I've had low confidence too, but it is starting to improve. I've found that pretending to be confident sometimes makes me actually feel more confident (depending on the situation). Also, going out to clubs regularly and gradually getting more familiar with swinging has improved my confidence.Ty, but it's not about me or my appearanceI could be wearing a mask and still get shy around certain people. It's just something that sometimes happens, probably more to do with certain people's vibes and chemistry