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When it stops being fun, that's when to stop.
Jealousy can be a real demon and sometimes you (generically) may not even see it creep in.
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Adam
Know what you mean and its usually me telling @Admin get in there you've pulled haha but if it were real life and we were out and a girl approached him...Well what can I say, broken knees
This is interesting - I'm learning a lot x
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ShhhAgonyAunt
I agree, and in my experience, it seriously kills what could have been a repairable marriage !!!
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That's a great perspective to have with each other and refreshing to see !
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I've had friends where this has happened and witnessed them having a big argument in a club.
One couple had met on a swinging site, got married after 2 years and had a baby. Relationship wasn't working out, so started swinging together and she got so jealous that he was having loads of fun in our 4sum. They had an huge argument and decided to give it up.
Couple of months later, she was back on the site, solo, wanting me to meet her without hubby's knowledge. I had to decline. Not long after, they split for good.
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ShhhAgonyAunt
Yes I see this scenario often unfortunately !!!
In a case where the marriage is sexless, and only one of the couple swing; sometimes it's not jealousy that kills the relationship, sometimes it's because the swinging partner won't stop when asked to focus on their failing relationship, or to try help fix it. Or one partner restricts the other's choice of swinging partner by banning the people their partner likes/wants to swing with.
It's not always jealousy that ends it, sometimes it is having your cake and eating it, then eating your partners cake. Or it's insecurity
It's not always jealousy that ends it, sometimes it is having your cake and eating it, then eating your partners cake. Or it's insecurity
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peakcouple
That's us. When we started swinging Rose took her time before doing a full swap (that took several club visits) because she thought I (Geoff) might be jealous. We'd soft-swing happily and do everything short of the ultimate and I didn't get jealous about that, so I said I'd be OK, but she needed to feel secure. When it actually happened the last thing I felt was jealousy! Never had any since; whether she's playing in a separate room, playing with more than one man, whatever. She's not jealous about whatever I do, either. So we totally agree with MTF's comment.
Swinging and jealousy seem totally incompatible.
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MickeyBlueBalls
Can't really say I've ever been the jealous type. You develop your thresholds to which are agreed between you both will not be crossed and stick to it. Some jealousy is bound to creep in from time to time but it's to what extent and how you channel it that matters. If one of you becomes a raging green eyed monster then a line's been crossed and must be acknowledged and actions to prevent it from RE-occurring. Bottom line and to coin a saying "If the fun stops - stop" otherwise it's over.
Exactly. There's a very fine line.
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Yes all the time...Sadly see jealousy far too often in this lifestyle and it's sad when it rears it's ugly head..x
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I've never experienced jealousy before, but that's probably because I've never been in a relationship to feel it.
In all honesty, I'm experiencing it for the first time, because I know that a certain lady is a million times a better person than I and there's a huge connection with the 3.
I know it's human to express this emotion, but I'm devastated I feel this way. Never in my life did I ever think I could have a pang of jealousy.
In all honesty, I'm experiencing it for the first time, because I know that a certain lady is a million times a better person than I and there's a huge connection with the 3.
I know it's human to express this emotion, but I'm devastated I feel this way. Never in my life did I ever think I could have a pang of jealousy.
Jealousy is a wasted emotion in our book. We find it funny when someone comes on to one or other of us in RL just so long as they don't come on too strong as we both know nothing is ever going to come of it. As for our swinging lives well if you not polite to both of us your going no place fast
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Tell me about itSadly see jealousy far too often in this lifestyle and it's sad when it rears it's ugly head..
It's a bitch isn't it... Too much of it about sometimes. xTell me about it
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It is..It sure is.....pathetic
xThat 'owned' thing between fuck buddies.
"You're mine and no one else can have you.. But I am free to do as I please of course."
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U read my mind lolIt is..
That 'owned' thing between fuck buddies.
"You're mine and no one else can have you.. But I am free to do as I please of course."
What am I thinking now ;-p
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