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24 June 2019
540
2,910
City
Washington
R I’ve got a image to keep,don’t think I’d get any fun if I did? ?????
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If everyone reading this thread goes and votes on your :arse: you’d be the winner:tiphat:#justsaying ... no I haven’t looked ,maybe while perving your good ladies media... purely by mistake you understand....i didn’t linger long I moved on as soon as poss:lol:


You see the thing is R's arse is pretty spectacular as far as I'm concerned and well deserving of MOTM ... totally unappreciated by the masses! I'll just have to keep giving it the private votes until there's some #arseverification in RL from here!
 

MyKinkyWorld

Handsome and Debonair
25 November 2017
1,579
8,150
Couples rarely pay attention to me (and to my AMAZING and OUTSTANDING photos! :whistle: :lol:) and I assume It's quite normal because they might be scared of being pressed. Anyway none has mistreated me till now, maybe because of the fact I'm usually polite and don't stress anyone. Besides some couple are often good and welcoming and I'm glad to be a friend of theirs.
At the end of the day, I would say that everything doesn't depend on being gents or couples, but on being either polite or rude and snobbish. Swinging people are just people so they can behave well or badly.
By the way, vote for my pics!
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,672
Couples rarely pay attention to me (and to my AMAZING and OUTSTANDING photos! :whistle: :lol:) and I assume It's quite normal because they might be scared of being pressed. Anyway none has mistreated me till now, maybe because of the fact I'm usually polite and don't stress anyone. Besides some couple are often good and welcoming and I'm glad to be a friend of theirs.
At the end of the day, I would say that everything doesn't depend on being gents or couples, but on being either polite or rude and snobbish. Swinging people are just people so they can behave well or badly.
By the way, vote for my pics!
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24 June 2019
540
2,910
City
Washington
Couples rarely pay attention to me (and to my AMAZING and OUTSTANDING photos! :whistle: :lol:) and I assume It's quite normal because they might be scared of being pressed. Anyway none has mistreated me till now, maybe because of the fact I'm usually polite and don't stress anyone. Besides some couple are often good and welcoming and I'm glad to be a friend of theirs.
At the end of the day, I would say that everything doesn't depend on being gents or couples, but on being either polite or rude and snobbish. Swinging people are just people so they can behave well or badly.
By the way, vote for my pics!

Believe me ... I have paid attention to your pics!

I am possibly guilty of looking, enjoying and not hitting like on SG's pics but certainly after this thread I shall do so in future!

J x
 
D

Deleted member 11852

As we are on the subject of single guys I am going to throw something out there. When we are looking at sg profiles if we would like to get to know someone better hubby always initiates a conversation through a message. I find that a sg will always ask hubby if it’s ok to talk to me, he always answers yes because she is a tart lol.
My question is are you single guys more cautious in approaching ladies in a couple than you would be a single lady. If so, why?? xx M
 
D

Deleted member 11852

Couples rarely pay attention to me (and to my AMAZING and OUTSTANDING photos! :whistle: :lol:) and I assume It's quite normal because they might be scared of being pressed. Anyway none has mistreated me till now, maybe because of the fact I'm usually polite and don't stress anyone. Besides some couple are often good and welcoming and I'm glad to be a friend of theirs.
At the end of the day, I would say that everything doesn't depend on being gents or couples, but on being either polite or rude and snobbish. Swinging people are just people so they can behave well or badly.
By the way, vote for my pics!
I love your pics and am guilty of not commenting enough. I promise I will do so in future xxx M
 
