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I agree with you too. We have seen a big decline in the number of nice people in the lifestyle over the last few years and also many of our friends have also given up too. We are giving serious thought to chucking the towel in too as it seems that now we need to devote most of our lives to chatting to even stand a chance of a meet. We really dont have that sort of time to invest. It's really quite sad but we dont even bother looking at anyone elses profile on here with a view to meeting up, its become more of a social chat site tbh. As for the folks i find offensive i just dont read anything they post so they dont bother me. Folks like that dont normally hang around for long as once folks get used to them they move along and go find someone else to offend.
I know exactly what you mean. Meets are happening and people do meet up, but as we’ve mentioned in specific threads and posts about this very subject; people DO need to act more on what they’re trying to ascertain and accomplish within this lifestyle and on here.
It’s all great and well chatting about it, but meet up. Spend time getting out there and meeting people.
One of the best ways, especially for some newbies, is to come along to one of the site organised events and parties.
That’s another thing, people need to organise socials and parties, themselves. Do it and host things.
But definitely, more people actually need to act on what they’re suggesting and seeking, rather than just chatting about it.
What I do know and notice, is the site has a lot of people totally new to the whole scene.
What’s calculus got to do with Swinging?Calculus
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You could work out how many meets your getting per 100 messages you send out lolI know exactly what you mean. Meets are happening and people do meet up, but as we’ve mentioned in specific threads and posts about this very subject; people DO need to act more on what they’re trying to ascertain and accomplish within this lifestyle and on here.
It’s all great and well chatting about it, but meet up. Spend time getting out there and meeting people.
One of the best ways, especially for some newbies, is to come along to one of the site organised events and parties.
That’s another thing, people need to organise socials and parties, themselves. Do it and host things.
But definitely, more people actually need to act on what they’re suggesting and seeking, rather than just chatting about it.
What I do know and notice, is the site has a lot of people totally new to the whole scene.
What’s calculus got to do with Swinging?
Exactly. For some, it’s working and they’re busy having fun. For others, it’s not happening and they should think - well why not.
So we need to work out why it works for us in other places but not here - Mmmmmm will have to think about that. We have sent out fancy a shag notices lol. Never recieved any though ( note to self must change aftershave )Exactly. For some, it’s working and they’re busy having fun. For others, it’s not happening and they should think - well why not.
Well I mean that in more tongue and cheek too. A lot doesn’t help with geographical locale which is why we’re always pushing so hard for people to continually mention the site and promote the site.
But that said, I also know of a few people who’ve offered to meet others who are quite local - and nothings come of it. Which I find really very odd. A few have mentioned it to us privately and we can’t work some of it out. Granted, you’re not going to fancy everyone - but when there’s flirting going on, on the forums and then almost handed it to them on a plate, why then bottle it?
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How can anyone of earth really take pleasure from gardening or DI bloody Y
Saaaaave me please
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Saaaaave me please
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Hahaha thats what wrong i would not know flirting if it slapped me in the face. We do have restrictions on travel at the moment with our dog being so sick so folks would have to come to us or be near by for now. Maybe its a case of they talk the talk but loose the plot when its time for action
Sorry just read the headline and not the first postWhat’s calculus got to do with Swinging?
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Lots of folk have mentioned over last few weeks they wouldn't know flirting from friendly banter .. only talking to a member bout it yesterday n he felt the same , definitely spoken to more than few girls both single n part of couple that said without facial expressions n body language they really struggle
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Calculus
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lol I just mentioned gardening n diy
Duhhhhhhhhh
Note to me rtfp......
Read the feckin post
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When it comes to swinging we have always used the A1 approach. We have always looked at the blerb read it fully as some folks have a twist at the end that they somehow failed to put earlier on in the profile. Then if thats all good we move on to the media and if that checks out then its a message to see if they reply then next message with face pics and if they send pics back then ask the question do you fancy meeting for a drink. It should be that simple if done right
Not recently but about a couple of years ago someone on another site thought there was nothing wrong about saying i should get it on with my cousin 
as he and Neil are in a relationship, what is it with these people
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as he and Neil are in a relationship, what is it with these people Vxxx
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It is changing, Ive mentioned before how it was years ago, I still believe people don't have a full understanding of what swinging is especially on other sites x
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It's the obsession with taking photos of gaping butt holes I really don't getI still don't understand gaping, stretching and shoving the most crazy items into your ass, oh and pro-lapse
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Many moons ago I believed the same thing. Don't knock it 'till you've tried it
My dad always told me son dont try 3 things
anal sex
incest
and Morris dancing
Wow was he right
anal sex
incest
and Morris dancing
Wow was he right
That really reminds me of a quote by Sir Thomas Beecham (famous composer of yesteryear):
"Try everything once except for incest and country dancing."
* anal sex if greatThat really reminds me of a quote by Sir Thomas Beecham (famous composer of yesteryear):
"Try everything once except for incest and country dancing."