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social swinging

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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Seems more and more are realising what is going on around them and the sheer scale of corruption, that is going on..
 
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emlet

when we were on another site, we were paid members for years, we fell out with a member called kinkykath (we say we fell out, she fell out with us) she barred us from going to a social cos she didnt like me because in her opinion i was too attractive. she sent me loads of abussive messages on there, i reported her for sending these message as they were out of order and the messages were deleted out of my inbox by the site. we were then told we couldnt attend townhouse or swingfields by admin on the site. i still have a profile on there as cant do anything with it as im banned from using forums etc. i really dont know what happened to that site.
 

TownhouseTwosome

VIP Member
5 April 2015
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Nothing surprises me anymore! lol
I haven't forgotten what happened in the summer, by any means! AND it seems, many others haven't either! The forums over theer just aren't busy anymore and I know many people who are not renewing their subscriptions, a lot of whom have never even been to Townhouse but are shocked by their superiority and control they think they have over their members and clubs.
 
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Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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they think they have over their members and clubs.
But that's it...
They DO have control over members and clubs. Most just don't realise it......
We've seen a difference with how people react and respond to us since all that happened, so they do have control, but people just need to realise that the sooner they leave the place, the better.

Corruption, blackmail, monopolising, sheer and total disregard for clubs & members alike, poor business ethics, bad business practices and ruling with an iron fist - is not acceptable.
Sadly even though people have the option to and aware that they can vote with their feet - they don't.

It's a very sad and deeply frustrating fact.
That said, I personally do believe more and more are realising their options and realising just who these people are.
Devious and sly.... Rotten from the core.
Some are just either ignorant to what goes on around them, or are simply happy to put up with what they do.
I would say I fear that it's the latter, but I think it's a combination of the both.

Just my tuppence worth.
 
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meet_the_fockers

Not at all, it's a shame I stayed. I brushed crap under the carpet, unsure where else to go! Yeah biba may have a large following so what? At the end of the day she may be beautiful blah blah... But she's a person a normal person likes daft things like making toast and giggling.. etc etc.. Here your faith should be restored she knows this..we are grounded here honest! Our users are a priority not a commodity! Xxx..
 
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Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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Hello Stephen, and I am glad you have spoken out..

I am going to share a story with you, if I may.
Yes I am admin, yes I am the owner of this site. I am also a human being and for once I am going to leave being owner and admin and all of that out of it.

All I ask is five minutes to construct what I am about to write.. x
 

Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
39,136
95,651
Okay.. here it is. This is us, as admin, as owners as people, as swingers.
We had fun a very long time ago, kids happened and a few years' later we wanted to resurrect what fun we had.
This was 12-13 years ago if not more, at the time it was wife swapping, we didn't know what 'swinging' was.
Lasted some time but that is irrelevant..

Fast forward to now - and I did what I could Internet wise and searched what we enjoyed. This led me to fab. Or as we call em; Fucked And Broken.

We found what we wanted to find, we found our corner of the world where we felt understood.
Or so we thought....
This wasn't just about SEX, it was about being intimate with other people, within our marriage. Opening up to other people and allowing them in.
So I took the lead and being a forumite set off and said to Pearls, we'll be okay, I will manage what we have got.

We made friends, we sent out details, we started to get involved with people and it was looking great..
Then BAM! out of nowhere, our 'friends' starting dropping us, we were being blocked for no reason by people we spoke with regularly, even as much as to say we supported a lady through her father dying.

Then came the shock, the jungle drums (gossip) were banging away- we were press....
Why?
because I - and wait for it, wrote eloquently and professionally...
We were getting heavy abuse, and I mean heavy abuse.!

I asked moderators to help? Forget it.
I wrote threads and the mods deleted them.. I posted replies and they were deleted....
Mods soon stopped responding and it was clear admins had an issue.

Why?
Because to the cliques, we were media.. We were press! Or at least I was, because I wrote so well, so eloquently and so on.
Basically the crux of it was, we were press because of the WAY I WROTE!?

Since then, we were outcasted, and I even posted numerous threads, none of which naming and shaming or anything of the sorts, only to be further victimised by the admins.

Fact is, the admins enjoy bullying.
The mods enjoy bullying.

I can go on, but won't.. It's not right for me to.
They are BULLIES! I can tell you so much more publicly but will not.
Fact us, they're bullies, they edit peoples profiles, they edited MY profile.... going back 2 years ago up to over 1 year ago. They edit your profiles guys! Wake up!

They edit your photos, they allow bullying and allow shit to go on that should not happen.
They allow blackmail, they allow harassment, they allow extortion, they use illegal, immoral and underhand tactics on clubs and people, and use unethical tricks on all walks of life on their site.

They rule with an iron fist, they dictate and tell people what to do!!

When are people who use it, going to realise they are on a sinking ship!!?
 

Therapon

Admin
11 August 2015
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@Admin. Sad it it may seem I'm actually glad that happened otherwise I/we wouldn't be here now chatting, having a laugh and just having a great time.
 
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snj

Admin, how many members are on this site that are also on F? Could we amass enough of us to all post SS on out tag line and really cause them issues.....
It all comes down to balls and people power
 
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Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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Admin, how many members are on this site that are also on F? Could we amass enough of us to all post SS on out tag line and really cause them issues.....
It all comes down to balls and people power

Enough, but it comes down to people power...
People must march with their feet! x


EDITED;
Not enough yet.. but time and staying power, people power, will make it so.. x
 
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snj



Can you publish the long list of questions on here, and get as many SS lovelies to ask them the same questions....in a forum thread preferably.....many people read forums and if all of a sudden 100's of people start questioning the same issues people will quickly cotton on to the bullying and lack of security on that site
 
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meet_the_fockers

I should imagine so won't be a problem x
 
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26 April 2015
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City
Haverfordwest
So tested waters...all i did was send a message asking if they had heard of social swinging...instantly tjis happened. Banned from sending messages now!
 

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meet_the_fockers

So tested waters...all i did was send a message asking if they had heard of social swinging...instantly tjis happened. Banned from sending messages now!
Who's been naughty! You'll only be stopped from sending messages for a couple of hours..
 
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Admin

Admin
15 September 2014
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Indeed but the sinister thing here is this;
If it was www.mywebsite.com = I can understand..
But it was;
"Have you ever heard of a site called social swinging".....

That alone was what earnt the temp ban!
 
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