I agree with you too. We have seen a big decline in the number of nice people in the lifestyle over the last few years and also many of our friends have also given up too. We are giving serious thought to chucking the towel in too as it seems that now we need to devote most of our lives to chatting to even stand a chance of a meet. We really dont have that sort of time to invest. It's really quite sad but we dont even bother looking at anyone elses profile on here with a view to meeting up, its become more of a social chat site tbh. As for the folks i find offensive i just dont read anything they post so they dont bother me. Folks like that dont normally hang around for long as once folks get used to them they move along and go find someone else to offend.So not really using it to the full potential for you then?
So would I, but some people aren't and can't.
And that's what I mean.... all the fakes.
You know what, I really agree with this;
I've said the same recently to @Pearls that I feel the whole lifestyle is changing Mr B. All of it is.. it's different now to what it used to be. Really a huge difference too. I am not so sure how long it is actually going to last for tbh. It just all feels different now to what it did say 2-3 years ago.
Of course and there's not much difference in reality to RL of course. But I mean this specifically is sad to read (in bold)
I know exactly what you mean. Meets are happening and people do meet up, but as we’ve mentioned in specific threads and posts about this very subject; people DO need to act more on what they’re trying to ascertain and accomplish within this lifestyle and on here.I agree with you too. We have seen a big decline in the number of nice people in the lifestyle over the last few years and also many of our friends have also given up too. We are giving serious thought to chucking the towel in too as it seems that now we need to devote most of our lives to chatting to even stand a chance of a meet. We really dont have that sort of time to invest. It's really quite sad but we dont even bother looking at anyone elses profile on here with a view to meeting up, its become more of a social chat site tbh. As for the folks i find offensive i just dont read anything they post so they dont bother me. Folks like that dont normally hang around for long as once folks get used to them they move along and go find someone else to offend.
What’s calculus got to do with Swinging?Calculus
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You could work out how many meets your getting per 100 messages you send out lolI know exactly what you mean. Meets are happening and people do meet up, but as we’ve mentioned in specific threads and posts about this very subject; people DO need to act more on what they’re trying to ascertain and accomplish within this lifestyle and on here.
It’s all great and well chatting about it, but meet up. Spend time getting out there and meeting people.
One of the best ways, especially for some newbies, is to come along to one of the site organised events and parties.
That’s another thing, people need to organise socials and parties, themselves. Do it and host things.
But definitely, more people actually need to act on what they’re suggesting and seeking, rather than just chatting about it.
What I do know and notice, is the site has a lot of people totally new to the whole scene.
What’s calculus got to do with Swinging?
Exactly. For some, it’s working and they’re busy having fun. For others, it’s not happening and they should think - well why not.You could work out how many meets your getting per 100 messages you send out lol
So we need to work out why it works for us in other places but not here - Mmmmmm will have to think about that. We have sent out fancy a shag notices lol. Never recieved any though ( note to self must change aftershave )Exactly. For some, it’s working and they’re busy having fun. For others, it’s not happening and they should think - well why not.
Well I mean that in more tongue and cheek too. A lot doesn’t help with geographical locale which is why we’re always pushing so hard for people to continually mention the site and promote the site.So we need to work out why it works for us in other places but not here - Mmmmmm will have to think about that. We have sent out fancy a shag notices lol. Never recieved any though ( note to self must change aftershave )
Hahaha thats what wrong i would not know flirting if it slapped me in the face. We do have restrictions on travel at the moment with our dog being so sick so folks would have to come to us or be near by for now. Maybe its a case of they talk the talk but loose the plot when its time for actionWell I mean that in more tongue and cheek too. A lot doesn’t help with geographical locale which is why we’re always pushing so hard for people to continually mention the site and promote the site.
But that said, I also know of a few people who’ve offered to meet others who are quite local - and nothings come of it. Which I find really very odd. A few have mentioned it to us privately and we can’t work some of it out. Granted, you’re not going to fancy everyone - but when there’s flirting going on, on the forums and then almost handed it to them on a plate, why then bottle it?
Sorry just read the headline and not the first postWhat’s calculus got to do with Swinging?
Hahaha thats what wrong i would not know flirting if it slapped me in the face. We do have restrictions on travel at the moment with our dog being so sick so folks would have to come to us or be near by for now. Maybe its a case of they talk the talk but loose the plot when its time for action
Calculus
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It is changing, Ive mentioned before how it was years ago, I still believe people don't have a full understanding of what swinging is especially on other sites xI also think that this lifestyle is changing and that the old way and better way in our eyes is slowly fading out and being replaced with chatting about it for 6 months then meet up decide you dont like each other and never speak again.
It's the obsession with taking photos of gaping butt holes I really don't getI still don't understand gaping, stretching and shoving the most crazy items into your ass, oh and pro-lapse
Exactly, just whyIt's the obsession with taking photos of gaping butt holes I really don't get
Many moons ago I believed the same thing. Don't knock it 'till you've tried itThe whole arse play thing i dont get it - TBH i dont really want to either
That really reminds me of a quote by Sir Thomas Beecham (famous composer of yesteryear):My dad always told me son dont try 3 things
anal sex
incest
and Morris dancing
Wow was he right
* anal sex if greatThat really reminds me of a quote by Sir Thomas Beecham (famous composer of yesteryear):
"Try everything once except for incest and country dancing."
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