So How Far Is Too Far

[meet_the_fockers]

Travelled, for socials a fair distance down South.
As far as personal meets Birmingham Sheffield.. unsure how far they are not so far i suspect..

 

[The_Bibas]

We don't travel anymore for meetings.
Spent too much on hotels etc to be let down.
We once made arrangements to meet 3 separate people so agreed to book a boutique hotel in London for a long weekend..
Not a single person turned up to meet us..
Similar issues in Leeds and Edinburgh..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[meet_the_fockers]

We don't travel anymore for meetings.
Spent too much on hotels etc to be let down.
We once made arrangements to meet 3 separate people so agreed to book a boutique hotel in London for a long weekend..
Not a single person turned up to meet us..
Similar issues in Leeds and Edinburgh..
XxxBibaxxX

Wonder why? Guessing these are people you didn't talk to much? Xxx

 

[The_Bibas]

Wonder why? Guessing these are people you didn't talk to much? Xxx

You would think so..
No in fact I spoke to one of them every day for months.
Another I spoke to for weeks and ok the last was a last minute arrangement..

They still try and talk to me now, but I don't reply... Often
XxxBibaxxX

 

[meet_the_fockers]

You would think so..
No in fact I spoke to one of them every day for months.
Another I spoke to for weeks and ok the last was a last minute arrangement..

They still try and talk to me now, but I don't reply... Often
XxxBibaxxX

I should imagine you don't. Sometimes I guess there's a genuine reason. But that's a lot of no shows twinkle.. no disrespect to guys whatsoever.. but they do tend to be the bottlers in the swinging world... i should imagine they're quietly papping their pants..
Unless of course they know the real Biba
Xxx

 

[The_Bibas]

I should imagine you don't. Sometimes I guess there's a genuine reason. But that's a lot of no shows twinkle.. no disrespect to guys whatsoever.. but they do tend to be the bottlers in the swinging world... i should imagine they're quietly papping their pants..
Unless of course they know the real Biba
Xxx

 

[Nigel&Julie]

We don't mind travelling as I (N) drive for a living, usually book a hotel somewhere to make a little break.

 

[Bobbie]

It may be relevant for me to confirm that this guy ( me) always turns up and treats it as a social meet really,
and if all happy play.
In my experience the longer the chat goes on for pre meeting and the more messaged exchanged the more likely
for a meeting to be cancelled. There is no substitute for face to face and impressions made remotely can be
inaccurate and sometimes downright misleading. I am much better looking and far more interesting
in person.!

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Well I now travel a round 500 miles every weekend to be with my cariad. Distance has never been an issue with me xxxx :0)) T

 

[Admin]

Well I now travel a round 500 miles every weekend to be with my cariad. Distance has never been an issue with me xxxx :0)) T

Knowing what I know, I am amazed to be honest... BUT! That's love for you...

 

[The_Bibas]

Well I now travel a round 500 miles every weekend to be with my cariad. Distance has never been an issue with me xxxx :0)) T

Love is a different issue.. Distance is irrelevant for that...
But for an acquaintance or potential meeting would you travel that distance?

XxxBibaxxX

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Love is a different issue.. Distance is irrelevant for that...
But for an acquaintance or potential meeting would you travel that distance?

XxxBibaxxX

I original met Miss C when I was an SG on SS and traveled that distance for our first meet.

Distance never an issue why should it be...with all the means of transport for us to use xxx :0)) T

 

[The_Bibas]

I original met Miss C when I was an SG on SS and traveled that distance for our first meet.

Distance never an issue why should it be...with all the means of transport for us to use xxx :0)) T

Yet so many can't even cross the road to make an effort.
You are a rare person..
I like that...

The answer is no.. In case you get ideas..
Lol
XxxBibaxxX

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Yet so many can't even cross the road to make an effort.
You are a rare person..
I like that...

The answer is no.. In case you get ideas..
Lol
XxxBibaxxX

Snap my answer is no as well xxx :0)) T

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Even when I've offered to travel they've still said it's too far. Bollox to them.

 

[The_Bibas]

Snap my answer is no as well xxx :0)) T

I like your humour too...
See you in August hopefully

XxxBibaxxX

 

[Deleted member 3657]

And wouldn't ask anyway.

 

[Deleted member 6127]

I like your humour too...
See you in August hopefully

XxxBibaxxX

We both look forward to having a glass or two of wine with you both

Bottoms up xxx :0)) T

 

[The_Bibas]

Even when I've offered to travel they've still said it's too far. Bollox to them.

A wise man once told me to rethink my approach... Not dilute my fantasy.. But find another way...
My turn to offer that advice back..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[The_Bibas]

We both look forward to having a glass or two of wine with you both

Bottoms up xxx :0)) T

Behave
Xxx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

A wise man once told me to rethink my approach... Not dilute my fantasy.. But find another way...
My turn to offer that advice back..
XxxBibaxxX

Talking out of his arse.

 

[The_Bibas]

Talking out of his arse.

Except he happens to be right.. I am taking the advice..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Except he happens to be right.. I am taking the advice..
XxxBibaxxX

Never dilute your fantasy.. they are all do-able..
The distance depends how badly you want it. X

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Except he happens to be right.. I am taking the advice..
XxxBibaxxX

Obviously his advice was unique for you. For someone like you to take that advice a feel it to be true then it can only be meant for you.

 

[The_Bibas]

Never dilute your fantasy.. they are all do-able..
The distance depends how badly you want it. X

Which is why we are going to be at the VA..
Not diluting it but finding another way

XxxBibaxxX