First club visit? Are you unsure? What to expect.

[RobbieFutuo]

i should probably add, that whilst my experience was quite 'raunchy', there were a number of singles and couples just chatting, wandering around observing, and actually only played together in a private room - but it did give them the opportunity to see what it was all about, and noone at any point was trying to pressure anyone into anything.

 

[Slackman]

Superb, thankyou. Was recently invited to go to a club with a like minded colleague and his wife, but I personally met the invite with a mixture of excitement and fear. This post has moved the bar more towards the excitement end of the scale and quashed lot of preconceptions. Thanks again.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Superb, thankyou. Was recently invited to go to a club with a like minded colleague and his wife, but I personally met the invite with a mixture of excitement and fear. This post has moved the bar more towards the excitement end of the scale and quashed lot of preconceptions. Thanks again.

Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx

you will definitely like it.

having now been to my second club, it was very different in layout, but exactly the same in atmosphere - lots of people just sitting round chatting, but opportunities to play 'if you wanted to'.

definitely my new favourite hobby.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

you will definitely like it.

having now been to my second club, it was very different in layout, but exactly the same in atmosphere - lots of people just sitting round chatting, but opportunities to play 'if you wanted to'.

definitely my new favourite hobby.

Oh hello you

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Oh hello you

hello to you too - missed you even if its has only been a few days

 

[Pearls]

Oh hello you

Close your mouth dear xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Close your mouth dear xx

Shush you damn is there no privacy around this gaff!

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Superb, thankyou. Was recently invited to go to a club with a like minded colleague and his wife, but I personally met the invite with a mixture of excitement and fear. This post has moved the bar more towards the excitement end of the scale and quashed lot of preconceptions. Thanks again.

and if you are lucky, you might even get to meet these two @Pearls @meet_the_fockers
i did and have never looked back

 

[meet_the_fockers]

hello to you too - missed you even if its has only been a few days

Aww bless you.. im in n out i got dragged out by my hair theyre very naughty!!

 

[Pearls]

and if you are lucky, you might even get to meet these two @Pearls @meet_the_fockers
i did and have never looked back

Oh smooth talker I see xx

 

[Pearls]

Aww bless you.. im in n out i got dragged out by my hair theyre very naughty!!

Kicking and screaming

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Aww bless you.. im in n out i got dragged out by my hair theyre very naughty!!

thats not good, i like your hair

 

[meet_the_fockers]

and if you are lucky, you might even get to meet these two @Pearls @meet_the_fockers
i did and have never looked back

Im not sure whether thats a good thing i was throwing myself around in a towel.. thinking i was the best dancer since legs n co..
pearls was strutting around half naked srveying the talent. @RobbieFutuo sat was a lot quieter until of course @Admin rocked up in a kilt

 

[Pearls]

Im not sure whether thats a good thing i was throwing myself around in a towel.. thinking i was the best dancer since legs n co..
pearls was strutting around half naked srveying the talent. @RobbieFutuo sat was a lot quieter until of course @Admin rocked up in a kilt

Hahaha true xx

 

[Slackman]

Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx

Is it ok to go on my own with my friend and his wife, or is it poor etiquette not taking a partner. Will I look out of place. I'm

you will definitely like it.

having now been to my second club, it was very different in layout, but exactly the same in atmosphere - lots of people just sitting round chatting, but opportunities to play 'if you wanted to'.

definitely my new favourite hobby.

Would it be acceptable for me to go with my friend and his wife without my wife, or would that be bad etiquette? My wife is yet to be convinced so this is kind of secretive at the moment and more of a research and reconnaissance exercise. I don't want to feel out of place by not taking a partner or looking like a single guy that's chancing his arm to get laid

 

[Admin]

Im not sure whether thats a good thing i was throwing myself around in a towel.. thinking i was the best dancer since legs n co..
pearls was strutting around half naked srveying the talent. @RobbieFutuo sat was a lot quieter until of course @Admin rocked up in a kilt

Fantastic evening and amazing club. You can really be yourself..
Kilt had to be done.
Lots of dancing going on aye

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Hahaha true xx

genuinely distraught i missed it

 

[RobbieFutuo]

Is it ok to go on my own with my friend and his wife, or is it poor etiquette not taking a partner. Will I look out of place. I'm

Would it be acceptable for me to go with my friend and his wife without my wife, or would that be bad etiquette? My wife is yet to be convinced so this is kind of secretive at the moment and more of a research and reconnaissance exercise. I don't want to feel out of place by not taking a partner or looking like a single guy that's chancing his arm to get laid

i went as a single guy. the clubs usually make very clear which nights single males are welcome (make sure you check in advance), and on those nights, you will definitely not look out of place

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Is it ok to go on my own with my friend and his wife, or is it poor etiquette not taking a partner. Will I look out of place. I'm

Would it be acceptable for me to go with my friend and his wife without my wife, or would that be bad etiquette? My wife is yet to be convinced so this is kind of secretive at the moment and more of a research and reconnaissance exercise. I don't want to feel out of place by not taking a partner or looking like a single guy that's chancing his arm to get laid

Oooo clubs have specific rules re entry..
ok some nights are couples only.. some nights as a couple you can take a "playmate" be it male or female.. its a sticky erm no pun area.. you would have to DEFINATELY check the clubs website re.. entry requirements whats on and when.
Ideally ring the club beforehand.. if you let me know which club you intend visiting i can check for you. If i cant i know a man who can. Ok just private message me..

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Robbie is of course right. You can go as a single guy and meet your freinds in there..

 

[RobbieFutuo]

i went as a single guy. the clubs usually make very clear which nights single males are welcome (make sure you check in advance), and on those nights, you will definitely not look out of place

on both occasions, the lady in a couple indicated to me she would like me to join her - being a single male suited them both very well. my advice would be to not 'act' like someone who just wants to get laid, but just socialise as if you would on a normal night out where you are meeting new people. Im very new to this but have learnt that generally, the more experienced swingers, or those women clearly intrested, will let you know, if you seem like a decent guy.
I suspect, if i was an arrogant sod, women would steer very clear.

Be nice, be respectful, and you will have a nice evening.

 

[Admin]

on both occasions, the lady in a couple indicated to me she would like me to join her - being a single male suited them both very well. my advice would be to not 'act' like someone who just wants to get laid, but just socialise as if you would on a normal night out where you are meeting new people. Im very new to this but have learnt that generally, the more experienced swingers, or those women clearly intrested, will let you know, if you seem like a decent guy.
I suspect, if i was an arrogant sod, women would steer very clear.

Be nice, be respectful, and you will have a nice evening.

This!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

on both occasions, the lady in a couple indicated to me she would like me to join her - being a single male suited them both very well. my advice would be to not 'act' like someone who just wants to get laid, but just socialise as if you would on a normal night out where you are meeting new people. Im very new to this but have learnt that generally, the more experienced swingers, or those women clearly intrested, will let you know, if you seem like a decent guy.
I suspect, if i was an arrogant sod, women would steer very clear.

Be nice, be respectful, and you will have a nice evening.

Smart and yummy... bonus

 

[Pearls]

Smart and yummy... bonus

Oh here we go xx