Whats there not to like about you ??
Your a good laughI’m probably not the best person to answer that maybe a thread
You are always pulling yourself down....stop it xxxI’m probably not the best person to answer that maybe a thread
Did you mean he's always pulling himself ??You are always pulling yourself down....stop it xxx
@kev1960Did you mean he's always pulling himself ??
It’s not a case of me pulling myself down ... it’s a bit of my experience here , we all know everyone won’t like us that’s a given ..You are always pulling yourself down....stop it xxx
Well said, ??????I’ve probably said this before when I originally joined I had no idea if I would be accepted or even liked by anyone enough to want to chat or more with me so I sat back and I’ve said it before this can be very frustrating as a single bloke , you do get ignored by some ,but not by others ...
I used to sit back an wait but I’ve been told by many you have to be forward in this lifestyle, to coin the phrase “get in there !” , because the majority won’t message you first especially as a single bloke we all know what the meat market is like for rude people and fakes it can be sole destroying, this place is so different on that score ...
so the whole issue is if you sit back and don’t message newbies will you be potentially missing out .... most come and go some are here for a fee minutes is that because they have had lots of messages or do they see the fact that I’ve not been inundated no one can use this site ?
It’s a dilemma I know when is if best to message , do you message, how soon do you message .... does the site need a cooling period of day where newbies don’t receive any messages so they have time to acclimatise, will that just drive them away ...
Not sure what the answer to any of it is but do we continue as we do and the genuine ones who want to be here stay and the others just leave as per ...
From my point of view do I go back to sitting back hoping someone will contact me ? 99.9% of the time doesn’t happen.... is there an actual answer to this ? ....
I remember the day when you greeted us with your presence, all shy and quiet. All innocent. What happened?It’s not a case of me pulling myself down ... it’s a bit of my experience here , we all know everyone won’t like us that’s a given ..
Since starting this people tell me you have to stand out in a crowd , even at clubs you have to be forward or get left on the shelf , it’s difficult to balance what’s to much and what’s to little ...
I know it’s difficult for single ladies they will always be inundated as soon as they arrive, it’s a numbers game , everyone / most will target them and want the elusive unicorn ...
Even after all this time it’s knowing what’s enough,what’s to little .....
I still amI remember the day when you greeted us with your presence, all shy and quiet. All innocent. What happened?
Yeah that's very cleverPs clicking the orange arrow, right hand corner in my quote - will take you to the post where you can see the screenshot. ??
I’ve probably said this before when I originally joined I had no idea if I would be accepted or even liked by anyone enough to want to chat or more with me so I sat back and I’ve said it before this can be very frustrating as a single bloke , you do get ignored by some ,but not by others ...
I used to sit back an wait but I’ve been told by many you have to be forward in this lifestyle, to coin the phrase “get in there !” , because the majority won’t message you first especially as a single bloke we all know what the meat market is like for rude people and fakes it can be sole destroying, this place is so different on that score ...
so the whole issue is if you sit back and don’t message newbies will you be potentially missing out .... most come and go some are here for a fee minutes is that because they have had lots of messages or do they see the fact that I’ve not been inundated no one can use this site ?
It’s a dilemma I know when is if best to message , do you message, how soon do you message .... does the site need a cooling period of day where newbies don’t receive any messages so they have time to acclimatise, will that just drive them away ...
Not sure what the answer to any of it is but do we continue as we do and the genuine ones who want to be here stay and the others just leave as per ...
From my point of view do I go back to sitting back hoping someone will contact me ? 99.9% of the time doesn’t happen.... is there an actual answer to this ? ....
I know I’m guilty of messaging or profile posting quickly but of those messages of the last 20 messages I’ve sent I’ve received 9 replies some of those from established members who always message and reply , we all know that this lifestyle can bring the worse out in people thats mainly because I guess we are all chasing similar , everyone to a degree in this lifestyle is selfish we are here for our own ends, be that not replying to polite hellos , ignoring messages and blocking those who they see as competition...
Cock and balls mainlyYou didn't send me a hello message is there a problem ☹☹☹☹☹??
Cock and balls mainly... tits and Fanny and arse different ball game .....
Without the proper lady bits it’s going to be a deal breaker ?I have tits and an arse !!!
Can you afford to be that fussy ??Without the proper lady bits it’s going to be a deal breaker ?
Tart ??Now you mention it ....... no
I'm inNow you mention it ....... no
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