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29 May 2015
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Well to be honest I've never experienced much other than a single female partner. Kinda new to all this but the marriage has been open for quite some time. Wifey has her one on one with other men but I'm more open to sexual desires. Am I bi? Well I believe I am because the thought of it drives me wild especially with a couple. Have I tried it yet? No I haven't, YET but hope to explore that option one day soon. Sex is about exploring with an open mind for me. Wifey on the other hand is straight and not really interested in multiple partners at once so I'm on my own with that one lol :whistle::rolleyes::oops::bj1:
 
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lisamay

Ok ill be the odd one lol .. we are really not bi-friendly. If you do a mfm, you are going to do some touching, and that is fine. but that is something we talk about with men we are considering being with. It depends on intent. There are men who will say they want sex with both members of the couple, and that is what we consider bi. We dont play with them. But at the same time, we are not going to freak out if something touches something lol ...
Communication is the thing .
and communication can be sexy. but if you really dont want the same things, then you probably shouldnt play.. its not saying anything bad about a person ..
 
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29 December 2016
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James is bi. We are both hoping for some MMF action. However we are happy just playing, touching, the odd bit of sucking. Doesn't have to be full on sex between two men. I also want that FFM thing with James. Never had a woman before or had the urge until recently. So hoping that's gonna happen soon too. PLEEEEEAAASSE!!!! :D xxx
 
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Cuteclive4u

James is bi. We are both hoping for some MMF action. However we are happy just playing, touching, the odd bit of sucking. Doesn't have to be full on sex between two men. I also want that FFM thing with James. Never had a woman before or had the urge until recently. So hoping that's gonna happen soon too. PLEEEEEAAASSE!!!! :D xxx
I'll love some bi fun with your hubby
 
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29 December 2016
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Good topic Mr Marmite. I've talked to a couple of people about this including staff. It seems thatsex woman to woman is normal and sex guy to guy is shy, kinda taboo even in a club. But I don't do hypocrisy and anyone who isn't happy seeing it doesn't have to watch and all of us should be able to do whatever we want within reason and that's within reason because the VA or other clubs are not a straight clubs. I'd do whatever I want with men. It's rare that I fancy them and they have to be bi for me to fancy them anyway. Straight men have nothing to get funny about. They're missing out in my opinion. Lol
 
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I have only had one brief bi experience and it was oral only. This was in private, one I enjoyed and Mrs Brum enjoyed watching.
If I was going to have any further bi experience in a club, if it wasn't a bi night I would more than likely go to a private room. If it was a bi night that's different, it would happen were it happens and like already mentioned, if people don't like it do t watch.
 
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they have to be bi for me to fancy them anyway. Straight men have nothing to get funny about.
Yes, I'm the same. Straight guys do nothing for me. I will, sometimes, see a guy's profile and think "Please be bi" but, if they aren't, all interest goes out of the window.
As for a club situation, I'll happily play if the other party is interested - maybe only in a MMF/MMFF, though. Our first ever club experience was with a bi guy.
 
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peakcouple

In answer to Mr_and_Mrs_Marmite 's question, yes I have played bi at Chams but only during bi nights, MM action didn't produce any reaction other than friendly interest on those occasions. I'd be dubious about playing MM in an open playroom on any other night, although Rose has no hesitation about FF activity on those nights. MM is still a big turn-off for some men.

Having read some of the comments above, I'd like to reassure people that bi men don't expect bi action with other men unless invited, as far as we're concerned if we're having an MFMF 4some I'm not going to jump the other man suddenly, any more than R is going to jump the other woman! Bi play is definitely an invitation only activity, and not essential for either of us. Some bi people might feel differently, but hetero activity is the main attraction for us. That's why we call ourselves "bi playful" rather than bisexual or bi-curious.
 
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fizzers

It can be strange running along the fence when meeting another couple.
We were not told that the guy of the couple we were meeting was Bi, and I had not really decided whether I was Bi or straight. So anyway we met the other couple in a hotel room and after a chat we started playing a board game of kiss and tell. I picked a card that said, 'kiss the person to your left'. Well! He was on my left, so I kissed him, and my wife laughed and his wife looked shocked. But he snogged me back. And then we all played.
 
29 December 2016
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It can be strange running along the fence when meeting another couple.
We were not told that the guy of the couple we were meeting was Bi, and I had not really decided whether I was Bi or straight. So anyway we met the other couple in a hotel room and after a chat we started playing a board game of kiss and tell. I picked a card that said, 'kiss the person to your left'. Well! He was on my left, so I kissed him, and my wife laughed and his wife looked shocked. But he snogged me back. And then we all played.
I wanna play that game :love:
 
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