For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable.....It can be hard to understand how “swinging” — when you swap partners with another couple and sleep with someone new — can actually lead to stronger relationship bonds....But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realise...
But what about when you don't swap... What if you only share your partner?... Sometimes watching.. Sometimes joining in...

Is this swinging?

For me it is not the same....
but it happens under the same umbrella... There are no sharing sites or sharing clubs... So here we are..

I have always been sexually active.. From around age 12 in fact when I used to expose myself for sweets.. Lol...

I was suppressed in marriage and lost myself... Then I met my current partner.. And all hell broke loose..

Biba was born...
But I am not a swinger..
To share my boyfriend with another woman is a no go... It threatens me..

For my partner however.. A man couldn't even look at me without my him reacting.. Always in anger...

Then one night about 3 years ago... I don't know how it happened... But It just happened... We took home a chef from our local restaurant ...
It was the worst sex I have ever had.. In fact I read him "The witches" by Roald Dahl in the end to pass the time ... Weird weird night indeed..
But everything changed for me and my partner after that night...
We became stronger...
Safe and secure...
Trusting and connected..
It changed our lives..
Any man can talk to me without fear of being hit.. In fact my partner is proud of the attention I get....
We can't imagine our lives without this and in truth..... We may become swingers yet......a big maybe...

This is not a hobby but a lifestyle..
It takes on so many forms but for those who embrace it.... It will embrace you... .make you stronger, accepted as part of the community....

I am Biba and I am a swinger....
Welcome to our family...

XxxBibaxxX



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