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Spanking , Flogging And More

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18 April 2018
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Why do I get the sudden urge to misbehave...
 

Vanezza

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I love it and Neil has a particlar belt that if he snaps it in his hands i litterally can't look away. We have floogers, riding crop, paddles we do go with the flow but have a safe word or is it when i just flinch and move out the way :hmm:

Vxxx
 
19 March 2015
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Not sure if there's a right or wrong way as everyone is different, but it's great fun and it's amazing to see so many more people getting to spread their wings further.
I find instinct is always best for us. I research on @Pearls
But genuinely I think as long as everyone is relaxed and communicate properly, in an ideal world, things should be okay.
As I've mentioned before, we have lots of things but I am really enjoying using the simplest of all; a belt. But I have to make sure I am really in control and don't lose myself in the moment as I know it can and will hurt - a lot - otherwise. x
 
9 September 2017
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Quite simply, in my humble opinion, the key spanking, flogging or any other potential pain inducing activity is communication
If people communicate with each other then there should never be a problem.

We all (or at least most of us I think) like to push boundaries but if I was being subjected to any kind of punishment and the pain began to feel more unpleasant than pleasurable then I would simply say enough and expect that to bring an end to it.
And the same applies if I was the one dealing out the pleasure/pain

Everyone’s pain threshold is different and everyone reacts differently to different levels of pain.
So each person will only find out where there “sweet spot” is through experimenting.
That’s why no definitive answer can be given to the question of how hard to slap/spank/flog can be given as we’re all different. So, my advice (for what it’s worth) is start off reasonably gently and slowly build up until it feels right. Common sense really although I can understand newcomers to the “sport” might get a bit carried away.

I’ve not mentioned trust as to me that’s something that I would expect people to have enough common sense to not have to be told that trust is, of course, an absolute prerequisite.

So, play nicely children or daddy will have to take you over his knee and give you a good spanking :collar:

Antogs xx
 
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7 December 2017
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Never tried it, I was slapped once on my ass but my natural reaction to that was hit him across the face
 
7 January 2017
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Bumpety bumping the thread.

I love being spanked - being bent over a table or bed and having my arse beaten is wonderful.
I'm still exploring this side, slowly working my way up to paddles, floggers... there's only so much Sir's hand can take
 
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MOTM

9 November 2015
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Bumpety bumping the thread.

I love being spanked - being bent over a table or bed and having my arse beaten is wonderful.
I'm still exploring this side, slowly working my way up to paddles, floggers... there's only so much Sir's hand can take
.....
 
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7 October 2019
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Spanking is fun.... Especially when ya tied down and can't stop them. It feels goooooood
Always go wi the flow
 
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Wow ya have been spanked
I was beaten with a piece of wooden dowel that’ll teach me to find things in the back of my van to use on a certain ladies bare bum ... she definitely gave as good as she got
 
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My version of the Rorschach Test
 

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