Fuck and go sites

[Skippy01]

She really is isn't she! How people can knock her confidence is a moral offence of the highest order!

The people didn't knock my confidence.That site and my own actions, because of the place did that.
The biggest insult was the one I got myself, when I realised you're not "wanted" on a site like that. You're basically picked because you're available at the time.Hard lesson to learn, but sucks when you do x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

The people didn't knock my confidence.That site and my own actions, because of the place did that.
The biggest insult was the one I got myself, when I realised you're not "wanted" on a site like that. You're basically picked because you're available at the time.Hard lesson to learn, but sucks when you do x

The key question to this though - is how can we make a difference?
We’ve got peeps who join wanting instashag. They are somewhat accustomed to that.
Then you’ve got peeps who are active, but the member base is sporadic.
Then you’ve got members who thoroughly enjoy listing peeps here and knocking them elsewhere - thus drawing activity away from here.
Those who do maximise their experience here - it pays off for.
But how we address the rest, I’ve no idea. X

 

[Pearls]

I will add on a serious note and only base this on experience, due to the quality of the folk on the drab site, if they crumbled today our doors would lock. There are no swingers on there any more. We keep swinging alive and not what they promote.
No different to a particular club I know that refuses any member from that site through the doors. Call it elite, snobbery or whatever you wish but we stand for swinging only and nothing else.

 

[Skippy01]

The key question to this though - is how can we make a difference?
We’ve got peeps who join wanting instashag. They are somewhat accustomed to that.
Then you’ve got peeps who are active, but the member base is sporadic.
Then you’ve got members who thoroughly enjoy listing peeps here and knocking them elsewhere - thus drawing activity away from here.
Those who do maximise their experience here - it pays off for.
But how we address the rest, I’ve no idea. X

I honestly believe it's the members who can make the difference. I know for a fact, there are people on here who have the numbers and connections to promote and get people involved on here.Why they don't is anyones guess.But if it's incase they upset the masses or "friends", then they need to look at their friends more closely.Touting for people to go over there is just stupid,because you'll be dropped like a ton of shit, which some people have already learnt the hard way.
If people are going to sing from the roof tops about ss then do it,but you can't have both.If you praise here,yet go over there aswell, then in my opinion you're not to be trusted.Especially knowing how alot of us feel about that place.x

 

[Deleted member 13437]

To the narcissus, my go to line is - “your face is f-ugly. So can imagine your genitals”. Got no time for idiots

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I think people get a misconstrued view of this site tbh.
Do people meet? Yes.
Are people actively meeting? Yes.
Do people want to meet? Yes...

Is it all and only a forum for chats? NO.
But forumites also make the place too y'know.. x

 

[Pearls]

 

[Firm hand Luke]

Well this was an interesting read

 

[Pearls]

Well this was an interesting read

It’s pretty relaxed I thought ?

 

[Firm hand Luke]

It’s pretty relaxed I thought ?

Aha. Relaxed. Let's go with that.

 

[Pearls]

Aha. Relaxed. Let's go with that.

?

 

[CocoDD]

I have hovered over this thread and agree with the replies.
It took a long time for me to realise what kind of person I was by staying on one particular site that I think you’re all talking about.
I won’t bore you with my experience but if I could break it down to why I finally left then it would be this.

Every person will say this statement
“if you filter out the crap then it’s fine”

So in my head I listed the crap.
Drug dealing on a huge scale, it’s big business
Pedophiles
incest

It was those three that woke me up and by filtering out that crap as you all say you are still supporting these sick people along with allowing a site to allow this behaviour to bring the money in.
Ask yourself a question, would you support these people if they lived in your street?

I am not a supporter of child abusers and drug dealers and by filtering out the crap all you are doing is accepting that this behaviour is acceptable but I can’t see it.

Look at the person you are. I did.
Coco ?xx

 

[Pearls]

I have hovered over this thread and agree with the replies.
It took a long time for me to realise what kind of person I was by staying on one particular site that I think you’re all talking about.
I won’t bore you with my experience but if I could break it down to why I finally left then it would be this.

