Fuck and go sites

[MaleMan]

So just mark as spam?

Yeah mark as spam and set it up to flag that email from ever hitting your inbox

 

[Firm hand Luke]

Well then. Where do we start….

Grab a beer for this one.
First things first let’s look at what is allowed, then I will create another post reply with what’s not allowed here.

What’s allowed over there ??

1, Abuse.
I don’t care what anyone says, abuse of others is allowed and often encouraged there. In fact I’d even go as far to say that it’s lauded by their peers. Akin to taking people down for the sake of it.

1a, People have the option to self delete after abusing members and then can rejoin in order to continue it and ergo the cycle continues for the member being targeted.

1b, It’s widely encouraged and lauded by those who do it. They thrive on pissing on peoples parades there. Shit posting is encouraged.

1c, With regards to abuse on the forums, it’s not moderated on balance. There’s no level fairness. You will often find that the suspended account (timeout) is the one defending themselves.

2, Child sexual abuse imagery.?
We know it happens. We know it goes on.

2a, Child sexual persuasions. It’s rife over there. Do they care? Perhaps.. but do you still see threads and posts re the same? Yes.

3, Incest postings & threads. Yep. ?
Lots of mother & daughter requests.

4, Photo verifications which are NOT photo verifications.
The shit type people who do that, try it here. Doesn’t go far let me tell ya.

5, Self deletions. See point 1. Members have the choice to self delete. Security loophole ?

6, Drugs. Drugs is RIFE there. Powder, green, 420 friendly, pills. It’s a drugs playground.

7, Multiple accounts. People have multiple accounts and it’s not actively prevented. So you can join with several accounts and send as much shit to any one person as you’d like, get banned, then just fire up the burner one.

8, Privacy loopholes. There are literally tonnes of loopholes. Most of which I shan’t mention for what I hope are obvious reasons. ?

9, Indexing of content and media. Yes it gets indexed. We’ve seen a lot of media on there in Google. Some is promoted of course. But overall? You’re indexed without even realising it.
Think your name is safe with their asterisk? Think again. So easy, but ignorance is bliss eh?

10, GDPR compliant. ????. Like fuck they are.

11, Banned accounts don’t actually get restricted to site access. They’re ghosts. This is to harvest numbers.

12, Exploits and hacks. Yes they’ve been hacked many times. Yes there are exploits on the site. Yes PII (personally identifiable information) has been exposed.
But guess what? They’ve never released information about it. Which you’re duty bound to do.

13, Free site. ? Mugs.
It’s not free. Never has been, never will be.

14, Not for swingers. It’s a porn site. Not a swinging site.

15, They use illegal and unethical business practices. They like to monopolise the market. Trust me on that one. Happy to provide a whopper of an example.

16, They use cam girls and models for photos. Yep and the girls get paid for it. Why do you think they’ve never acted upon any of it?

17, Got trouble? Use filters. Oh aye. Filters and help weed out the crap. But should you have to? Isn’t it the admins job to keep the site safe, fun and friendly? No. It’s on you.
As they say, there’s no help - it’s community based help. i.e - you’re fucked. Get on with it.

18, They’re lying to you about an “app”. It’s not an app and it’s not native. It’s what we call a PWA (progressive web app) so a browser version of the site. But they like to treat you as thick muppets as we can see from the previous 17 notes above.

19, The site is full to the brim with fakes and dreamers. Literally Wade through them to get anywhere.

20, Men? Lol. Men are the cashcows. Simple.

There’s probably a lot more tbh, but that’ll do for now.

So, in essence - if you want to support:
Sexual abuse (and paedophilia)
Drugs
Abuse
Inept privacy
Loopholes
Fakes
Monopolising
Zero ethics
Zero understanding
Zero care for fake and lifted pics…

Then carry on and pay your silvers. You’re welcome to stay there tbh. We don’t want your sort here. What a site.

TBC X

So just so I am understanding you, people who are on there are not welcome here? That's what you are saying?

 

[Pearls]

So just so I am understanding you, people who are on there are not welcome here? That's what you are saying?

I think he means the trash that’s been mentioned, you know like drug dealers, child abusers and the people that love that kind of illegal shit that these people love. You’re not like that though are you Luke? More class than those trashy types. ?

