Biggest Misconceptions About Swinging..

I think you have pretty much nailed it there, but don't forget ALL lady swingers are just there for the single guys to shag at any time!
I so hope this site has a better standard of member than the other one I was on!

 

Agree and have heard all of the above so many times, but a biggy for me with all of the swingers, vanillas and newbies I talk to is "swinging isn't for single men and women!" Particularly the men seem to be amazed that there is a place for them in the lifestyle! I know the definition of swinging is essentially couples swapping but single men and women are an integral part of the scene......xxx

 

Oh I get my fair share of those when sorting out applications, have been asked all sorts of interesting things, and I'm like...."you might be better on a dating site" lol....xxx

 

It's such a vast area to cover.
Everyone's so different, we all have our own reasons....

 

I have to say, in the couple of weeks since we joined this site, our preconceptions have changed completely. We are pretty new to this and although we have been to many swinging clubs on BDSM nights, the idea of meeting in clubs for sex always came across as grubby and seedy, and the notion of a swinging site just made us think of a swathe of wanky old men and cock avatars. Boy were we wrong, this site is a delight to be on, loads of really nice people, helpful topics of conversation, fun, flirting and frivolity. We are still a fair way off going to a swinging night at a club, but this site has radically changed our views on swinging and the people who take part in it

 

I think sometimes swingers can be a lot more choosy, than people can sometimes be.. After a drunken night out!

 

Hello you two!! Where on earth have you been?! X

 

What about you get raped when you walk through the doors of any club.
All swinging women are body perfect 6' tall and blonde under 26
Or worst of all...swingers are responsible for the rise in STI's

 

We would agree with that wholeheartedly, the vanilla world is NOW, such a long way away for most of us, that you forget how hard vanilla singles perceive meeting people can be !! whilst we agree their are an awful lot of misconceptions towards swingers and the lifestyle they choose, (Most illustrated in earlier threads Lol), We are still convinced, its only a minority of them, that genuinely would not try this lifestyle if given the opportunity, but due to listening to a peer group that are there friends (And probably vanilla) they follow suit and believe and trust the misconceptions !! Such a shame xx

 

On visits we've done to clubs here in the UK, its not at all like that, their is a confidence, to be honest, but also an etiquette that seems to be adhered to, however abroad, confidence levels are so much higher and etiquette not in view at all so its different ball game.
You will find in the UK, an attraction will be sought first, before an approach is made, and others their will gauge how you react and your body language before making assumptions xxx (Hope that helps your nerves a little) xxx

 

YES YES YES.......tank heavens someone from the fet scene took a look with new eyes....join our mission, not to convert them but to make them see we're all the same but with different kinks

 

I have to say that @TownhouseTwosome have had this type of crossover activity going on for some time with the '50 shades meets swingers nights', and other themes introducing the two sides to each other. As i alluded to in my previous comment we are certainly going to give swinging a try, and its not what we thought it would be after mingling with folks on here. So basically if you can educated us, then why not others. Even when i joined SS i would never have envisioned myself going to a swingers night at a club, and yet on Saturday we will be doing just that ( i'm still taking my toy bags to try to convert some swingers to BDSM though )

 

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@meet_the_fockers AND LOTS OF FLASH WOOL !!!

 

You dont scare me, bring it on i tell ya.. bring it on

 

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