What an excellent perception of this.. A very good way at looking at it/thinking about it..
What an excellent perception of this.. A very good way at looking at it/thinking about it..
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D7andFLC
So are you embarrassed about being bi?
And would you meet a male 121 for play?
Genuine questions, genuinely intrigued by your answer. FLC
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godzilla84
Well I'm not "openly" bi. So I suppose that means I am embarrassed. Like I said, I don't find men attractive but I like playing with them in a 3sum. At the moment I don't think I would meet a guy alone for play.
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D7andFLC
ty for you.r honesty @godzilla84.
Totally understand what you're saying. FLC
Totally understand what you're saying. FLC
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I was having a very similar sort of conversation, with a lesbian friend, quite recently. She said that I couldn't possibly be bi - because I'm married to Lis 
She doesn't know that we swing, but she does know that, sometimes, I'll take a fancy to a bloke...... or, indeed, a woman. However, she still reckons that I 'chose' being straight!
I'll ponder that thought.... the next time I've got a cock in my mouth
She doesn't know that we swing, but she does know that, sometimes, I'll take a fancy to a bloke...... or, indeed, a woman. However, she still reckons that I 'chose' being straight!I'll ponder that thought.... the next time I've got a cock in my mouth
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D7andFLC
Think that its accepted now, where as when we were younger it simply wasn't?!
For all intense purposes i'm straight too then, i have only had relationships with men up until meeting D.
I have a teenage daughter too.
Being gay in my opinion simply wasn't ever an option for me growing up. I was born a generation too early?! lol
FLC x
For all intense purposes i'm straight too then, i have only had relationships with men up until meeting D.
I have a teenage daughter too.
Being gay in my opinion simply wasn't ever an option for me growing up. I was born a generation too early?! lol
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riccarda
I know lots of bi guys who are very reluctant to be open about it for fear of putting ladies off. me i play with boys, TGirls and Ladies but still prefer having the living daylights flogged out of me by Mistress but i am just a romantic at heart
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kopinov
I often think that 'categories' add very little to our understand of the human condition because, as soon as we place a perception of anything into a category or pigeonhole, we create and rationalise expectations based on that.
It seems to me that this limits our capacity to understand just how much everyone is different, or that people's likes, proclivities and aspirations are as fluid as the changing mood or state of mind influencing any one person's perception of another - so a label is almost bound to say as much about the expectations of the one creating it as it does about its subject.
It seems to me that this limits our capacity to understand just how much everyone is different, or that people's likes, proclivities and aspirations are as fluid as the changing mood or state of mind influencing any one person's perception of another - so a label is almost bound to say as much about the expectations of the one creating it as it does about its subject.
hmmmm assumptions can be so misleading, yet accepted as the real scenario by others, without question, thus leading to often a different way of been treated or worse lol !! i must admit we too know of a couple of girls that live together, they are not together, yet as said previously, they are treated as lesbians, by even their neighbours !!! yet happily bring a guy/s home after am evening out the world is so judgemental, and box placing sometimes !!