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23 April 2015
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Hi all me and my mrs have been talking I want u to be as honested as u. To the men on average how long can u last in bed do u have a something to help u last longer I know u lads Wat I can last hours but if u can please be honest. To the ladies Wat would u count as a good night in the bed room with ur other half.. I will start it off normal I last around 20 mins mrs say that plenty so looking to see Wat other people think
 
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Good thread @mr&mrs sparks and I'll tell you why it is another good thread of yours, you ask a lot of questions that some want to ask, or think about but are mostly too shy or afraid to ask. thank you Admin I know ever one is different I was thinking about it yesterday at work its stuff me and mrs talk about

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And good for you, because honestly - some of these things people are just to embarrassed or shy to discuss, and let's face it we are ALL human and all have our own insecurities, questions, thoughts...
So you are definitely in the right place to ask away both. xx
 
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Leather

Ok from a womans point of view here I don't think its how long you last that matters...Its all about the passion and the moment and if that is only for a few miniutes then its what makes the best sex...
Men with the attitude of "Hey darling I can last for hours" has no interest to me xxx
 
19 March 2015
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Good question.. Well for me Lips (Mr) it depends on the level of build up mentally.
I will be honest and open and can say that, if I am taken to that mental high and teased for the entire day, I can orgasm within 5 minutes. :D
That's only achievable by extreme teasing and really lots of build up and excitement. Believe me we can be very passionate and pheromones are bouncing off us when we get going!!

Besides that, depending on the circumstances, I can be 30 minutes, to over an hour or so.
Enjoying some exquisite oral pleasure two nights ago, for about an hour.. :)
:bj1: :eek:ral-to-completion: :bouncy:
 
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Wolf

Can I clarify the question.
Talking as the super stud I am :cool:, are we discussing how long you can hold off before cuming :wank:, how long you can bang like a rabbit before the muscles give out or before you just get bored give up and go and raid the fridge?
Personally I can hold off cuming for hours, yes really lol, but I ain't as young as I used to be so the marathon speed humping is a thing of the past for me and to be honest never really did anything for me anyway. As far as getting bored NEVER!! :eek:
I like long sessions of teasing, flirting, touching, kissing, licking, sucking, feeling, tasting, exploring before Mr Wiggly even comes into play.
Personally I think that actual intercorse is just a very small bit of sex and not even necessary to have an awesome experience.
Don't get me wrong I love the ten minute quicky too when time is sparse. Like when your just about to go to work and the Mrs walks past naked just about to get in the shower!:arse:

Mr Wiggly likes a good sneeze an given enough time to recover I'm not adversed to starting all over again :surprise:
 
23 April 2015
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Good question.. Well for me Lips (Mr) it depends on the level of build up mentally.
I will be honest and open and can say that, if I am taken to that mental high and teased for the entire day, I can orgasm within 5 minutes. :D
That's only achievable by extreme teasing and really lots of build up and excitement. Believe me we can be very passionate and pheromones are bouncing off us when we get going!!

Besides that, depending on the circumstances, I can be 30 minutes, to over an hour or so.
Enjoying some exquisite oral pleasure two nights ago, for about an hour.. :)
:bj1: :eek:ral-to-completion: :bouncy:
I love ur reply mate and thank for ur honest reply and I am the same if mrs tease me all day then can last 5 to 10 mins lol and thank u again
 
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23 April 2015
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Can I clarify the question.
Talking as the super stud I am :cool:, are we discussing how long you can hold off before cuming :wank:, how long you can bang like a rabbit before the muscles give out or before you just get bored give up and go and raid the fridge?
Personally I can hold off cuming for hours, yes really lol, but I ain't as young as I used to be so the marathon speed humping is a thing of the past for me and to be honest never really did anything for me anyway. As far as getting bored NEVER!! :eek:
I like long sessions of teasing, flirting, touching, kissing, licking, sucking, feeling, tasting, exploring before Mr Wiggly even comes into play.
Personally I think that actual intercorse is just a very small bit of sex and not even necessary to have an awesome experience.
Don't get me wrong I love the ten minute quicky too when time is sparse. Like when your just about to go to work and the Mrs walks past naked just about to get in the shower!:arse:

Mr Wiggly likes a good sneeze an given enough time to recover I'm not adversed to starting all over again :surprise:
Love it I love all the teasing and all that I really but best bit is the teasing the excitement and the build up :good_shafting:
 
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nosteferatu61

It's all about the pre-play and foreplay. Notes left in random places, under a pillow, on a car seat, in a lunchbox (well maybe not that random), a brief follow up text messages or a phone call, saying how Beautiful/sexy your quest is. Followed by suggestions of what you'd like to be doing with them.
Lots of foreplay, this should involve conversation as well as physical contact. Don't rush, savour, and explore. Then when the moments right if it's 15 minutes or an hour and 15 minutes, it won't matter, you've given pleasure and made the lady feel special.
Ps in an emergency I find thinking of great Aunt Gertrude helps enormously.
 

Admin

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Yes I know completely! You don't and didn't need to explain anything whatsoever mate!
But yes, on a higher level, a higher connection.. Very good ;)
 
11 August 2015
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Hi all me and my mrs have been talking I want u to be as honested as u. To the men on average how long can u last in bed do u have a something to help u last longer I know u lads Wat I can last hours but if u can please be honest. To the ladies Wat would u count as a good night in the bed room with ur other half.. I will start it off normal I last around 20 mins mrs say that plenty so looking to see Wat other people think

A quick recovery can be nice ....18 times in one day I did not know where my legs went
 
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TownhouseTwosome

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We have played with a couple who I teased on the phone all day....it was the best foreplay ever! When it came to playing we were so wound up, that none of us lasted more than 15 mins! We pounced and that was it!!! PMSL
When I first met Jim, he had gotten himself into a habit of not cumming at all so he could last for hours if needed and it took a good year with me, to break the habit! Now, he just goes with the flow...so to speak!!!! hahaha :whistle:
 
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Lovers_For_Life

Interesting Thread. So, did you know... Certain Anti-Depressants (AD's) are prescribed to Men to 'slow/delay' their response...? Well they are. The flip side to this.... If you get prescribed AD's, for actual Depression, they also have that effect.

Now having endurance can be good, but there comes a point where your Lady just want you to ... You know... Cum. And sometimes you just can't. Too much of a good thing..? Yup. This effect can be long lasting too - a general loss of sensitivity. Hmm... I am told they can also affect your Libido - well, that was/is now fine, for me... :D

To be clear, I am not on any AD's anymore - but there was/is still an effect. I can boost things with a low dose of Viagra, which generally will ... assist ...!

But take a bit of time, no rush - it wont be instant (as it was years ago..), but still possible.... And very worth it..... Meanwhile, Lady L will have had her fill of extra Orgasms, as we have been playing...

Its an interesting challenge. Fun Homework, even.... :love:

I fro I&L xx
 

Vex

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A quick recovery can be nice ....18 times in one day I did not know where my legs went
I jacked off around 20 times in a 12 hour period one time. I was OFF my brain pills and was in a sex crazed manic state (I'm EXTREMELY bi-polar and the pills I'm normally on kill my sex drive). lol
 
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I jacked off around 20 times in a 12 hour period one time. I was OFF my brain pills and was in a sex crazed manic state (I'm EXTREMELY bi-polar and the pills I'm normally on kill my sex drive). lol

:D my man! ...
You flex those muscles my friend ;)
 
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Richluvspussy

When I feel myself about to come I usually stop and think of something boring, like a train, for a few minutes until it recedes and then back on again. I usually try and wait until my partner is about to come so that we can explode together, lol
 
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