Sex Buddies

Wheels5885 · 3 March 2016

Just a quick one folks I'm interested on people's views here not looking for an argument just an exchange on experience and or view on the subject.

Is it possible to have an arrangement with someone without emotion or feeling getting involved at one stage for either party?

I know it works for some and maybe not for others but is it impossible so to speak to remove the emotional aspect from it??

Care to discuss??

Admin · 3 March 2016

Interesting subject.. and one we've encountered previously.
I find it a relative question and subjective.
It's not a post seeking a flame war or argument, so I wouldn't suggest you are seeking an argument, but merely questioning things on from a moral or ethical even emotional point of view which I can understand.

With this in mind, can I remind everyone not to flame or troll. Comments will be removed and warnings given for anyone deemed trying to flame or cause an argument deliberately.

Admin · 3 March 2016

PS moved to correct forum.

Wheels5885 · 3 March 2016

Admin said:
PS moved to correct forum.

Thank you my friend

Scrumps · 3 March 2016

I think it depends on the person. Many people find it difficult to separate love from sex. If you are of this nature, then having a fuck buddy is probably not for you.
If you are lucky enough to be able to separate the two it can be a lot of fun.

Admin · 3 March 2016

Scrumps said:
I think it depends on the person. Many people find it difficult to separate love from sex. If you are of this nature, then having a fuck buddy is probably not for you.
If you are lucky enough to be able to separate the two it can be a lot of fun.

I completely agree..!
I am one of those who could probably and happily evolve into a poly relationship, or a triangle fuck buddy situation. No problem.
Yes variety is the spice of life, but personally I could do that..

However, as @Scrumps rightly pointed out, you have to be able to switch off feelings in a FB situation. And that will and must take some doing, especially after an extended period of time.
The general consensus is though, it seems, that a lot of FB partnerships end up being a relationship where the couple continue in the lifestyle together.

Scrumps · 3 March 2016

Admin said:
I completely agree..!
I am one of those who could probably and happily evolve into a poly relationship, or a triangle fuck buddy situation. No problem.
Yes variety is the spice of life, but personally I could do that..

However, as @Scrumps rightly pointed out, you have to be able to switch off feelings in a FB situation. And that will and must take some doing, especially after an extended period of time.
The general consensus is though, it seems, that a lot of FB partnerships end up being a relationship where the couple continue in the lifestyle together.

I think I could easily cope with three husbands. Imagine the disposal income for a start!
A bigger bed might be required though.

Deleted member 2610 · 3 March 2016

Interesting point---me I'd like to meet someone as a FB that we could share experiences and enjoy each others company with other like minded people, plus be free to explore separately.
If it then developed into a another level as long as we both wanted it then even better xxx

Lovernotfighter · 3 March 2016

Anthony_Newton said:
Interesting point---me I'd like to meet someone as a FB that we could share experiences and enjoy each others company with other like minded people, plus be free to explore separately.
If it then developed into a another level as long as we both wanted it then even better xxx

That's a nice thing to want, someone to have fun with and if some one happens then great if then okay

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

i hate being classed as an f b to someone occaisional lover or playmate i prefer x

Lovernotfighter · 4 March 2016

legseleven said:
i hate being classed as an f b to someone occaisional lover or playmate i prefer x

I totally agree lovers is a much nicer term than friends with benefits

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

Lovernotfighter said:
I totally agree lovers is a much nicer term than friends with benefits

now to find a decent playmate lol x

Scrumps · 4 March 2016

Lovernotfighter said:
I totally agree lovers is a much nicer term than friends with benefits

Although lover suggests there are emotional connotations, whereas there isn't with a FB. It just depends what you're looking for.

Wheels5885 · 4 March 2016

legseleven said:
now to find a decent playmate lol x

Waves me me me

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

whether its a f b or a lover there as to emotions involved ive seen married cples fall apart due to one or the other becoming attracted to said f b never mind a lover

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

amboman said:
Oh i see! Hmmm! Sulks[/QUOawe you know where you stand with me xx

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

Bansheewarrior said:
Good for you xxx

sorry treaks not you we have known eachother far too long xx

Scrumps · 4 March 2016

amboman said:
To throw more wood on the fire, I think its also possible to be a 'lover' to/for someone without ever any physical union. When an emotional and mental connection becomes so all encompassing that it outweighs the physical. But that may just be an entirely different thing altogether lol

Trust you take it off on another tangent

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

amboman said:
To throw more wood on the fire, I think its also possible to be a 'lover' to/for someone without ever any physical union. When an emotional and mental connection becomes so all encompassing that it outweighs the physical. But that may just be an entirely different thing altogether lol

i suppose thats dependant on peoples feelings

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

amboman said:
To throw more wood on the fire, I think its also possible to be a 'lover' to/for someone without ever any physical union. When an emotional and mental connection becomes so all encompassing that it outweighs the physical. But that may just be an entirely different thing altogether lol

surely thats pure fantasy not realiastic in real life

Lovernotfighter · 4 March 2016

Scrumps said:
Although lover suggests there are emotional connotations, whereas there isn't with a FB. It just depends what you're looking for.

I'm not sure agree the is emotional links between friends

Miss-Sexy-Legs · 4 March 2016

well i am now bowing out of this thread as in reality this is a swingers site not a sex buddies site

Deleted member 1402 · 5 March 2016

It has worked for me on several occasions. I do get feelings, but only as friends. I pretty much have a cold heart in a "lovers" sense, so I don't get any romantic feelings.

Pearls · 7 March 2016

This is a very interesting thread and would be nice to hear more views on this xx

Deleted member 3411 · 14 March 2016

Well I have never been in the situation of swinging with a partner. I have had a few female friends who accompanied me on a swinging night. One whom I actually got to like quite well and I actually enjoyed watching her play. I'd welcome a 'buddy' myself as I've never liked the fact I'm a single guy on a single guy night. When I'm 'with' someone it's far more fun and relaxed.

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