24 May 2017
38
380
City
Liverpool
As we are on the subject of single guys I am going to throw something out there. When we are looking at sg profiles if we would like to get to know someone better hubby always initiates a conversation through a message. I find that a sg will always ask hubby if it’s ok to talk to me, he always answers yes because she is a tart lol.
My question is are you single guys more cautious in approaching ladies in a couple than you would be a single lady. If so, why?? xx M
Well as a single guy who does go to clubs etc over the years I have always found that as a single if your notpushy and don't expect fun every time I have actually had more fun socialising with singles n couples and once they know your genuine and treat each one with respect etc you get a lot more in return n I have made a lot of friends socialising even if I'm in uniform or not
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
28,462
66,027
58
You see the thing is R's arse is pretty spectacular as far as I'm concerned and well deserving of MOTM ... totally unappreciated by the masses! I'll just have to keep giving it the private votes until there's some #arseverification in RL from here!
We need a new thread ... you can start it the Roberts Arse Appreciation Society...(RASS ) for short .... get him so MOTM votes ..... :tiphat: I know another one of my fantastic ideas you can thank me later:lol:
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
28,462
66,027
58
As we are on the subject of single guys I am going to throw something out there. When we are looking at sg profiles if we would like to get to know someone better hubby always initiates a conversation through a message. I find that a sg will always ask hubby if it’s ok to talk to me, he always answers yes because she is a tart lol.
My question is are you single guys more cautious in approaching ladies in a couple than you would be a single lady. If so, why?? xx M
Yes ... because it’s a couple... we have seen comments about husbands being ignored... so it’s always a difficult one to strike a good balance...
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
28,462
66,027
58
64 viewers all huddled up down out of the firing line ..... some of us have gone over in to NoMansLand .... :D there must be some more opinions to be had ...... be brave dodge the bullets .....
Roll up Roll up let’s be having you .... who’s first o_O
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,672
It would be great to hear more views from guys and how they feel or what experiences they have had being in this scene.

I do have a question though but don’t take it personally as it’s just an observation.

So we know some guys get treated badly but have you set the bar with the ladies?
Everyone says women rule in this scene which I hate and personally take that as an insult as I don’t behave like the majority. I would say I treat all equally.

So if guys pander to all women with constant love then women are going to start becoming bitches. (Only word I could think of sorry but you know what I mean)

Is it down to behaviour of guys?
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,672
Just to give an example.

Lady joins, how many men message within the first hour.

Man joins, how many ladies message first?

Then lady leaves because she’s bombarded and sees it as a site like all the others.

This is for couples also.

Apart from the idiots that have no clue on what good behaviour is. I think all sexes should be treated equally.

No one should be put on a pedestal and have different privileges to anyone else.
Couples, gents and ladies should all be treated the same
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
28,462
66,027
58
It would be great to hear more views from guys and how they feel or what experiences they have had being in this scene.

I do have a question though but don’t take it personally as it’s just an observation.

So we know some guys get treated badly but have you set the bar with the ladies?
Everyone says women rule in this scene which I hate and personally take that as an insult as I don’t behave like the majority. I would say I treat all equally.

So if guys pander to all women with constant love then women are going to start becoming bitches. (Only word I could think of sorry but you know what I mean)

Is it down to behaviour of guys?
So are you saying treat them mean to keep them keen ?
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,672
So are you saying treat them mean to keep them keen ?
May work!
Look, I don’t know the answer for guys, I don’t know the answer for some ladies who are bitches in this scene when treating guys badly but I do know it’s unfair for some to have the Uber swinger attitude of “how dare you” you know the ones.
Has this bar been set down to women being treated like gold?

I don’t know, just thinking so don’t shoot me down.
I don’t think it’s all down to the dicks treating women like shit.
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
28,462
66,027
58
Just to give an example.

Lady joins, how many men message within the first hour.

Man joins, how many ladies message first?

Then lady leaves because she’s bombarded and sees it as a site like all the others.

This is for couples also.

Apart from the idiots that have no clue on what good behaviour is. I think all sexes should be treated equally.

No one should be put on a pedestal and have different privileges to anyone else.
Couples, gents and ladies should all be treated the same
Isn’t it a numbers game again... so many blokes and couples chasing the same thing when a lady arrives she will get messages...
I’m always being told I should message people ,now if you message to much is that right or wrong ?
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
55,094
120,672
Isn’t it a numbers game again... so many blokes and couples chasing the same thing when a lady arrives she will get messages...
I’m always being told I should message people ,now if you message to much is that right or wrong ?
Good question and if I told you I would be giving my secrets away :D

Messages are great for some. You can see people without messaging. Do you have to bombard as soon as someone joins?
Ask yourself one question.
How daunting is it to join a site like this for the first time.
You get alerts everywhere, tags, messages.

On top of that you’re trying to figure out how to work things, add media and so on.

Maybe let people settle in for a few hours.