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    Meeting Other Swinger Couples

    Discussion in 'Swinging Chats - Public' started by Admin, 19 March 2015.

    1. Admin

      Admin Site Owner Admin

      Meeting other swinger couples is hard. How do you walk up to a couple at a bar and ask if they are swingers? Imagine your embarrassment if they are not, and you have to slink away and hide. Vanillas just don’t understand that swinger couples are not the creepy people your mother warned you about. Swinging is fun for us. Swinging sets us free. If you’re not a swinger, then we don’t want to bother or upset you. We understand not everyone can be a swinger couple.

      What about singles too? Where do swinger singles go to meet others? It’s hard. Many swinger singles want to have threesomes with couples. Many would like to meet other swinger singles to partner up with and have a swinging relationship. Where carry out swinger singles head to get together?
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      Privacy for swinger couples and singles is the number one goal of Social Swinging. You control who sees your pictures, who you talk to and who you block. Others sites exist that CLAIM they are the biggest swinger sites, but most are fake there. Classifieds online sites are full of professional girls looking for money or they want you to pay to watch them on the cam site. At Social Swinging they take that type of abuse seriously and ban anyone trying to be a professional call girl or guy or promote another site. Social Swinging has real swinger couples.
       
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      • forest_pete

        forest_pete PV Registered

        As a single its very hard. But then its not a given right you will meet just because you are on a site
         
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        • Lace

          Lace PV Registered

          It is very hard as a single lady also, not that you would think it, but I feel vulnerable at times and yes I am very shy so have found meeting people tricky xx
           
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          • forest_pete

            forest_pete PV Registered

            I think as a single there needs to be a connection when meeting x
             
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            • Lace

              Lace PV Registered

              Very true @forest_pete always for me anyway and its hard to find that chemistry xx
               
            • forest_pete

              forest_pete PV Registered

              I am going to put some cards on the table here and it may back fire but I believe in honesty

              I haven't meet a single or couple for over a year, number of reasons.
              1. Lack of interest in me (my issue to sort that out)
              2. People who do contact are to pushy and want to meet that minute and if you cant, I.e. Work or him life commitments you are branded
              3. Lack of interest in single guys unless hung like a donkey or black.
              4. Lack of attraction to people mentally.

              But I love the banter and just chatting to lovely people x
               
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              • Lace

                Lace PV Registered

                I totally agree and its the same across the board banter and chatting is great and if people are not interested then tough x
                 
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                • Admin

                  Admin Site Owner Admin

                  I can totally relate to what you're saying Pete!
                  Genuinely, in fact both of us can - yes we are a REAL couple as you and most others know.
                  Sadly and I am going to make a blanket statement here, single men do get a tough time.

                  Not here per se, but overall. Sadly, again, that is down to small minded individuals - who have affected it for the majority.
                  Or actually perhaps the other way round....

                  Fact is, you're right on all you said, and from my own experience and observations, there is a bit more to it too.
                  There are a hell of a lot decent single men and women out there, involved in the scene, and it's not just about a quick shag on a Saturday night as and when you feel like either.

                  That said, it's also about choice and a lot of the time, some single men are often never given that chance.

                  Hopefully, what we've done here and tried to do, will help change this......
                  Why?
                  Because this site is a swinging site. For swingers, who can meet and make friends.
                  Some sites, let's be brutally honest about it - the swinging ethos and essence, is dead. More like f*ck sites now.
                  Is that swinging?

                  You decide......
                   
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                  • forest_pete

                    forest_pete PV Registered

                    That is why I dont meet unless I feel a spark. If I want a one night stand I will go out to the local city. I ain't trying to say poor me. What I was trying to say was people should take time to chat to fellow members even just to have a laugh in the forums
                     
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                    • Admin

                      Admin Site Owner Admin

                      Oh I know exactly where you're coming from.
                      We as a couple, believe in a rapport. We have too much respect in each other, and who we're speaking with, to not have a rapport - if anything were to develop.

                      We really do believe in having a rapport, along with the chemistry/attraction.

                      A forums, is a great way to get to know people and get chatting with people.
                      Have a laugh, have some fun, have that banter...

                      Because who knows what that may lead to?
                       
                    • forest_pete

                      forest_pete PV Registered

                      A friendly site hopefully
                       
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                      • Admin

                        Admin Site Owner Admin

                        Definitely, our total aim, is for a FRIENDLY, relaxed and easy environment.
                        Where people of all sexualities, all sexual persuasions, all tastes, can meet up, talk, be friendly and without any of the bullshit or hassle that comes along with other sites.

                        we want, and encourage people here to engage with each other on forums, make this a totally different site to the rest and not just because it's been built it to modern standards, but different because we are a place to be - with friendly, happy and chilled out members, who will if they choose to - make friends and have encounters, or not.