 

[Pearls]

I think he means the trash that’s been mentioned, you know like drug dealers, child abusers and the people that love that kind of illegal shit that these people love. You’re not like that though are you Luke? More class than those trashy types. ?

Just to add, no. We don’t want people like that here.

 

[CocoDD]

So just so I am understanding you, people who are on there are not welcome here? That's what you are saying?

There is a site just like that, the verification system is extremely strict and they have a brilliant system of weeding out the people that are on the other site. It’s run by a company that organise events in London, if you are on that site you will not get an invitation to these events or the club that they run. Very professional and most importantly all about swinging and nothing more, the way it was many years ago on that site until it became what it is today. More elite but underground.

 

[Pearls]

There is a site just like that, the verification system is extremely strict and they have a brilliant system of weeding out the people that are on the other site. It’s run by a company that organise events in London, if you are on that site you will not get an invitation to these events or the club that they run. Very professional and most importantly all about swinging and nothing more, the way it was many years ago on that site until it became what it is today. More elite but underground.

You have to tell me who?

 

[CocoDD]

You have to tell me who?

Course I will babe ??

 

[Pearls]

Course I will babe ??

I’ll pop in your box now

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I think he means the trash that’s been mentioned, you know like drug dealers, child abusers and the people that love that kind of illegal shit that these people love. You’re not like that though are you Luke? More class than those trashy types. ?

Yes that. X

 

[Firm hand Luke]

I think he means the trash that’s been mentioned, you know like drug dealers, child abusers and the people that love that kind of illegal shit that these people love. You’re not like that though are you Luke? More class than those trashy types. ?

Putting aside the wild accusations for now, the statement was that if you pay for membership on said site then you are not welcome here. "We don't want your sort here"?

I'm going to overlook the post about another site and their system as it feels like it would be a beach of the rules about promoting other sites.

Interesting point about white van woman. I can't say I have any knowledge about this but wouldn't this be similar to a gangbang?

 

[Skippy01]

Putting aside the wild accusations for now, the statement was that if you pay for membership on said site then you are not welcome here. "We don't want your sort here"?

I'm going to overlook the post about another site and their system as it feels like it would be a beach of the rules about promoting other sites.

Interesting point about white van woman. I can't say I have any knowledge about this but wouldn't this be similar to a gangbang?

What point did I make about the white van lady?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Putting aside the wild accusations for now, the statement was that if you pay for membership on said site then you are not welcome here. "We don't want your sort here"?

I'm going to overlook the post about another site and their system as it feels like it would be a beach of the rules about promoting other sites.

Interesting point about white van woman. I can't say I have any knowledge about this but wouldn't this be similar to a gangbang?

Happy to take this private if you want.
I made my post and made it very clear what I meant.
Don’t like it?
Not my problem tbh.

We don’t want your sort here means drug dealers, paedophiles and arseholes.

 

[Firm hand Luke]

Happy to take this private if you want.
I made my post and made it very clear what I meant.
Don’t like it?
Not my problemHar

No it's fine, happy to keep it here.
Perhaps it's me but I don't find the original post I picked up on very clear and that is why I asked a specific question about it.

I'm sure it will come as no surprise to you now but I am on said site, along with a few others so I would like to know whether I am welcome here?

 

[Firm hand Luke]

What point did I make about the white van lady?

I don't think I specifically said you did?

 

[Skippy01]

I don't think I specifically said you did?

It was only me that mentioned her and described her way of meeting people

 

[Lips_Pearls]

No it's fine, happy to keep it here.
Perhaps it's me but I don't find the original post I picked up on very clear and that is why I asked a specific question about it.

I'm sure it will come as no surprise to you now but I am on said site, along with a few others so I would like to know whether I am welcome here?

Do you feel welcome? Are you made to feel welcomed and part of here?
Then accept it as so.

The point is very very clear - you’ve clearly misinterpreted it.
The trashy people who use that site for abhorrent reasons are welcome to stay there and we don’t want them here.

Don’t know about you, but that kind of shit doesn’t settle well with me.

Maybe you find it acceptable. I don’t know.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Anyway. Playing chess with my mate. Will come back to this if you’ve anything more to add.
Sorry if I’ve offended you with calling out arseholes elsewhere.

