The way/way not to introduce yourself in a message

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22 March 2015
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Going back to the original post,all should read profiles first before chatting,you will then have the basics and wont need to ask the usual questions
i.e.. what you into or where you from ...xx
 
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Admin

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15 September 2014
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Yes I know the feeling, no-one reads mine they just directly ask me......
Usually starts with 'How do I...' haha :D
 
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meet_the_fockers

First messages.. Lol mine usually start with something pretty random. They very rarely start with sexual references.. Although I have been known to send the odd, fancy a fuck message.. BUT these are at someone I already, have a feel for, someone who I know will take it..in the context, it's supposed to be taken in.. Not some random newbie.. I like to get to know someone through messages it's good to bounce of someone. No pun lol... Although..?? :)
Out of the 100,s of fancy a fuck messages sent.. There's the slight chance, one will get through and be answered, yes ok when.. Just hedging their bets.. I'm guessing this site is called social swingers.. The emphasis being on social.. Although there is a fair bit of fucking going on. For those showing the user's a little respect..
 
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First messages.. Lol mine usually start with something pretty random. They very rarely start with sexual references.. Although I have been known to send the odd, fancy a fuck message.. BUT these are at someone I already, have a feel for, someone who I know will take it..in the context, it's supposed to be taken in.. Not some random newbie.. I like to get to know someone through messages it's good to bounce of someone. No pun lol... Although..?? :)
Out of the 100,s of fancy a fuck messages sent.. There's the slight chance, one will get through and be answered, yes ok when.. Just hedging their bets.. I'm guessing this site is called social swingers.. The emphasis being on social.. Although there is a fair bit of fucking going on. For those showing the user's a little respect..

That's it, it takes time, rapport, building things up and getting to the point where you feel that it's apt to say; okay so fancy meeting?
You know? it takes time and effort.. We're all capable of it, but how you conduct yourself makes all the difference.

There is an emphasis on being social, correct.. That was and is the whole point.
To make it more sociable where you CAN have banter, you CAN chat and play around and have fun.. if you want it or want to.
Then, when ready - take it to the next level.. The whole site and emphasis is being more social with our fellow swingers. Not cold, callous and clinical. (?)
And yeah there's plenty of meets happening and people meeting up, socialising and more..
Mostly by the people who are respectful, polite and have well written profiles etc.

It's happening and peeps are meeting, but the 'fancy a fuck' crowd won't get anywhere.. That much I can tell you. :) x
 
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18 July 2015
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I saw the word bounce in all that.....but it is true and I get the same but speak like that and you get no where in my book, have a brain and I will chat to you, its when you get the question "where you from" No hello first or good day...This is social swinging and not a meet greet and f... site like others and we have a genuine class of people here that are very interested in the scene.
All down to Sybilllll really hehe xx
 
22 March 2015
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You have to get to know someone and some just want to ask the question without knowing anything about you....shall we have fun...
 
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Hollynys

From our experience it is younger guys who think they are on fishing trips, if they throw in enough bait they may get lucky. Give us good old flirting all day long. Just cos we swing, we won't just fuck anyone
 
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18 July 2015
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From our experience it is younger guys who think they are on fishing trips, if they throw in enough bait they may get lucky. Give us good old flirting all day long. Just cos we swing, we won't just fuck anyone
Brilliant way of putting it hun and spot on xx
 
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meet_the_fockers

I saw the word bounce in all that.....but it is true and I get the same but speak like that and you get no where in my book, have a brain and I will chat to you, its when you get the question "where you from" No hello first or good day...This is social swinging and not a meet greet and f... site like others and we have a genuine class of people here that are very interested in the scene.
All down to Sybilllll really hehe xx
Aye up doll, Wat ya in2? Fancy a fuck... :rofl:
 
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