You're not alone...seriously it's deeply surprising how many here, are actually very shy and unsure how to get going.Whom else some times struggles with the pressure of striking up a conversation with someone knew? That awkward moment of not knowing what to put in the first message?
... No.... Just me!
What I need is silly, but I would like someone to hold my hand as I take my first few steps into the life style.... And chat
Agreed....
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I didn't mean you did have one..sorry shouldn't have said that in a negative way. X
Scary.... Wouldn't know what to put in the message.. links back to this thread..paradox caused... Space and time are collapsing!You would have to ask him
Nobody here has seen my junk yet..... Maybe that's the problem. LolTip number one know your audience - read their profile.
Tip number two be polite and respectful.
Tip number three...be patient
Tip number four ......never ever send photos of yer junk unless requested.
Be relaxed & be yourself.
Meeting people......ferked if I know...lol but I'm sure you'll figure it out. Good luck mate.
It's finding the right profile maybe. Or maybe I don't like putting people out by messaging first.. I have no ideaSo why don't you find a profile that's suitable for you and them, and just literally start talking? Introduce yourself and go from there? Don't ask how their day's been, or how they are... but be blunt (not crude) to the point and say - seen your profile, we share similar ideas and tastes. I'm Cutie - nice to meet you.
Or something like that.
Tip number one know your audience - read their profile.
Tip number two be polite and respectful.
Tip number three...be patient
Tip number four ......never ever send photos of yer junk unless requested.
Be relaxed & be yourself.
Meeting people......ferked if I know...lol but I'm sure you'll figure it out. Good luck mate.
Well as somebody has already mentioned get involved in the forums. They're really the best place to get the measure of your intended victi......I mean members that interest you and for other members to notice you. Waiting for others to contact you first rarely happens as there's several thousand other members with profiles to look at too. Don't take anything too seriously, like I said before just be yourself. I can only say type out the message you would like to send to somebody of interest put your phone, laptop down for a minute or two, take a deep breath and go straight in and send it. I guarantee you will not get a shitty response. (Provided you're polite and respectful). If you get a "no thank you " then suck it up and check out some more of SS's marvellous members. All comes with experience so get crackin!
) you will probably get 1 response from 5 messages sent 
Haven't gotten a "no thank you"....yet!Well as somebody has already mentioned get involved in the forums. They're really the best place to get the measure of your intended victi......I mean members that interest you and for other members to notice you. Waiting for others to contact you first rarely happens as there's several thousand other members with profiles to look at too. Don't take anything too seriously, like I said before just be yourself. I can only say type out the message you would like to send to somebody of interest put your phone, laptop down for a minute or two, take a deep breath and go straight in and send it. I guarantee you will not get a shitty response. (Provided you're polite and respectful). If you get a "no thank you " then suck it up and check out some more of SS's marvellous members. All comes with experience so get crackin!
Some wicked advice there stew and nothing you don't tell me all the time.
You...random, nutty? Never for a second would I think that of you......
Then you're doing something right or if no response then let them not waste a moment more of your time.
