No offence hun and perfect responseHaving read this thread I have to admit that I have been jealous through no fault of anyones but mine. I want to experience new things and have done but at the same time its made me realise what I cant do and that for me is extremely tricky . in terms of jealousy with other partners on occasion its happened but especially in this scene you have to accept everything at face value and as a single male realise that its mutual enjoyment.
To pick up on @Admin point about approaching @Pearls for enjoyment without his knowledge is just plain rude and as a single male I wouldn't even dream of asking a couple to play without everyones agreement or it does not happen.
The swinging scene in my eyes is to enjoy and explore if you have any issues it generally brings it to the surface. Swinging does not fix anything its there to add to and enhance an already strong relationship.
For me when I stop enjoying what this scene has to offer I take myself away from it.
Please note that these are just my views and are not ment to cause offense to anyone.
When it stops being fun, that's when to stop.Having read this thread I have to admit that I have been jealous through no fault of anyones but mine. I want to experience new things and have done but at the same time its made me realise what I cant do and that for me is extremely tricky . in terms of jealousy with other partners on occasion its happened but especially in this scene you have to accept everything at face value and as a single male realise that its mutual enjoyment.
To pick up on @Admin point about approaching @Pearls for enjoyment without his knowledge is just plain rude and as a single male I wouldn't even dream of asking a couple to play without everyones agreement or it does not happen.
The swinging scene in my eyes is to enjoy and explore if you have any issues it generally brings it to the surface. Swinging does not fix anything its there to add to and enhance an already strong relationship.
For me when I stop enjoying what this scene has to offer I take myself away from it.
Please note that these are just my views and are not ment to cause offense to anyone.
Know what you mean and its usually me telling @Admin get in there you've pulled haha but if it were real life and we were out and a girl approached him...Well what can I say, broken knees
Exactly....nothing beats the sex that you have with your partner within your relationship. Swinging is and should be fun but it doesnt replace the love and sex you have together. Xxxx
I agree, and in my experience, it seriously kills what could have been a repairable marriage !!!THE biggest mistake in a marriage or relationship is to try swinging - as a means to repair a failing marriage that is sexless.
Because it's the final nail in the coffin. x
That's a great perspective to have with each other and refreshing to see !I think that in a loving relationship it woukd be impossible to not have some pangs of jelousy watching the person you adore with someone else. But when you put into perspective....yes he may be with someone else....but so are you. Youre in the same room. At the end of it all he/she leaves with you.
It always makes me appreciate just what we have. And it makes us feel stronger as a couple. After a meet we usually cant keep our hands off each other. For us a little bit of jelousy works but if there are trust issues....swinging will only end in tears. Xxx
I've had friends where this has happened and witnessed them having a big argument in a club.I agree, and in my experience, it seriously kills what could have been a repairable marriage !!!
@ShhhAgonyAunt
Yes I see this scenario often unfortunately !!!I've had friends where this has happened and witnessed them having a big argument in a club.
One couple had met on a swinging site, got married after 2 years and had a baby. Relationship wasn't working out, so started swinging together and she got so jealous that he was having loads of fun in our 4sum. They had an huge argument and decided to give it up.
Couple of months later, she was back on the site, solo, wanting me to meet her without hubby's knowledge. I had to decline. Not long after, they split for good.
Myself n mr F make love.. well sometimes its just sex i suppose.. when it gets a bit frantic.
But with other people its not lovemaking, its just lustful sex.
When it stops being fun, that's when to stop.
Jealousy can be a real demon and sometimes you (generically) may not even see it creep in.
Exactly. There's a very fine line."If the fun stops - stop" otherwise it's over.
Yes all the time...Sadly see jealousy far too often in this lifestyle and it's sad when it rears it's ugly head..x
Tell me about itSadly see jealousy far too often in this lifestyle and it's sad when it rears it's ugly head..x
It's a bitch isn't it... Too much of it about sometimes. xTell me about it
It sure is.....patheticIt's a bitch isn't it... Too much of it about sometimes. x
It is..It sure is.....pathetic
U read my mind lolIt is..x
That 'owned' thing between fuck buddies.
"You're mine and no one else can have you.. But I am free to do as I please of course."
Get em offU read my mind lol
What am I thinking now ;-p
Really not helping at the moment :devil:Rawr....
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