I agree but we do have to offer the tools. I’ve never used the block button but I will say if we get ignored then we simply don’t interact anymore with the person. No reason to really is there nor then having any intentions of meeting them in person.I know this wont be liked but if we join a site such as this why are we not all committed to make it the best, hiding behind no profile, stopping others being able to compliment you how can you enjoy if your not involved, I believe each member should see every other member and respect them x Ill shut up now.
Tbh I’ve never seen you interact much, just view threads but no acknowledgement. Like I’ve said before would you ignore someone who communicates in RL?
We see people view pic of the day, so it’s ok to stare at the pics but not acknowledge them! It’s not easy to parade yourself half naked publicly for some and takes guts. There isn’t respect anymore from people.
This wasn’t the case and plenty of others will confirm that.
Sadly the site is started a new era of such behaviour and we won’t keep the site if that is what it’s come too.
We’ve fought too hard to create the opposite of this.
It will be the genuine members who lose if it goes sadly.
It’s not just you and not personal against anyone but people do need to remember why they joined. The site has become a viewing platform which is not what you expect from a swinging site.I’m sorry you feel that way. If you have issues with how I use your site then please just send me a message.
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I remember.when I first joined the site I was very active and constantly posting/commenting, I was even the auctioneer at one stage
Unfortunately I don’t get anywhere near as much free time now as I used to so generally pop on for the odd 5 minutes here and there. I try to comment and or like posts as much as I can
Can’t see my activity increasing any time soon unfortunately
It’s not just you and not personal against anyone but people do need to remember why they joined. The site has become a viewing platform which is not what you expect from a swinging site.
Sadly no. It’s regular members as well as new ones. People may think here that the staff are on one or having a bad time but when we get to a point where this site will go due to to behaviour on line then we as staff have no problem in being honest. New era of swingers who don’t quite get it sadly.Maybe some of those people are new to being on a swinging site too.
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communication is key. G & I talk (tho its mostly me ranting AT him, ) honestly &openly about everything. Always have. He taught me so much about honesty and frankness. But we live in a generation that promotes free speech and open ideas, yet shuns the belief that a happy couple,Likewise, I would consider you both @GeoffRy among my best & freakiest friends!
None of that would have been possible, with out this site! @Lips_Pearls thank you!
Tiger xx
Admittedly, I’ve been quiet recently and probably turned into one of those people that views things to keep updated but won’t comment much. I generally turn up to site half asleep or after a long day and am probably not approaching this place with the right level of care and attention.
Totally understand where you’re coming from and even if I don’t have anything to add to threads, I’ll remember to acknowledge what others are saying with the ‘like’ buttons and such.
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Oops we may have been monopolising your time of late. Sorry ss. Xx GAdmittedly, I’ve been quiet recently and probably turned into one of those people that views things to keep updated but won’t comment much. I generally turn up to site half asleep or after a long day and am probably not approaching this place with the right level of care and attention.
Totally understand where you’re coming from and even if I don’t have anything to add to threads, I’ll remember to acknowledge what others are saying with the ‘like’ buttons and such.
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Ooh ooh please miss can we attend aforementioned shindig. Pretty please we promise to not be good. Xx GI agree but we do have to offer the tools. I’ve never used the block button but I will say if we get ignored then we simply don’t interact anymore with the person. No reason to really is there nor then having any intentions of meeting them in person.
We are planning a little shindig later in the year, it will be only people that are friends and people who interact with us that will be invited. If you can’t be courteous online then you won’t be face to face eh!
Have you been good?Ooh ooh please miss can we attend aforementioned shindig. Pretty please we promise to not be good. Xx G
Nope. , we never get alerts coz nobody loves us and everybody hates us so we are going down the garden to eat worms.Anyone have more alerts today?
Awww we love you xxNope. , we never get alerts coz nobody loves us and everybody hates us so we are going down the garden to eat worms.
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Love you too! Big snog & hugesNope. , we never get alerts coz nobody loves us and everybody hates us so we are going down the garden to eat worms.
Xx
You know Ry gets jealous when we have snogs and hugs. Lol. Xx GLove you too! Big snog & huges
Tiger xx
We can find those connections again. It’s always evolving with new members and members that want to get involved. XWell what a post and some great responses.
We joined several years ago and were very active during the time before we took a break from the scene. I even turned up to an event with a sprained ankle. Since returning a few months ago, we haven’t been so active, mainly down to several real life changes and stresses. We have never posted for the sake of it, and post when we feel we have something to add to a discussion. I (Mr Brum) check in the most and most of the time it’s just to see what’s going on. Should we be more active? Yes. Do we want to be more active? Yes. What stops us then? Time firstly, secondly our lost connection with many old members and not find the connection with many new members for the reasons we posted in another thread regarding the scene. We even have discussed walking away for good as the scene just isn’t what it was. But we keep coming back.
It’s a testament to the site that we only came back to this site after our break.
Very true. Guess we have to keep trying.We can find those connections again. It’s always evolving with new members and members that want to get involved. X
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