Good replyI think I answered this when the thread started, I never started swinging hoping to meet a partner, I’m still happy being on my own but someone regular a friend to share good times with , no real strings attached can that happen with someone regular? Don’t know ...
so swinging for me isn’t dating ....
Why not join a dating site?I came into Swinging for Swinging not dating, I’ve met a few ladies over the years that we’re looking for a relationship (not my type) and had some regular fun with them.
If the situation were to ariseI certainly wouldn’t turn it down
It would have to be someone pretty special and obviously there would have to be an amazing connection between us! Who knows what’s around the corner
You got it. We have seen relationships develop but actively looking is becoming more prominent and should be kept for other areas.I was introduced to swinging having come out of a 6 year (at the time, vanilla) relationship. Never knew anything about the lifestyle, so just wanted to enjoy myself. That has worked so far, and in that time have had some close bonds.
I even met my (until 2 and 1/2 weeks ago, now ex) partner on the scene, and we made the most of 9 years despite my not seeking a relationship.
So, despite recent developments, current mindset? I'm STILL not seeking a relationship: If I want one, I'll look on a non-swinging site.
I may have said this before but will say it again: can 2 people find each other? Ofcourse they can, and nothing wrong with that.
The problem begins when someone actively tries to use the swinging scene to find a relationship, and are not being honest with the prosect they have their eye on, who just wants to swing.
Why not join a dating site?
Just curious
Oh I seeBecause I’m not actively looking for dating but wouldn’t turn it down if it happened
But is it dating not swinging ??Ok quick question
Am I allowed a husbandand a girlfriend
Is it right?
Or wrong?
It’s an inbetweenie in itNope it’s not dating or nope it’s not swinging
Ahhh a girlfriend from within the swinging scene.Ok quick question
Am I allowed a husbandand a girlfriend
Is it right?
Or wrong?
I allowedAhhh a girlfriend from within the swinging scene.
Love it!xxx
Clear as mud now ....I’m still none the wiser ....It's swingating
You are welcome, my pleasure. Please call againClear as mud now ....I’m still none the wiser ....
Love a girl who knows what they want xx
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