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Ahabs

Ahabs

14 February 2017
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I am actually incredibly shy so rarely send the first message (not for fear of rejection... But more so I don't make an arse of it).
So if interested, drop me a line, I don't bite... I just urn up and hope we have plenty of laughs :)
 
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Sending a message isn't pushy ! Christ if it were then I'd be really pushy :rofl: we're all here for the same thing essentially and things won't happen if you don't try !! Sometimes it pays off, others it doesn't BUT you've gotta be in it to win it ;)
Hanpat said:
I’m the opposite and I’d rather people sent the first message so that I don’t come across pushy! :rofl:
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DiamondJoe

DiamondJoe

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Hanpat said:
I’m the opposite and I’d rather people sent the first message so that I don’t come across pushy! :rofl:
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It's a bit different for women and men in this game tho'?

Men, single men in particular are sometimes seen as horny cannon fodder in this medium where women have much more power than in the real world. It's an interesting phenomenon. But. Let's face it, a guy attempting to get laid is pretty common and the difficulty is to rise above the pack in a positive way.

What would you like to see in that first message from someone?
 
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Pearls

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DiamondJoe said:
It's a bit different for women and men in this game tho'?

Men, single men in particular are sometimes seen as horny cannon fodder in this medium where women have much more power than in the real world. It's an interesting phenomenon. But. Let's face it, a guy attempting to get laid is pretty common and the difficulty is to rise above the pack in a positive way.

What would you like to see in that first message from someone?
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We were going to drop in your inbox later if it’s available :whistle:
 
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Hanpat

Hanpat

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DiamondJoe said:
It's a bit different for women and men in this game tho'?

Men, single men in particular are sometimes seen as horny cannon fodder in this medium where women have much more power than in the real world. It's an interesting phenomenon. But. Let's face it, a guy attempting to get laid is pretty common and the difficulty is to rise above the pack in a positive way.

What would you like to see in that first message from someone?
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Yeah I do understand where you’re coming from. I guess I don’t even want anything fancy, just a simple message saying hi or asking how I am is a good start - just makes a guy/person seem interested
 
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Hanpat said:
Yeah I do understand where you’re coming from. I guess I don’t even want anything fancy, just a simple message saying hi or asking how I am is a good start - just makes a guy/person seem interested
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How ya doing ? What ya wearing :whistle: lol Cxxx
 
Miss-Sexy-Legs

Miss-Sexy-Legs

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24 November 2015
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I still remember my first pm to someone on here it was
Oi you nutter stop teasing and lets meet
Hhmm he came at me with some very weird looking device and a butchers apron at the va first bday bash :eek::eek:I hid at that point :noidy:
 
Carpediem2008

Carpediem2008

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We always play it cool. . Chat for a little while if we click then just ask if they would like to meet for a drink and social... It's really that simple.... Although think we must be off our game as our message box is mighty empty hehe:cry::cry:
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Duuuuuuudes.... you all need to be getting it on man! :cool: so many saying not getting many messages - so grab the bull by the horns and go for it. It won't always fall into your laps peeps :sneaky: ;) x
 
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