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Is sharing swinging?.... My story..

By The_Bibas · 9 February 2018 · ·
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  1. The_Bibas
    For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable.....It can be hard to understand how “swinging” — when you swap partners with another couple and sleep with someone new — can actually lead to stronger relationship bonds....But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realise...
    But what about when you don't swap... What if you only share your partner?... Sometimes watching.. Sometimes joining in...

    Is this swinging?

    For me it is not the same....
    but it happens under the same umbrella... There are no sharing sites or sharing clubs... So here we are..

    I have always been sexually active.. From around age 12 in fact when I used to expose myself for sweets.. Lol...

    I was suppressed in marriage and lost myself... Then I met my current partner.. And all hell broke loose..

    Biba was born...
    But I am not a swinger..
    To share my boyfriend with another woman is a no go... It threatens me..

    For my partner however.. A man couldn't even look at me without my him reacting.. Always in anger...

    Then one night about 3 years ago... I don't know how it happened... But It just happened... We took home a chef from our local restaurant ...
    It was the worst sex I have ever had.. In fact I read him "The witches" by Roald Dahl in the end to pass the time ... Weird weird night indeed..
    But everything changed for me and my partner after that night...
    We became stronger...
    Safe and secure...
    Trusting and connected..
    It changed our lives..
    Any man can talk to me without fear of being hit.. In fact my partner is proud of the attention I get....
    We can't imagine our lives without this and in truth..... We may become swingers yet......a big maybe...

    This is not a hobby but a lifestyle..
    It takes on so many forms but for those who embrace it.... It will embrace you... .make you stronger, accepted as part of the community....

    I am Biba and I am a swinger....
    Welcome to our family...

    XxxBibaxxX



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  1. The Stag and The Vixen
    Wow at last to here another lady’s thoughts on the MMF lifestyle, I am the extremely jealous type and get really cross if another woman even looks in my Husbands direction! Sharing him will never ever happen.

    They say youth is wasted on the young and believe this to be so true, I’ve been married to hubby for 19 years in June together for over 22years had we been able to get over jealousy and see the extreme sexual side of this lifestyle the fun we could of been having for a long time.

    The downside for us is actually finding the 3rd man for our fun, we got very close recently much to my frustration, I find it hard to get int bed with a total stranger so would like to build a little rapport with our playmate, the playmate we chose was not attentive enough for my husbands liking he say’s I’m the most beautiful lady in the world and I deserve to be adored. My heart melts even recalling his words, so my question to you is what am I doing wrong? How do I find the man to join us.

    After reading your story I instantly respected and can’t wait to experience the lifestyle too any help grateful accept xx Mrs B.
  2. JEA4life
    I/We couldn't Agree more with Every single word and could be our Story as well, minus a Chef ;) I'm proud of the Attention J gets(Deserves). Unfortunately, as a Young man with my ex, I was Quick to Fists if there was even a Glance in her direction as well. No longer though and we enjoy the Hell outta being Us:)
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