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Lady bits photo's, acceptable or not?

Therapon

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I was having a discussion earlier with @Jurgen about dick pics and he questioned why males were more likely to ask if it was ok for them to add dicks but it seemed acceptable for the ladies to show boobs and fannies with no questions asked.
From previous threads the consenus seems to be, for males, that less is more but for ladies this doesn't appear to be true.
So the question is should the same rule apply to females, should the female shots show thier chest with them wearing a bra for example and are close up photo's of ladies chicken livers acceptable where a close up of a dick seems to be frowned upon.
Yes we know men are more easily stimulated looking at boobs and fannies, we only need to look at some of our gents lurid comments on female photo's to prove that, but why is it that males get a bad press for adding dick pics but female genital photo's seem prefectly acceptable. Is that fair, is that equality?

Over to you to add your thoughts.
 

Welshcouple59

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I was having a discussion earlier with @Jurgen about dick pics and he questioned why males were more likely to ask if it was ok for them to add dicks but it seemed acceptable for the ladies to show boobs and fannies with no questions asked.
From previous threads the consenus seems to be, for males, that less is more but for ladies this doesn't appear to be true.
So the question is should the same rule apply to females, should the female shots show thier chest with them wearing a bra for example and are close up photo's of ladies chicken livers acceptable where a close up of a dick seems to be frowned upon.
Yes we know men are more easily stimulated looking at boobs and fannies, we only need to look at some of our gents lurid comments on female photo's to prove that, but why is it that males get a bad press for adding dick pics but female genital photo's seem prefectly acceptable. Is that fair, is that equality?

Over to you to add your thoughts.
I suppose you could look at this a few ways.
Firstly, if sending private messages to people and they start getting saucy I always ask them from the start if they want pics or not. That question is asked of myself as well and I say they can send what pics they want.
Secondly, I will be honest I don’t see why a guy should have to ask permission to put cock pics on his media. If he feels comfortable doing it that’s fine. After all noone has to look at his pics if they don’t want to.
Thirdly, why should the guys have to ask permission to put cock pics up on some of the threads. We have Titty Tuesday. We have a few guys who are being quite imaginative with the pics they put up and I for one enjoy them. For some of the guys it takes a lot to even put a cock pic up because of confidence issues. I admire the fact that they do get the courage up to post one.
At the end of the day we are all adults. Live and let live. xxxx M
 

SteveandDebs

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The usual argument against genital pics is that they "all look the same".

Well they don't! Different people like different things and a few pics helps people find ones they are attracted to, especially if they are arranging meetings over the internet.

There is however a fine line, especially with cock pics, between "this is what I've got" and "this is all I am"
 

Horny_Essex_Pair

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My (P) opinion is simple, this is a swinging site where ultimately people join to hopefully persue sexual relations with others and that means getting yer bits and bobs out!. Now if anyone wants to post a picture of their cock from 20 different angles then go ahead likewise if a lady wants to get her knickers off and the camera snapping away then I say good luck, and I'll applaude both parties for the courage it may have taken to do that. Ultimately we all have the individual choice whether to look at these pictures or simply scroll past.
 
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Jurgen

Personaly i think that its mostly the ladies that complain about cock pics not just on here but any site. Cant remember the last time i heard a chap saying " i wish they wouldnt keep sending me tits n fanny pics" lol.. ( i welcome all tits n fanny pics )
There we are, that's exactly is what I said ... Men need to be unsure what they post, while women can assume that boobs and fannies in differed angle are always welcome.

The question was .. why?

..in my opinion, because men only need visual stimuli, that's how evolution works, and the majority of sex site visitors are men who, of course,with little exceptions, are not interested in dick pics. And how one assured me, the women here also not. That's why I took out all the unwanted pictures.
 
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Jurgen

Secondly, I will be honest I don’t see why a guy should have to ask permission to put cock pics on his media.
Because no one wants to see it, not even the women .. worse, the women complain as I was told. So why should he upload unwanted pictures here?


We have Titty Tuesday.
You're posting your tits for other women ? But you know, Titty Tuesday is always welcome .. at whom, women ? Would you like to see Cock Friday.. I'm sure not ? Do you understand what I mean like ..?
 

SteveandDebs

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I do think its impossible to compare. People try to apply the same rules to men and women but you can't. They take equality to mean the same in all respects but it doesn't mean that, it means of the same standing. Men and women are different, let's celebrate those differences instead of getting hung up on the whole equality thing.
 
