of errection :(

Practice makes perfect as they say.... and getting the female to help put it on is all part of the fun ;)
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Exactly, nothing like having one put on by a girl using her mouth... safe sex? ALWAYS. This weekend it's most likely I'll use one when with Linda even.
 
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Balls&Boobs

Condoms ok but I do find a loss in sensation. Sometimes it's a case of mind over matter. Use them out of respect for another wishes but have to say I do love the real feel.
 
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Scrunchy&Muffet said:
I heard guys say that they physically cant cum whilst wearing a condom or they cant stay hard. Does this happen to anybody or is it an excuse to not suit up? Xxx
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This to me means they are talking bollox, If it has that much effect then they should use a cock ring, many of us gents that have diabeties have to use them or take that nasty Viagra type medication, the latter means planning sex,,, not my idea of fun :) but yeah if you have multiple partners you should wear a condom.. just what I think anyway :)
 
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Ok, for us, we only use the extremely thin ones, (when we have to use them) as it allows some feeling still, but the cheaper ones that are thicker, do make Mr A Team shrink, as they seem to go baggy quite quickly and lose all sensitivity, and for Mrs A Team, the thicker ones make her sore with prolonged use. So definitely the better quality ones, to avoid this issue for us xx
 
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Mates Skyns all the way.
Hope everyone still gets tested at a GUM clinic or the THT. Please don't forget there is no such thing as safe sex. Condoms only make it safer and you can still catch warts and STI's orally.
 
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