Well I mean that in more tongue and cheek too. A lot doesn’t help with geographical locale which is why we’re always pushing so hard for people to continually mention the site and promote the site.
But that said, I also know of a few people who’ve offered to meet others who are quite local - and nothings come of it. Which I find really very odd. A few have mentioned it to us privately and we can’t work some of it out. Granted, you’re not going to fancy everyone - but when there’s flirting going on, on the forums and then almost handed it to them on a plate, why then bottle it?