 

[Pearls]

Can I just add, the comments made here are from experience, not false. We experienced everything mentioned and if you’re not interested in swinging then it’s the perfect site. Just be careful and be safe there. I would say the biggest problem is how it’s run. Certainly not by swingers either. That’s another lie.

 

[Firm hand Luke]

Do you feel welcome? Are you made to feel welcomed and part of here?
Then accept it as so.

The point is very very clear - you’ve clearly misinterpreted it.
The trashy people who use that site for abhorrent reasons are welcome to stay there and we don’t want them here.

Don’t know about you, but that kind of shit doesn’t settle well with me.

Maybe you find it acceptable. I don’t know.

Do you feel welcome? Are you made to feel welcomed and part of here?
Then accept it as so.

The point is very very clear - you’ve clearly misinterpreted it.
The trashy people who use that site for abhorrent reasons are welcome to stay there and we don’t want them here.

Don’t know about you, but that kind of shit doesn’t settle well with me.

Maybe you find it acceptable. I don’t know.

I think you have answered my question with a question? I guess this is your right and you have no obligation to reply to my question as you are not an owner of this site or have any responsibilities in terms of its membership base. I thought you set this site up. I must have you confused with Legs (can't tria recall their username, sorry!)!

I understand you think you made your point very very clear. I am just saying it wasn't very very clear to me.

If there is any need to, I don't condone the instances you have mentioned and I like to think I'm a decent human being, although everyone has their right to have their own opinion.

I guess I'm more in favour of singing your own praises, rather than running other people (or institutions) down. At the end of the day, it's people who make things worthwhile or not.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

it wasn't very very clear to me.

Reread it and the context. ?
Yes, everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

 

[Skippy01]

Can I just add, the comments made here are from experience, not false. We experienced everything mentioned and if you’re not interested in swinging then it’s the perfect site. Just be careful and be safe there. I would say the biggest problem is how it’s run. Certainly not by swingers either. That’s another lie.

Yep.I covered my own arse and kept all the proof I need.Not that I'll waste my time justifying my opinion of the place x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Can I just add, the comments made here are from experience, not false. We experienced everything mentioned and if you’re not interested in swinging then it’s the perfect site. Just be careful and be safe there. I would say the biggest problem is how it’s run. Certainly not by swingers either. That’s another lie.

Exactly. This is/was our experience. No bullshit or wild accusations about it. That’s what happened.
It’s a full on porn site. Even now there’s threads discussing other members trying to charge for meeting up. Ffs ??‍ x

 

[Truckingscouser]

Interesting to read this thread, I've been a member on that site myself for years, never had anything from it, I originally signed up as i'd just discovered dogging and thought I might get some 'action' by being on there.
I've not used it for years but logged back in there about a year or so ago, i've even paid to be a silver member twice, thinking that it might make me attractive to others (being a single male isn't easy to get by in there) but it didn't change anything.
This thread has really opened my eyes, I must admit, I haven't been aware of any of the things described here (maybe i'm just naive) but I don't think i'll be paying any more!

 

[Deleted member 20904]

Interesting to read other peoples opinion of that site. I've been a member of that site for 2 years and only had one meet in that time. I've recently started to dislike that site due to the attitude of some of the forum mods on there. I posted on the forum offering advice to someone and then got a snarky response from one of the forum mods. From reading the comments on here as well as various review sites it seems that I'm not alone in having that opinion of the mods and admin. Was even a silver site supporter but that didn't make any difference.

Reading this thread has been a bit of an eye opener for me as well. Won't be paying for site supporter membership again on that site and will be deleting my account when my current silver membership expires.

 

[Truckingscouser]

Interesting to read other peoples opinion of that site. I've been a member of that site for 2 years and only had one meet in that time. I've recently started to dislike that site due to the attitude of some of the forum mods on there. I posted on the forum offering advice to someone and then got a snarky response from one of the forum mods. From reading the comments on here as well as various review sites it seems that I'm not alone in having that opinion of the mods and admin. Was even a silver site supporter but that didn't make any difference.

Reading this thread has been a bit of an eye opener for me as well. Won't be paying for site supporter membership again on that site and will be deleting my account when my current silver membership expires.

That's 2 more meets than i've ever had, and i was/am/have been a member for longer ?