I agree and therefore my friend, you are what would be classed as 'bi-friendly' - in other words happy to be around bi-sexual men who enjoy themselves.Great that you’ve given another angle to it. It’s all good. As the male in the relationship, I can only give my own opinion and what M has said to me when we’ve talked about it.
Personally, I don’t find men attractive at all. I think our cocks are amazing things and admire them. We all handle our own cocks....and would suck them if we could, lol, so I’m not put off by cocks! I’m confident enough to be OK with them and on their, or together, they don’t phase me.
But, put a woman alongside a man and I’ll go to the woman every time. Two men kissing, or stroking each other’s bodies turns me off....and would turn M off.
But, as we all know, everyone is differnt and there’s no right or wrong. Just individual ideals and appeals.
For clarity purposes only, I am not bisexual.
I do understand what you mean and I fully understand personally, that it can be hard at times to express and convey your feelings and decisions about this over the 'Net.
Best way to phrase this is, in future at least (in my humble opinion) is to say maybe = each to their own, not for me. Am happy around bi-men but not something I'd actively participate in" and sometimes that's all that needs to be said.
But I now do, after your explanation, understand what you mean.
There's a difference between being gay and being bi-sexual, bi-friendly and bi-playful.