Ok We've all been there, eager and see someone we like...but please remember we are real people looking to have fun. Turn off for me are: Using text talk in a message, instantly asking if I want to meet you/fuck you. Asking for information that is clearly on my profile. Start off slow its not a race. Rule of thumb, unless you would say it in real life face to face, don't say it on here. Sorry I might sound snobby but surely its a matter of showing respect? So other tips?