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The meaning of swinging

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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Stupid question you ask but do you fully understand what swinging is about?
If not then here is the place to ask questions, discuss your views and maybe learn something you didn’t know.
Years ago it was very black and white and also very underground but with the joys of modern technology and new generations of people, is it still the fun with no ties or complications that it used to be?
What are your thoughts on what swinging is all about?
 
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Pearls

18 July 2015
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LadyLily said:
Oooh, good question! Great thread Pearls!

For me, swinging is about being around like minded people and being welcomed - I don't think it's just about the sex anymore, how can it be, when a whole community has developed out of a desire to be open?
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Thanks ?I thought with covid and being locked down for what seems eternity, people would be looking for new things, life is short and if something people have realised is grab every opportunity and if that means sexually then here’s the place to start and ask questions, google can’t help with everything. I’m sure there are many with questions ?
 
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Pearls

18 July 2015
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Ok I give, swinging means
First and most important, fun. You have to have laughs, a good time with a person and if it’s not fun then stop and move on.
Enjoying what ever scenario you are in and don’t take anything seriously.
Sex, this is about sex and nothing more so enjoy and have fun reliving the memories but always remember it is what it is.
Swinging isn’t dating, it isn’t a platform to look for anything more, yes it happens but don’t use it to look for something that isn’t there.
Fun, respect, safety is what I would sum it up.
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Pearls

18 July 2015
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This may be some useless help to newbies ??

Guidance

I get messages off new members on a daily basis asking for advice and tips on where to start, most because they are new to swinging and some just new to the site. So I thought I would put together a little guide which if anyone needs it you can...
socialswinging.com
 
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Tiger

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For me it’s about the fun, the laughter, being open and honest with like minded people, the socials & of course the sex ?

The highs you get after a liaison are incredible & the flash backs, days, weeks, months later!

Tiger xx
 
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tricky-dicky

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Tiger said:
For me it’s about the fun, the laughter, being open and honest with like minded people, the socials & of course the sex ?

The highs you get after a liaison are incredible & the flash backs, days, weeks, months later!

Tiger xx
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Same here, but the sex is off the menu these days for me.
 
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Vanezza

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tricky-dicky said:
Oh the good old Friday/Saturday night piss up when beer was cheap and the lays where easy I miss them days.
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I remember those days. Now I can feel my bones I would sooner have a laugh and wait to see if sex is on the cards later, I can't be arsed to actively go for it any more and just want it to happen naturally

N xxx
 
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