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What's in a wink?

By The_Bibas · 6 April 2018 ·
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  2. Colin

    Colin PV Sprtr

    Never had a wink sent to me but have sent a few I just take it as there not interested and don't bother them again. As for messages I will always reply as I think that they have taken the trouble to write it its only polite to answer :tiphat:
    Sammy likes this.
  3. So you send winks but don't get a reply..
    But you reply to messages sent to you?
    Try sending messages instead of a wink
    Therapon and debE like this.
  4. Lebexsex

    Lebexsex PV Sprtr

    i dont think we have ever sent winks or received. we reply to messages and think its rude if people dont repond back to us even if its a no thanks.
  5. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    No winks are a little nudge thats all !
  6. No they are lazy..
    Rude even if not followed up .
    I never respond to winks

  7. I would have thought a wink is a good opener ? As in may be interested wink back or reply if you are too... less forceful an approach than a message but an approach nonetheless. Defo going to stop using a wink now though after seein what everone else thinks .
  8. Remember different strokes for different folks
  9. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    Must ne able to only send one wink
    Pearls likes this.
  10. Haha so true sammy but still We’ll need to remeber what we see as an invite could be seen by others to be the exact opposite.
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  11. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    Well on here I dont know if you have to over think anything otherwise brians go out of control !
    Pearls likes this.
  12. Meandlis

    Meandlis PV Sprtr

    Yes, until the recipient sends one back, you can only wink at a member once.
  13. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    I see thats why right I got it.
    Pearls likes this.
  14. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I wink people guys and don’t mind receiving one. I think it’s a nice start but you could always use the wink as a conversation starter if you know what I mean :whistle::D
  15. If people choose
    Totally agree
    Some see it as lazy while others see it as playful and fun
  16. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Can be a lot of fun. If you do it right and make it fun ;) *wink* :D
  17. Well if you got a cheeky wink in pub or club would you complain
  18. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Not at all. I used to love getting wolf whistles too. :D
  19. I'm probably guilty of winking when out lol lol maybe why I'm
    Not offend my winks here
  20. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

  21. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    They're a fun way of waving to someone and just saying hello. Granted some may say it's lazy and you should make more effort, but they're a harmless bit of fun really. x
    Therapon likes this.
  22. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    As I said it’s a good conversation starter. You can always send a quick message saying. “ just thought I would show how lovely your profile is by giving a little wink”
    Job done. ;)
    AlphaandBlue and Therapon like this.
  23. Baldrick

    Baldrick PV Sprtr

    Sending a wink is fine, it's a little fun and flirty. I find it's best to send a wink and follow it up with a message. Say something with more substance than "Hi" If someone says "Hi" to us, we say "Hi" back, and then it's conversation tumbleweed.
    Read a profile, send a wink, send an icebreaker message preferably mentioning something you've read on their profile or seen in the forums.

    Good luck (y)

    B x
    debE likes this.
  24. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    You only said hi to me :rofl:
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