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19 March 2015
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Am I right in saying the site etiquette is ask another member if you can follow them as oppose to just clicking their little button
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Clicking their little button eh? :whistle:
Well I think - judging by profile comments, that some people prefer to be asked, some don't mind either way and are just happy for the followers. :) x
 
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I always wait to maybe get to know them better and will always ask first. I just feel it's polite. Not saying it's wrong otherwise. I did get followed recently without any interaction before and none since. I don't follow them as they won't interact so I see no reason to.
Quality over quantity.
 
Pearls

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I always wait to maybe get to know them better and will always ask first. I just feel it's polite. Not saying it's wrong otherwise. I did get followed recently without any interaction before and none since. I don't follow them as they won't interact so I see no reason to.
Quality over quantity.
Quality over quantity for sure, as you know we only follow a select few, people we class as friends and have met really or would like to meet xx
 
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Pearls

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I must add, we had one guy who constantly nagged for a follow off us, would even post publicly to see if he would get a reaction, he was like a dog with a bone and only wanted the follow to access our media, we have a few! He is no longer with us and it would never have happened.
 
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Just noticed someone has unfollowed me since yesterday. Oh well.
 
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Just worked it out. It's that chap who thinks he's from "The Good Life"

Strange fellow.
 
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Eh? Fizzers is it? If so he's been inactive for a very long time now. Or is it someone else?

Anyway if anyone's stuck, there's some really useful advice in this thread which should help explain some things. :)
yeah fizzers, that's the one.
 
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26 July 2016
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We only follow 1 person since we came back but seem to have gained some follower's who have never even spoken 1 word to us. Thinking we should delete all follows and start again.
 
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Sammy

Just worked it out. It's that it chap
who thinks he's from "The Good Life"

Strange fellow.
We only follow 1 person since we came back but seem to have gained some follower's who have never even spoken 1 word to us. Thinking we should delete all follows and start again.

People can follow you you don't really get a choice - lots just click button , few ask

You cannot unfollow them who clicked without asking from Your end

You can unfollow those who you follow

unless there's been a changed during my awol period
S x
 
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People can follow you you don't really get a choice - lots just click button , few ask

You cannot unfollow them who clicked without asking from Your end

You can unfollow those who you follow

unless there's been a changed during my awol period
S x
Agreed, this is how it is and nothing has been changed - as there's nothing that needs changing. :) x
 
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Sammy

Agreed, this is how it is and nothing has been changed - as there's nothing that needs changing. :) x

Lol Sir I disputing just explaining as Bolton thought he could wipe things and start again

Can I ask about the unfollowing others that just follow - why can we not unfollow - is it in interest of community spirit ?
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Can I ask about the unfollowing others that just follow - why can we not unfollow - is it in interest of community spirit ?
If someone wants to follow you, they can.. there's nothing you can do to unfollow. However, you yourselves are in full control over what people see or don't see.
You can set every single option to people you choose to follow only, including media for example, so that means that the people who decide to follow you - won't really see anything anyway aside from posts etc. Does that make sense? x
Lol Sir I disputing just explaining as Bolton thought he could wipe things and start again
He can, he can unfollow everyone and then only follow who they decide they wish to.
I know you weren't :) x
 

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Can I just bump this again and mention that, it's good site etiquette and really - basic manners, to ask someone before following them rather than outright following them just because you feel like it.
Even more so, if the person(s) politely request that you please unfollow, you should accept their decision and kindly unfollow.
Many thanks x
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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oops Im guilty of this I will stop :hmm:
Wouldn't we live in a boring place if we followed every rule, be a rebel now and again and follow away hun, I don't tend to follow the rules and etiquette and follow without asking but we are who we are, if you think you would like to follow then please do so, it can't do much damage can it (y):D
 
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