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The-A-Team

The-A-Team

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Therapon said:
Have to agree this site is different and why I'm still here. I get fed up of hearing that the two approaches, fet and swinging do not mix. There are a few people I know from munches who are also involved in both scenes but they are few and far between but hopefully this site will help to change attitudes. This is the only site I've been on where I am happy to say I have an interest in both scenes.
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We have to agree completely, since we have joined SS, and have seen a lot of the media and read a lot of the forums, Mrs A Team has had acquired an inkling/fantasy towards various forms of BDSM, and has indeed had a very small delve into this side of things with some so far, very good results !! We would never have dreamt of going onto a specialist site for something like this, but have been enlightened nicely as a direct of the integration here !! so Thank you from us !!!
 
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Scott

This is a great thread, hits the nail on the head with a few points. I've found to be very successful with more couples than singles so there is definitely a place for us single guys in the swinging world, as long as you know how.to act accordingly. If you know how to have a laugh and not think with your cock you can get very far in this world. Also to @zebo I've found most UK clubs to be very relaxed.places and for the most part very well kept and presented. What I always tell people who ask about clubs is its basically a small nightclub filled with people of the same interests and rooms upstairs if you feel like having fun, really worth checking one out if you haven't yet x
 
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HungNhard said:
I've found to be very successful with more couples than singles so there is definitely a place for us single guys in the swinging world, as long as you know how.to act accordingly. If you know how to have a laugh and not think with your cock you can get very far in this world.
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Totally agree.. Of course there is, and as long as you think and act accordingly as mentioned, you (generically) will go far.. Agreed. ;) (y)
 
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@HungNhard we know the clubs we have been to on BDSM nights are clean, and well kept, so its not that aspect that we are nervous about, its the 'would you like to come upstairs' scenario we are wondering about. For me i think thats mainly due to my age and upbringing, and for @Mz-Zebo its the social interaction that is her worry, but we are determined to give it a go.
 
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Scott

@zebo I totally understand, it's not something to just dive into blindly. Not speaking for every swinger out there but myself and lots of others would generally chat for an hour or two see how we get on and if the night is going well and everybody seems to be in the same place I'd ask if they wanted to play, if it a no its not a bother too me, I understand that I'm not to everybody's tastes sexually even if we get on well. I think one of the main points is being able to take rejection as well as not feeling pressured to say yes. Social meet ups are a good first step before trying a club in my opinion.
 
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Dave&Krissy

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Well I thought this would be a good thread to get going about misconceptions, that people have about the swinging world and swingers.

I think, as mentioned to someone the other day, that some we've come across so far are;
All women are bi.
All men are straight.
Swingers will shag anything that moves.
There's no love or sex left in a marriage so it needs saving and spicing up.
It's sex and only sex, there's no way there can be any connection...

And so many more, but what do you think are the most common misconceptions in swinging?
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My work colleagues think it's keys in the bowl job or when you go to a club it's just one big orgy as you walk in the door.
 
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Fascinating, good to read and long may it stay this way in hear. Such a revelation. And I learnt about 'vanillas' (basically like muggles in another fantasy world!) plus a taster of the role for single guys -though more tips welcome on this. Currently I'm a "vanilla-single swinger cross-over" taking a step at a time.
 
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JustCurious99 said:
Fascinating, good to read and long may it stay this way in hear. Such a revelation. And I learnt about 'vanillas' (basically like muggles in another fantasy world!) plus a taster of the role for single guys -though more tips welcome on this. Currently I'm a "vanilla-single swinger cross-over" taking a step at a time.
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You'll soon learn loads of new stuff and hope you have a great time on your journey of discovery x
 
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Yes indeed Mr Curious, enjoy your voyage of discovery and self understanding.
Buckle up my friend! ;)
 
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TrustySteed

JustCurious99 said:
Fascinating, good to read and long may it stay this way in hear. Such a revelation. And I learnt about 'vanillas' (basically like muggles in another fantasy world!) plus a taster of the role for single guys -though more tips welcome on this. Currently I'm a "vanilla-single swinger cross-over" taking a step at a time.
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I have to each these sentiments. I too had likened 'Vanilla's' to muggles. Great minds. I am amazed at the friendliness of this site and thus indeed was an interesting read. As a single male I frequently felt persecuted on other sites. Some single males give us all a bad name, many thinking that every lady is there for the taking and getting aggressive on chat when rejected. This site is warm, friendly, fun and full of great advice. As a single male, I'm not looking to jump into the sac with everybody! Thank good I hear you all shout. I'm new to all this, apprehensive, nervous and not sure where the journey will take me. learning loads but quality over quantity every day of the week....
 
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TrustySteed said:
I have to each these sentiments. I too had likened 'Vanilla's' to muggles. Great minds. I am amazed at the friendliness of this site and thus indeed was an interesting read. As a single male I frequently felt persecuted on other sites. Some single males give us all a bad name, many thinking that every lady is there for the taking and getting aggressive on chat when rejected. This site is warm, friendly, fun and full of great advice. As a single male, I'm not looking to jump into the sac with everybody! Thank good I hear you all shout. I'm new to all this, apprehensive, nervous and not sure where the journey will take me. learning loads but quality over quantity every day of the week....
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Great minds do in deed think alike...though also fools seldom differ! I agree with your warm sentiments about this site. Hope everyone enjoys the weekend celebrations...
 
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