We are still bi

I know lots of bi guys who are very reluctant to be open about it for fear of putting ladies off. me i play with boys, TGirls and Ladies but still prefer having the living daylights flogged out of me by Mistress but i am just a romantic at heart

I often think that 'categories' add very little to our understand of the human condition because, as soon as we place a perception of anything into a category or pigeonhole, we create and rationalise expectations based on that.
It seems to me that this limits our capacity to understand just how much everyone is different, or that people's likes, proclivities and aspirations are as fluid as the changing mood or state of mind influencing any one person's perception of another - so a label is almost bound to say as much about the expectations of the one creating it as it does about its subject.

hmmmm assumptions can be so misleading, yet accepted as the real scenario by others, without question, thus leading to often a different way of been treated or worse lol !! i must admit we too know of a couple of girls that live together, they are not together, yet as said previously, they are treated as lesbians, by even their neighbours !!! yet happily bring a guy/s home after am evening out the world is so judgemental, and box placing sometimes !!