Going Down On A Woman

  • Please check your spam/junk folder after registration, for your email. Thank you
Welcome to our Swinging Community
Join now to meet other like-minded swingers.
Sign up
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
Whilst I enjoy a man going down on me (as long as he doesnt suck so hard on might clit its like a hoover or bite me down there) I have only ever cum from it twice since I was 17.

Not sure what those guys did to get me to cum that was different to other guys and many many many men have all tried and nothing.

I’ve had men get upset and leave because I wouldn’t cum and had some ridicule me for it and actually make me cry they have been so cruel telling me Im made wrong because other women do!

I dont know if its because I have nerve issues and on meds that stop it or im just wired differently im not sure.
If a guys use’s his fingers on my clit i dont cum either, although if he has his fingers inside to stimulate my gspot and then uses his thumb to rub my clit I have actually climaxed that way.

Only i can make myself cum using my fingers directly on it whenever men do it it just hurts..

Sorry for rambling so much.. I just find it an interesting post and I feel at times like im weird but then you come to swingers sites and find out its not as uncommon as you thought!
 
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
Like with most things going down on a woman should be regarded as art. Not everyone can do it and when you do make sure its appreciated by at least one person other than u. The best way to learn it is to watch some lesbian porn, but not just any look out for the sensual ones. Mmmm. Other than that. "taste" if she has no underlying issues it shouldn't taste of anything odd. Apart from a sticky residue at the back of you throat. ;) and if and when she climaxes the following liquid should be regarded as The vine of the gods and embrace that :p

What if there is no ‘liquid’ when she cums.. i actually find after ive made myself orgasm or if i have during sex I go dry! Its like my vagina pulls itself tightly closed and pulls up all moisture! Its very odd
 
S

Sammy

What if there is no ‘liquid’ when she cums.. i actually find after ive made myself orgasm or if i have during sex I go dry! Its like my vagina pulls itself tightly closed and pulls up all moisture! Its very odd

That's not unusual hunni
That happens to Lots of women
There is a thread called Dry Orgasm on forum
Sx
 
D

Deleted member 9376

What if there is no ‘liquid’ when she cums.. i actually find after ive made myself orgasm or if i have during sex I go dry! Its like my vagina pulls itself tightly closed and pulls up all moisture! Its very odd
Well thank science for lubricants. But if I may state here, I do have my own mixture of lubricant that I use some times. Very slippery heats up aaand all natural. If all else fails, I'll just have to....
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
Well thank science for lubricants. But if I may state here, I do have my own mixture of lubricant that I use some times. Very slippery heats up aaand all natural. If all else fails, I'll just have to....

Oh before I cum there is a lot of wetness.. heck its like wet and wild just from kissing sometimes and if my gspot is stimulated then i gush like a bloody floodgate so no lube needed then, but a clitoral orgasm its like a vacuum sucks it all up!!

Im curious about this home made lube though! Whats in it?
 
D

Deleted member 9376

Oh before I cum there is a lot of wetness.. heck its like wet and wild just from kissing sometimes and if my gspot is stimulated then i gush like a bloody floodgate so no lube needed then, but a clitoral orgasm its like a vacuum sucks it all up!!

Im curious about this home made lube though! Whats in it?
If Merlin the wizard gave away his potions he wouldn't be Merlin would he.? I am person that likes to share, but since everyone can see this I rather not share here. ;)
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
If Merlin the wizard gave away his potions he wouldn't be Merlin would he.? I am person that likes to share, but since everyone can see this I rather not share here. ;)

Well PM it me if you dont mind that is. i am always looking for more natural methods as I have very sensitive skin and find a lot doesnt agree with my body and burns my skin!
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
S

Sammy

Well PM it me if you dont mind that is. i am always looking for more natural methods as I have very sensitive skin and find a lot doesnt agree with my body and burns my skin!

Snap hunni I have ultra sensitive skin and even " hypo or sensitive products " burn n irritate terrible .
Sx
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
I too was going to say the same. Out of the entire post, it was that which stood out to me most. No offence intended of course @Raven84 though. An excellent post, but along with @meandlis I also felt that this was completely fucking cruel. Idiots. (n) x

No offence at all.. it wasn’t nice and unfortunately due to another site out there which im sure everyone can guess what it is I met some truly horrible people, most I sussed out before it went any further but the two who have made me cry (though i held back until id marched them out - tbf I hadnt even done anything to them yet so they lost out on a world class bj haha) I unfortunately thought they were nice until It happened.

We live and learn though and go on to fight another day!
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
D

Deleted member 9376

Snap hunni I have ultra sensitive skin and even " hypo or sensitive products " burn n irritate terrible .
Sx
Don't worry damsel in distress, I have a solution for that too, as I do have sensitive skin down belooow.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
7 April 2018
212
645
City
Coddington
I've been looking too
I'll keep looking
Lots of girls on thread had issues with dryness and talked bout how partners always looked for wetness as a sign of arousal
Sx

Its really odd because there is plenty of wetness before hand but as soon as i climax it disappears.. i might have to ask on my next smear if i have a tiny dyson inside
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls
24 November 2015
20,110
56,051
Its really odd because there is plenty of wetness before hand but as soon as i climax it disappears.. i might have to ask on my next smear if i have a tiny dyson inside
Try a little natural yoghurt mixed with a very small amount of baby oil if you find you go dry once you've climaxed or are feeling a little dry its natural so no irritations
 
S

Sammy

Try a little natural yoghurt mixed with a very small amount of baby oil if you find you go dry once you've climaxed or are feeling a little dry its natural so no irritations

@Miss-Sexy-Legs can you remember the thread ... think it' was the gorgeous red head single girl into bdsm but I can't remember her name
Sx
 
  • Like
Reactions: Pearls