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Jurgen

I do think its impossible to compare. People try to apply the same rules to men and women but you can't. They take equality to mean the same in all respects but it doesn't mean that, it means of the same standing. Men and women are different, let's celebrate those differences instead of getting hung up on the whole equality thing.

You explained it perfectly ...Equality is not applicable in all areas of life and also not desired. Equality on demand...if he's posting the wrong parts of himself, then he looks like a fool. therefore guys have to be unsure what to post . 😉 Cheers
 

MyKinkyWorld

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As for me, I try showing off all my body in my photos, but, as someone wrote, we are on a swinging site so it's quite normal to post sexual scenes and dick pics. Actually on my profile I've posted many photos of my body plus a few ones of my dick because anyway I assume that someone might also be interested in seeing it. In short I believe that the right compromise on a swinging site is to show the full body plus a few dick photos.
By the way, would anyone mind teaching me a few words about sexual scenario? I like to improve my vocabulary but I wouldn't love to be rude, because I only love to be kinky and I wouldn't make mistakes. I got that the worlds dick and boobs in our scenario are kinky and not rude, but, for example, about the world cunt? Is better bird? I would like to be a posh kinky man not a rude one.
Thanks.
 

SteveandDebs

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You explained it perfectly ...Equality is not applicable in all areas of life and also not desired. Equality on demand...if he's posting the wrong parts of himself, then he looks like a fool. therefore guys have to be unsure what to post . 😉 Cheers
Men should absolutely not be unsure what to post. They should be honest and post pictures that reflect their personality. The problem with swinging sites is that people, guys especially, try to be all things to all (wo)men. This doesn't work and they end up attracting no-one. Post what you are comfortable with, this will attract people that are on the same wavelength as you and whatever you post will be attractive to someone. :)
 

SteveandDebs

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As for me, I try showing off all my body in my photos, but, as someone wrote, we are on a swinging site so it's quite normal to post sexual scenes and dick pics. Actually on my profile I've posted many photos of my body plus a few ones of my dick because anyway I assume that someone might also be interested in seeing it. In short I believe that the right compromise on a swinging site is to show the full body plus a few dick photos.
By the way, would anyone mind teaching me a few words about sexual scenario? I like to improve my vocabulary but I wouldn't love to be rude, because I only love to be kinky and I wouldn't make mistakes. I got that the worlds dick and boobs in our scenario are kinky and not rude, but, for example, about the world cunt? Is better bird? I would like to be a posh kinky man not a rude one.
Thanks.
Your photo's are awesome :)

As for words, it's really a case of knowing your audience. Pussy is a relatively benign word that you can use when talking to other kinksters, cunt on the other hand is quite a powerful word that used in the right circumstances can be a total turn on for some.
 
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Personaly i think that its mostly the ladies that complain about cock pics not just on here but any site. Cant remember the last time i heard a chap saying " i wish they wouldnt keep sending me tits n fanny pics" lol.. ( i welcome all tits n fanny pics )
someone actually did to me once not on here though
sending one as a first thing in a chat is what I find most off putting
I do like cock and seeing them in an art form
Each to their own
As for showing parts of your body it should not matter for me though I will not post them like a cock, I have one but they are all different! Same as boobs and bodies we are all different but should embrace bodies as art form what we kind of do is think of things that should be ashamed of which is not the case. Seeing them does not offend be but to send one as a first chat it is not appreciated. If you have them on your profile I do not need to view

Bodies are art so are parts of the body embrace them
 

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someone actually did to me once not on here though
sending one as a first thing in a chat is what I find most off putting
I do like cock and seeing them in an art form
Each to their own
As for showing parts of your body it should not matter for me though I will not post them like a cock, I have one but they are all different! Same as boobs and bodies we are all different but should embrace bodies as art form what we kind of do is think of things that should be ashamed of which is not the case. Seeing them does not offend be but to send one as a first chat it is not appreciated. If you have them on your profile I do not need to view

Bodies are art so are parts of the body embrace them
Unsolicited dick pics are a huge no no here - for your information more than anything. Yes exactly it’s all subjective x
 

Welshcouple59

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Because no one wants to see it, not even the women .. worse, the women complain as I was told. So why should he upload unwanted pictures here?




You're posting your tits for other women ? But you know, Titty Tuesday is always welcome .. at whom, women ? Would you like to see Cock Friday.. I'm sure not ? Do you understand what I mean like ..?
Being honest I am not bothered about how many cock pics go up on the site. We are all adults and it’s a personal choice if you want to look at them or not.
If you want to start a cock Friday feel free xx M
 
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