First club visit? Are you unsure? What to expect.

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That's very hard on the eye to read. Will try again later as no doubt you've added some valuable input. ;)
 
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Your not that invisible oh great one i do SEE you spamming i shall report you.. to you.. be careful ten lashings and you miss VV!!
 
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The Vanilla Alternative is a great club for first timers as it's layout makes for both easy socialising and then whatever further fun you both decide is right. I'd be pleased to provide any further help or advice you may need.
(Mrs) I've just spotted this - thanks for your offer @Steed99 I shall get OH to contact you :)
 
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That was a very interesting read as have been the replies. My wife and I have talked about visiting a club but always seem to find an excuse to not go. I suppose its a bottle thing. I'm not exactly an Adonis :lol: ...
 
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Once you are there you will be made to feel comfortable hun, no need to worry xx
That I don't doubt Pearls, I have chatted with club owners and feel they have been very genuine with me. I'm sure once we have the bottle to actually go it would be a case of "what were we bothered about". As we are very new to this lifestyle it's a case of baby steps. This thread has been a great help.. :D
 
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That I don't doubt Pearls, I have chatted with club owners and feel they have been very genuine with me. I'm sure once we have the bottle to actually go it would be a case of "what were we bothered about". As we are very new to this lifestyle it's a case of baby steps. This thread has been a great help.. :D
Baby steps is what its all about, once you dip those toes once you'll be going back for more, even if you just socialise and have a drink and a chat with people xx
 
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Baby steps is what its all about, once you dip those toes once you'll be going back for more, even if you just socialise and have a drink and a chat with people xx
After reading a few other threads I like the idea of the no pressure social events. It seems to me to be a good first step. Now to put my new tech skills to the test n find them..o_O
 
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