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I left you a very honest one.We think no - genuinely believe, more honest verifications should be left for people.
If you thought their imagination was lacking, say so.. If they smelt worse than Morrison's fresh fish counter; say so..
If they gave you the blowjob that rocked your world for a week, say so.
Same old story - met ABC and they were really bad mannered.. Yet their verifications don't reflect this.
They're there for a reason, whether to warn other people off of them, or to sing their praises.
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Plenty of socials kicking about..I cant get V never seen any one lol
We/you need to get to A, a meet or B, a social/event!I cant get V never seen any one lol
Absolutely!Gotta do that x
It's TripAdvisor hun..Are they important to you?
We've noticed some people leave some, some people don't...
Are they important to you? Do verifications help portray to others who you are and how you are?
We have found that we've left verifications for a lot of people, but they just can't be bothered to leave them for us..
Why....?
is it a reason? Or just laziness..?
What are verifications to you?
Badges, or help prove the real you?
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It's TripAdvisor hun..
You feel you have to be polite.. I used to leave them only for that reason..
Rarely do I actually mean what I say..
It's easier not to leave them.. It's a subtle message without the publicity..
XxxBibaxxX
It's pointless unless it's published and to do so opens another can of wormsSurely it
defeats the purpose
If you are not truthful
Sx
TouchéSurely it
defeats the purpose
If you are not truthful
Sx
It's TripAdvisor hun..
You feel you have to be polite.. I used to leave them only for that reason..
Rarely do I actually mean what I say..
It's easier not to leave them.. It's a subtle message without the publicity..
XxxBibaxxX
Regardless .. Unless everyone is truthful And they are not.. Unless all verifications are published ... Good or bad . And they are not.. It's pointlessbeing polite should be taken for granted, but not to give a proper feedback of a person or couple effects trust in the website ..and you saying "Rarely do I actually mean what I say.." means that i am unlikely to trust complicity any people you have solely verified.
I can see your point..you are trying to be " nice" but in these circumstances it does not helpI would like to be safe in the knowledge that any verified people are genuine swingers/genuine nice people.
This is in no way a denigration of you, just my personal observation of this convoi especially appreciate your honesty
Regardless .. Unless everyone is truthful And they are not.. Unless all verifications are published ... Good or bad . And they are not.. It's pointless
Lol, I think you're missing the point.Regardless .. Unless everyone is truthful And they are not.. Unless all verifications are published ... Good or bad . And they are not.. It's pointless
...and if you don;t like the verification, don't display or don't return it."We finally met K** after weeks of chatting .. We travelled to meet him had Drinks then back to our room... First reaction.. His abs that he was so proud of and indeed everyone else has commented on in their verifications . Were absent!
After what can only be described as a one sided flash in the pan he pulled out his plastic sandwich box and are left over pizza while texting on his phone
My boyfriend escorted him to the door.
I am at a loss as to what everyone else wrote about him as I either caught him on a bad day or this is normal as he was unphased.. "
This is a genuine verification that for some reason was never displayed on his profile ....
Instead he wrote a glowing verification for us all of which about the action and quality of the evening was clearly written by a ghost writer ... And my point is he lied and I did not...
Which brings me back to my original point.. There is no fool proof system for verifications .
You can't enforce people to be truthful and you can't enforce people to publish them..
That also opens another problem . The problem of opinion.. We all see something different so in turn everyone has a different version of events..
There is not a perfect solution..
So as I said.. Pointless.....and if you don;t like the verification, don't display or don't return it.
Very simple, really.
Last time I checked, this arena isn't a court of law so it's not necessary!So as I said.. Pointless..
Unless you like it . Don't publish it .
Lol
So how do you force people to publish the truth
Phew... Thank goodness we are not likely to ever meet ..Last time I checked, this arena isn't a court of law so it's not necessary!
And in any case, your "burden of proof" threshold is too high. If, for instance, we were to meet and I was to verify you, you are guaranteed to have an honest write up.
You just might not like what I have to say.
But then every argument is a triple-edged sword as they say - that is the objective truth.
I think that we should not be doing "tit for tat"
It is a discussion
The main thing is to improve and move forward.
If someone has a good experience they should " report" it(sounds so official but i cant think of a better word at this moment ) if several trusted members say sth negative about a member then that member is banned .. negative things are not "they weren't my cup of tea" ...but if they were pushy ...they were totally unlike there photos etc.
In the end it can only improve the site
We may not be honest to everyone ...i certainly do not always tell the truth in life as only Jasmine knows that I like to swing .. but we can be honest here ..all for the betterment of our experience
Hence I said based on several trusted membersTat can only exist if it is published. . Which it won't be .
Banned?... Based on assumption?
It's too subjective... Unless that said person is being a public pratt and there is actual evidence then absolutely not .
Evidence must exist. . Not hearsay
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No one can be trusted on a witch hunt... Been on both sides of that one.. Actual evidence pleaseHence I said based on several trusted members
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