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Thank you guys@Richandpixie I highly doubt you’ve offended anyone in your posts etc. You should also not feel nervous in expressing your views, points of view and feelings either. Hopefully you will have realised that this site isn’t the same as others. The ethos instilled into it from day one, still continues and that is to be polite and respectful to all, regardless of anything else. So to a degree it’s a shame you’ve kind of had to explain and justify your choices, however, I for one can certainly understand why you’ve taken that particular stance.
That said, hopefully as time progresses you will most definitely be assured that we’re not the same as any other site - which may well change your views here.x
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My lovely wife didn’t write this my friend. I did.
If you re read the post is dose say straight single men. Unfortunately some people seem to have missed that when they’ve read it, along with the paragraph it’s in, missing the contextYour post does say about it being your prerogative to block single blokes ...which to me says you block them for being single blokes ... the site sets out to be social and tolerant of everyone’s preferences ...
Fair comment but they are blocking single blokes, women’s and couples for being straight ?I think their post said single STRAIGHT guys not just single guys. I believe they are both bi and looking for similar , not straight encounters.
It’s not a prejudice it’s a preference. We all have our own sexual preferences. It’s saves us waisting our time and other people’s when they haven’t read our profile fully. After all this thread has shown how easy it is for people to miss certain small but vital words when reading.Fair comment but they are blocking single blokes, women’s and couples for being straight ?
Then go on to say they have no prejudice against anyone’s sexuality...
Yeah don't know about that. I read and thought the original post was should we block people that don't suit to save people wasting their time and energy pursuing something that doesn't fit requirements. I think it is a response to the whole coffee shop market view point.Fair comment but they are blocking single blokes, women’s and couples for being straight ?
Then go on to say they have no prejudice against anyone’s sexuality...
Fair comment but they are blocking single blokes, women’s and couples for being straight ?
Then go on to say they have no prejudice against anyone’s sexuality...
I think you meant wasting as in waste. Not waisting as in she has a nice waist.lol. Where's the proof reader eh? ROFL.It’s not a prejudice it’s a preference. We all have our own sexual preferences. It’s saves us waisting our time and other people’s when they haven’t read our profile fully. After all this thread has shown how easy it is for people to miss certain small but vital words when reading.
Rich
Yeah don't know about that. I read and thought the original post was should we block people that don't suit to save people wasting their time and energy pursuing something that doesn't fit requirements. I think it is a response to the whole coffee shop market view point.
I hate predictive auto text on My phone lolI think you meant wasting as in waste. Not waisting as in she has a nice waist.lol. Where's the proof reader eh? ROFL.
its not as if I haven`t read it more than once its a case of interpreting what`s been written ..It’s not a prejudice it’s a preference. We all have our own sexual preferences. It’s saves us waisting our time and other people’s when they haven’t read our profile fully. After all this thread has shown how easy it is for people to miss certain small but vital words when reading.
Rich
Absolutely ..... I was genuinely interested to hear others take on this ..... I didn’t mean to cause offence xx
Unfortunately it seems you have misinterpreted it. That’s why I explained it more fully in the follow up postits not as if I haven`t read it more than once its a case of interpreting what`s been written ..
maybe I have ... for me to block someone there should be more reason than them being straight or otherwiseUnfortunately it seems you have misinterpreted it. That’s why I
You’re welcome. Hopefully you will see and find (if not already) that this is nothing like anywhere else you may have been.Thank you guys
I don't think anyone is offended and given what would appear to be a poor experience for you elsewhere then I can understand your reasons.
I would also agree that if members want to follow you then they should have the courtesy to ask if that is ok with you. Many do but there will always be a few who won't.
All we are trying to say is we believe this site is different and that blocking really is a last resort to be used only when really needed on an individual basis.
Just been thinking about this whilst in work.I wonder what would happen if the single STRAIGHT guys started getting full inboxes from gay guys wanting to meet up. Would the block feature come in to play then, I would hope not but think it might. Sorry to start it all up again but intrigued for people's views.
For me all I would do is a polite no thank you ... all it takes ...Just been thinking about this whilst in work.I wonder what would happen if the single STRAIGHT guys started getting full inboxes from gay guys wanting to meet up. Would the block feature come in to play then, I would hope not but think it might. Sorry to start it all up again but intrigued for people's views.
Agreed.For me all I would do is a polite no thank you ... all it takes ...
Yeah that’s a valid point though.Just been thinking about this whilst in work.I wonder what would happen if the single STRAIGHT guys started getting full inboxes from gay guys wanting to meet up. Would the block feature come in to play then, I would hope not but think it might. Sorry to start it all up again but intrigued for people's views.
I think we would be the same. I think we would need constant asking , pestering , badgering before looking to block. Nice to know we aren't alone.Agreed.
As a couple - we’d say the same. Whether a single lady, gent or couple. If we’re not interested sexually, we will say “thank you but no thank you, it’s just not for us”. We’d still interact on the forums though too.
As it stands now, we’re not ones to meet single guys - but still interact on the forums etc.
I don't think there is a choice , you block or not it covers everything.Now to block from messaging would be prudent but to block from seeing people's post upon the forums removes conversation and diminishes debate and conversation just my opinion .
Ahhh can you block the two things? As in stop people seeing your profile as opposed to removing them from a thread ..... xxNow to block from messaging would be prudent but to block from seeing people's post upon the forums removes conversation and diminishes debate and conversation just my opinion .
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