Swinging Not Dating

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Pearls

Good reply
 
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30 March 2017
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I came into Swinging for Swinging not dating, I’ve met a few ladies over the years that we’re looking for a relationship (not my type) and had some regular fun with them.
If the situation were to arise I certainly wouldn’t turn it down
It would have to be someone pretty special and obviously there would have to be an amazing connection between us! Who knows what’s around the corner
 
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Pearls

Why not join a dating site?
Just curious
 
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I was introduced to swinging having come out of a 6 year (at the time, vanilla) relationship. Never knew anything about the lifestyle, so just wanted to enjoy myself. That has worked so far, and in that time have had some close bonds.
I even met my (until 2 and 1/2 weeks ago, now ex) partner on the scene, and we made the most of 9 years despite my not seeking a relationship.
So, despite recent developments, current mindset? I'm STILL not seeking a relationship: If I want one, I'll look on a non-swinging site.
I may have said this before but will say it again: can 2 people find each other? Ofcourse they can, and nothing wrong with that.
The problem begins when someone actively tries to use the swinging scene to find a relationship, and are not being honest with the prosect they have their eye on, who just wants to swing.
 
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Pearls

You got it. We have seen relationships develop but actively looking is becoming more prominent and should be kept for other areas.
 
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Pearls

Ok quick question
Am I allowed a husband and a girlfriend
Is it right?
Or wrong?
 
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