The way/way not to introduce yourself in a message
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Going back to the original post,all should read profiles first before chatting,you will then have the basics and wont need to ask the usual questions
i.e.. what you into or where you from ...xx
i.e.. what you into or where you from ...xx
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First messages.. Lol mine usually start with something pretty random. They very rarely start with sexual references.. Although I have been known to send the odd, fancy a fuck message.. BUT these are at someone I already, have a feel for, someone who I know will take it..in the context, it's supposed to be taken in.. Not some random newbie.. I like to get to know someone through messages it's good to bounce of someone. No pun lol... Although..?? 
Out of the 100,s of fancy a fuck messages sent.. There's the slight chance, one will get through and be answered, yes ok when.. Just hedging their bets.. I'm guessing this site is called social swingers.. The emphasis being on social.. Although there is a fair bit of fucking going on. For those showing the user's a little respect..
Out of the 100,s of fancy a fuck messages sent.. There's the slight chance, one will get through and be answered, yes ok when.. Just hedging their bets.. I'm guessing this site is called social swingers.. The emphasis being on social.. Although there is a fair bit of fucking going on. For those showing the user's a little respect..
First messages.. Lol mine usually start with something pretty random. They very rarely start with sexual references.. Although I have been known to send the odd, fancy a fuck message.. BUT these are at someone I already, have a feel for, someone who I know will take it..in the context, it's supposed to be taken in.. Not some random newbie.. I like to get to know someone through messages it's good to bounce of someone. No pun lol... Although..??
Out of the 100,s of fancy a fuck messages sent.. There's the slight chance, one will get through and be answered, yes ok when.. Just hedging their bets.. I'm guessing this site is called social swingers.. The emphasis being on social.. Although there is a fair bit of fucking going on. For those showing the user's a little respect..
That's it, it takes time, rapport, building things up and getting to the point where you feel that it's apt to say; okay so fancy meeting?
You know? it takes time and effort.. We're all capable of it, but how you conduct yourself makes all the difference.
There is an emphasis on being social, correct.. That was and is the whole point.
To make it more sociable where you CAN have banter, you CAN chat and play around and have fun.. if you want it or want to.
Then, when ready - take it to the next level.. The whole site and emphasis is being more social with our fellow swingers. Not cold, callous and clinical. (?)
And yeah there's plenty of meets happening and people meeting up, socialising and more..
Mostly by the people who are respectful, polite and have well written profiles etc.
It's happening and peeps are meeting, but the 'fancy a fuck' crowd won't get anywhere.. That much I can tell you.
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Hollynys
Plus if you are respectful it helps along with good manners. Also a little flirting online can increase the sexual tension but alleviate nerves when meeting for the first time 
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I saw the word bounce in all that.....but it is true and I get the same but speak like that and you get no where in my book, have a brain and I will chat to you, its when you get the question "where you from" No hello first or good day...This is social swinging and not a meet greet and f... site like others and we have a genuine class of people here that are very interested in the scene.
All down to Sybilllll really hehe xx
All down to Sybilllll really hehe xx
MOTM
Very true xxPlus if you are respectful it helps along with good manners. Also a little flirting online can increase the sexual tension but alleviate nerves when meeting for the first time
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Hollynys
From our experience it is younger guys who think they are on fishing trips, if they throw in enough bait they may get lucky. Give us good old flirting all day long. Just cos we swing, we won't just fuck anyone
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Oh I see flirt eh..but no bouncy bouncy!But we like flirting with youXx
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Oh go on then! Is that it!! Is that Bloodywell it..? Don't you go over board now... Thinking back to that video on my page hahaOh go on thenxx
MOTM
I dont mess around and at least I didnt say.."fancy a fuck".... that video looks like fun though
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