                        With like-minded people, who we can all feel comfortable with, and talking about anything and everything, and having a laugh too!
                        Without the fear of being judged, blown away by a flame or troll... or shot down as a result.

                        That's not us, not what we want and our ethos is totally away from any of that.
                        We're still young, still new, but by god we've got already got, better feelings of comfort and atmosphere than some of the other sites, who have been established for 4-5 years!!

                        That's very special and exactly what we've been trying to achieve.
                        A friendly, welcoming and fun community.
                         
                      • Lace

                        Lace PV Registered

                        Well @Admin you have certainly designed a site that is friendly and as you are aware I am a big fan and try to get to know people and get involved on the forums, as Im a peoples person anyway, but there are mindless people out there that take that as an excuse to get in your knickers if you are friendly,perhaps sometimes I think I should change who I am and not be so chatty but thats just me,I am a bit of a snob and do have high standards when meeting people and I do expect them to show respect at all times,I would never join a site where you are shown no respect and a site that is just a meet and f... site..Im sorry but Im worth more than that and Im not interested in mindless and ignorant people..That is my pet hate tbh manners cost nothing and that is something Ive been brought up with and I believe it has made me a good person for it. This place is everything that I expect in a swinging site and I believe it will only get better as long as you keep the trash out.........
                         
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                        • I hope you think I have manners @Shiraz I know we have chatted before, and my "fetish" usually overtakes my mind lol
                           
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                          • Lace

                            Lace PV Registered

                            You do indeed and a gent xxx
                             
                          • Pearls

                            Pearls Site Owner Admin

                            Interesting thread this and yes sparks and chemistry and hot hot lust is a must :p:p:pxx
                             
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                            • Abibi69xxx

                              Abibi69xxx Registered

                              We're a couple looking for a female to join us for a threesome.
                              I don't know where to start. Registered on a few sites but u need to pay just to chat with someone!
                              Any advice for some newbies to this x
                              Thanks
                               
                            • Admin

                              Admin Site Owner Admin

                              Well not here you don't ;) (y)
                              Best foot forward really will be to start visiting profiles, start engaging with people, add some photos - then you can view the gallery and like/leave comments on photos, and add some information on your profile.
                              Added to that add an avatar - because right now, all you are to people is a blank profile/account.. I mean that in the nicest possible way.

                              People won't talk to an empty account as you could literally be anyone doing anything.
                              Hope this helps. ;) x
                               
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                              • Chat, mingle have a laugh, above all don't take it seriously!!!. Flirt enjoy yourself.. Everyone's freindly here. Don't force it, it will come, just relax. Get yourselves out there! Natter! There are believe it or not plenty of supposed! Unicorns out there. Good luck enjoy... Go with the flow!
                                 
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                                • One thing I do know is. Ladies are curios they like to know what's on offer ;) xx
                                   
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                                  • You have started already by joining this site, we too are looking for a lady to join us, but for now we are just doing as @Admin has suggested you do, we are visiting profiles and getting to know people in here. For us its not just about the sex, its about striking up a relationship with people, becoming friends and getting to know them, if a meet happens great, if it doesn't, we have still become friends with a great bunch of people.
                                     
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                                    • riccarda

                                      riccarda PV Registered

                                      i always recommend going to events clubs, munches etc the fet scene is a lot more open these days and its funny how i could happily ask a lady if i could worship Her feet on a fet night but on the swinging scene well all tongue tied. While the Fet scene is my bag shall i say i love the swinging scene the laugh the social and how ever odd it might sound i love cuddling holding someone and being held, its like redbull it gives me wings lol
                                       
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                                      • We have been members at VA for 2 years now and try to visit as often as we can, as it's 120 miles away we always go for the weekend, friday nights are couples & single male & single female nights with saturday being couples & single ladies night, all the times we have been there we have never had a single male come up to us while we are in the bar and start chatting to us to get to know us and may be enquire if we are up for single male fun ( Will just add Nigel is 100% straight ) but when we get in the hot tub we are then approached and ask if they can join us, what i,m trying to say is they wont chat to you to find out their chances or even buy the lady a drink first but happy to shag ya then dissapear.
                                         
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                                        • Abibi69xxx

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                                        • JustCurious99

                                          JustCurious99 PV Registered

                                          Thanks @Admin for pointing me to this forum that gives a balanced introduction with great contributions from @Lace , @forest_pete and of course the wit that I am discovering is @meet_the_fockers! I can see you've created something noble here for the swinging community. A site that embraces newbies and presents a face of swinging that's genuinely like those 80's cream cake adds -naughty but nice! I'm lapping it all up!
                                           
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