Every person will say this statement
“if you filter out the crap then it’s fine”

So in my head I listed the crap.
Drug dealing on a huge scale, it’s big business
Pedophiles
incest

It was those three that woke me up and by filtering out that crap as you all say you are still supporting these sick people along with allowing a site to allow this behaviour to bring the money in.
Ask yourself a question, would you support these people if they lived in your street?

I am not a supporter of child abusers and drug dealers and by filtering out the crap all you are doing is accepting that this behaviour is acceptable but I can’t see it.

Look at the person you are. I did.
Coco ?xx

I don’t know what to say to that but it’s a very good valuable point.

 

[CocoDD]

I don’t know what to say to that but it’s a very good valuable point.

It goes on everywhere especially on swinging sites but I’ve never seen it as bad than on two I was on, I had to look at it in this way and have some self respect which clearly no one has by filtering out these animals. I’ve had pictures sent to me of children, offered so much white dust and worse. Is that swinging?

 

[Pearls]

It goes on everywhere especially on swinging sites but I’ve never seen it as bad than on two I was on, I had to look at it in this way and have some self respect which clearly no one has by filtering out these animals. I’ve had pictures sent to me of children, offered so much white dust and worse. Is that swinging?

Dear gawd no.

 

[Firm hand Luke]

Can't say I've witnessed any of that. Maybe I look like a policeman

 

[CocoDD]

Can't say I've witnessed any of that. Maybe I look like a policeman

I hear that all the time, it gives you a clear conscience ?x

 

[Pearls]

Could I just remind people that no such behaviour will be tolerated here so please report anything you feel isn’t right.
We have dealt with child offenders here and not only banned but informed the relevant authorities.
They can be sly and hide behind very clever avatars that can only be made clear when in the correct light. Usually black.

 

[CocoDD]

Could I just remind people that no such behaviour will be tolerated here so please report anything you feel isn’t right.
We have dealt with child offenders here and not only banned but informed the relevant authorities.
They can be sly and hide behind very clever avatars that can only be made clear when in the correct light. Usually black.

That’s another problem with the site, accounts get banned and they rejoin over and over so it’s never going to stop.

 

[Pearls]

That’s another problem with the site, accounts get banned and they rejoin over and over so it’s never going to stop.

That can’t happen here ?

 

[Skippy01]

That’s another problem with the site, accounts get banned and they rejoin over and over so it’s never going to stop.

They don't take an active role in running the site.They leave it to the little minions who favour anyone who pays them or fucks them.There's no security or safety measures in place to protect the rest of us x

 

[CocoDD]

They don't take an active role in running the site.They leave it to the little minions who favour anyone who pays them or fucks them.There's no security or safety measures in place to protect the rest of us x

Very true and the verification system is a joke.

 

[Skippy01]

Very true and the verification system is a joke.

That was one of my main issues over there,and why I do appreciate how it's done here.Everyone here is open and honest about what they are upto over there it's hidden and sometimes made up, so that you were basically walking into anything blind. I almost met someone over there.The usual "genuine bloke,looking for regular blah blah" Luckily I found out he had met the white van lady the week before and had hid the verification summary to cover his tracks lol x

 

[CocoDD]

That was one of my main issues over there,and why I do appreciate how it's done here.Everyone here is open and honest about what they are upto over there it's hidden and sometimes made up, so that you were basically walking into anything blind. I almost met someone over there.The usual "genuine bloke,looking for regular blah blah" Luckily I found out he had met the white van lady the week before and had hid the verification summary to cover his tracks lol x

Hiding the verifications sets off alarms.

 

[mrclouse]

That was one of my main issues over there,and why I do appreciate how it's done here.Everyone here is open and honest about what they are upto over there it's hidden and sometimes made up, so that you were basically walking into anything blind. I almost met someone over there.The usual "genuine bloke,looking for regular blah blah" Luckily I found out he had met the white van lady the week before and had hid the verification summary to cover his tracks lol x

White van lady?